u/lillysdaddy

Looking for a food spot, and seeing if anyone is interested, DM for details if we find a spot

I am looking for a woman. Eventually for LT, however in the meantime, How about just a couple hours or 1 night of just laying in bed, kind of a snuggle buddy situation. Not looking for anything more than that. I'm tired of waking up alone, tired of being alone, and want some kind of connection. I have a king size sleep number bed. My Sister and her Daughter sleep upstairs, so Im not going to try anything, I just want to wake up next to someone. Anyway, if you think you might be interested, we can meet somewhere public, and decide from there.

I've decided I'm simply going to put what I want out into the universe and see who responds.

The happiest time in my life was in an MFF polycule—a true nesting triad where we built a life together. It wasn't all about sex. It was about connection, partnership, trust, affection, and having people to come home to. I want that again.

I'm looking for two women who are into each other as well as into me. Subs, betas, piggies, puppies, slaves, or whatever dynamic speaks to you. The labels matter less than the connection. I'm looking for something real: a full, committed nesting relationship in the real world.

About me:

M60. Dominant. Daddy Dom, Rigger, Gorean, Master. Over 30 years in the lifestyle, with a break in the middle to be a husband, father, and family man.

Bald. Bearded. Dad bod. Tattoos. Scars. A few broken bits. All earned through a life that's been lived rather than watched from the sidelines.

About you:

35+. You've got your own scars, stories, and lessons. You're open-minded, adventurous, self-aware, and either confident in your desires or curious enough to explore them. You value communication, honesty, trust, consent, and mutual respect.

Whether you're experienced or just discovering what you want, what matters is authenticity. I want women who enjoy exploring kink but also understand that relationships are built on far more than that. Affection, loyalty, laughter, companionship, vulnerability, and love matter just as much.

Notice I haven't said anything about looks. That's intentional. Personality, compatibility, character, and desire are far more important to me than fitting some physical ideal.

I'm not looking for a fling, a weekend, or a fantasy. I'm looking for a long-term situation. A family. A home. A tribe.

I'm in southeastern Arizona—about an hour from New Mexico, a few hours from Texas, and within reach of California—but I'm not tied to a location. For the right people and the right life, I'm willing to move.

I know most people won't understand what I'm looking for. That's fine. I'm not asking for universal approval. I'm looking for the people who read this and think, "Yes. That's exactly what I've been looking for too."

I've spent enough of my life settling for something close to what I wanted. I'm no longer interested in that. I'd rather be alone than build a life that doesn't fit.

If any of this resonates with you, send me a message. Let's talk and see where it goes.

TL;DR: Experienced Dominant seeking a long-term MFF nesting triad with two kinky women who want connection, commitment, family, and love—not just play.