Turns Out the Sexiest Thing a Man Can Wear Is Effort
After dealing with enough low effort men entitled men, I recently met someone who reminded me how powerful genuine effort can be.
He remembered the little things, flowers and chocolates on our first meeting, rings because he noticed I loved to wear them, perfume because I once mentioned I love fragrances. Every date felt intentional, couples massages followed by steamy baths, comedy shows, long drives, laughter, great food and drinks at places I always wanted to try.
Before leaving the country, he got matching thongs for both of us, and actually wore his, (I enjoyed seeing him get a wedgie) which was honestly adorable.
What really stayed with me was that evening when he had a bathtub set up with rose petals, bubbles, tea lights candled, and rosé wine waiting for us. It was not about luxury, he did all this himself... it was thought, attention, and making someone feel special. Even the next morning, he packed a salad he proudly makes himself.
To the men reading this, what makes a woman remember you usually is not just money or charm. It is listening. It is noticing details. It is the one who made them feel seen, desired, and respected. In a world where too many men speak to women as though they are escorts, prostitutes, or whores the moment money is involved, the ones who treat her with dignity, warmth, and intention are the ones who truly stand apart… and stay unforgettable. And yes ofcourse how well he used his d**k, his fingers and his mouth 😜😈.