u/lotridaho

We’ve created a new text-only space for married or attached adults who prefer a more discreet, private way to connect. It’s for people who like to keep things simple, picture-free, and a little more personal.
R/IdahoMarriedR4R

Edit: added sub name

At first I thought it was just a one person thing, but scrolling through my messages I realized that, five dudes have messaged me or responded to my messages as dudes, when their post history of undelete posts looks as them as a woman?

Men you gotta know, a smart chick will not bang you out of sheer principle. If you sell yourself under a lie (which is hypocritical I know considering the sub reddit. But I argue "honor among thieves") then the apparent trust that is required to do the deed is already not established...food for thought.

There is this web site called Arctic Shift, you can search by entering a user name and it will show that all that user's posts, especially the deleted ones, and you can also search for their comments.

That's what I've been doing to determine if someone I knew was pretending to be a woman when he was a dude. He was commenting on his own posts and had a combination of acting like a chick, when his initial posts were a dude.

So anyways. Be safe peeps.

Spinoff from another post. Ive created a chat group for women interested in women but want to make sure they're talking to a woman...not a dude looking for a friend for his "naughty" friend. Legit chicks, looking for chicks.

Maybe have a chick orgey, I don't know because, I'm not there yet personally, but maybe I'd like the option in the future. I dont know. But, maybe we can make friends and just hold hands and dance to Abba. Whatever.

Message me, and I will pull a search on you on Arctic Shift. Review your search and post history, see if your legit. Accounts three months and older please. And I might ask questions that I may think of...don't freak out like that other guy.