45 [M4F] #NorthShore - FWB
Why is so damn difficult to find a genuine fuck buddy??
Here's my story, I hope it finds its way to and resonates with someone looking for the same.
About me: I'm 45, 5'10", 225lbs, long hair, beard, and heavily tattooed. I'm married and we are poly/ENM. We've been married for almost 25 years and have been open for most of that time. You'll get no drama from us as this is not new and not an experiment, it's just who we are. While we do see other people both together and seperately, we do so cautiously and selectivly. My wife has some health issues, so STDs would be a major health crisis for her. She has a girlfriend she sees regularly and I haven't had another partner in over a year.
I'm kind of a nerd and I wear that badge proudly. I love movies (especially horror), DIY projects, punk shows, 3D printing, etc. I'm a dog person, and keep reptiles too. I am left leaning, but I distrust all politicians and have zero faith in our leaders on either side of the aisle. MAGA is a hard pass for me. It's not that I'm in any way elitist or look down on people with opposing views, I just don't trust your decision making skills or have any respect for hatred based on things people have no control over like race and sexuality. Kindness, empathy and acceptance are key traits I look for in a partner. I don't tolerate any type of homophobia or anti trans sentiments. My wife is bisexual, I consider myself to be heteroflexible and I have a trans aunt. I'm the wrong person to act bigoted around, and I have no problem making that known that when it happens.
My ideal FWB situation look like: Actual friends. We should actually like each others company, but understand that it's an intimate friendship, not a full time relationship. That said, text buddies is cool, going to dinner or a show every now and then is awesome. But we shouldn't be getting upset that the other doesn't respond to a text immediately or can't meet up at times. And we should NEVER be negative or toxic regarding each others spouses/partners. Mutual respect is key. Ideally I'd like you and my wife be friendly and able to talk openly. I've found things go a lot smoother when everyone communicates freely.
I love all women, but I have an affinity for BBW and girls with tattoos. Race isn't an issue at all. Age isn't a big deal either, though I tend to gravitate towards women around my age or older just because they are generally more emotionally mature and less superficial.
The fun stuff: I eat pussy for my own pleasure. It is by far my favorite sexual act and my tongue is like the Energizer bunny. I'm happiest when my face is buried between your thighs and my beard is dripping wet. I'm open to a lot sexually, but my hard limits are cutting, blood, diapers or anything bathroom related. Other than that I'm open to discuss whatever kinks you might have. I'm not necessarily looking for anthing too crazy, but I am open to trying new things!
If you read this far you may as well shoot me a message and find out if we click! Chat soon!