How prominent or present is the swinger vibe at LdS?
Often nude friendly places exist on a spectrum of pure naturism to mild voyeur/exhibitionism to full on play. My wife and I visited LdS recently with no expectations…we love that full spectrum.
But our take on the place was a bit confusing. At the start they warned us that folks had been advertising swinger events but that’s totally forbidden. There’s a lady policing the pool to stop any display of snuggliness. On the flip side, they advertise naked dance parties, the alcohol flows, and the daytime visible erections were more than a few.
We didn’t stay for the night. I guess my question is what are the unwritten rules of the place? We want to enjoy it to its full potential but don’t want to jeopardize anything, or offend anyone.