
She ended our relationship because of my size and severe dyspaneuria π«‘
Hey !
I know we all share the same goals of growing length/girth or both, but I really feel like I need to share one of my dating experience that left me very sad and confused.
We all hear stuff like " go big or go home "
"Bigger is better" "no pain no gain" and lot of BS like that, but at the end of the day and as you've already guessed size is not everything in a healthy relationship...
To make a long story short, I have met a very nice girl. She was turning me on a lot physically and we instantly had this amazing connexion and stuff.
Even if I moved on with my life, I can remember our time spent together because we had a really nice vibe.
To be honest we had everything to be a couple and be happy together, but we were simply not sexually compatible..
////// some details to prove my point \\\\\\
The first time we had sex I had to do at least 30 + minutes of foreplay and use lube just to insert my glans and it's at least half an inch smaller than my shaft...
After a lot of efforts, lube and patience I could finally insert 1/4 of my D, but after no more than 5 minutes we had to stop and call it a day because she had intense pain from the friction (Dyspaneuria).
We kept dating and trying to have a decent sex life for 2 months and it was always the same outcome. Even if she was very wet and I used a shitload of lube, I could never have sex for more than 5 minutes with her.
She could still orgasm in 2-3 minutes, but After 3 to 5 minutes I always had to stop because of friction issues and I only had 1/3 of my D inside. Most of the time I had to finish myself with hands or with her hands and at first she loved it then she would complain that I was a bit too big for her and not quick enough to cum.
She started to think that it was because she was not turning me on an bs like that.
So we kept trying and trying and it was always the same result --> intense pain for her and no happy ending for me.
I wanted to stay in the relationship cause you know we had a nice vibe and sex is not everything, but on a friday night she dumped me out of nowhere by text message.
Her message was:
-Hey I want you to know that I think we had a nice time together, but It's not going to be possible for me to stay in the relationship and I think moving on is the best solution for both of us.
So I asked her to talk about it since I wanted to have more details about her decision and she confessed. She said that despite the fact that she would have some orgasms and fun with me, sex with me was not fun at all for her and specially the after sex because she had intense pain for a day or 2.
To be honest it's the very first time in my life I got rejected for being 2 big.
////// my stats for reference \\\\\\
I don't have a monster D far from that my stats are
7 length and 5.3 to 5.6 girth with maximum EQ or use of cock rings.
Her ex, with whom she had her longest relationship had a size of around
4.5 length and no more than 4 - 4.5 girth and the reason I know it is because she still had his dick as a sextoy in her bedroom. π π€‘
So guys, learn to be happy and to love yourself the way you are before anything else.
Be fit, smile, travel, work hard play hard, eat good food and enjoy your life and what you have in your pants because no matter what you do or what you are, people can or will find reasons to dump you !
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/painful-intercourse/symptoms-causes/syc-20375967