u/lowiqpilot

Hi everyone,

I’m an 18-year-old guy and I’ve noticed something lately that has me curious about social boundaries and fashion choices. My mom is 40, and she’s quite fit and well-endowed.

What I’ve observed is that whenever guests, relatives, or neighbors come over, she usually skips the dupatta or scarf. Her outfits often show a significant amount of cleavage, and she seems very casual/nonchalant about it, even when people are sitting right across from her.

I want to clarify that I’m not uncomfortable or embarrassed by it; I’m just genuinely curious about the psychology or the "why" behind it.