u/merlinstears

37M4F - Tyler FWB?

Good evening everyone or whatever time of day it is when you are reading this in the future.

I’m single and not really looking to change that although I’m not categorically opposed to it. But I do find myself missing not just a physical connection, although that’s very important to me as my top love language (not just sex), but also a mental and emotional connection. I miss having someone to talk to about deeper subjects. I miss having someone to confide in and complain too when I’m irritated. I miss having someone that wants to text me throughout the day and can’t wait to see me once we’re free. I miss being the big spoon when you’re tired and just want someone to hold you.

Let’s text, go play tennis, see a movie, grab some sushi and watch Netflix, go to a thrift store, take a walk around the park, go out for a drink, talk philosophy or discuss the nature of life, and of course great sex is always nice as well.

Everyone has their opinion about what FWB means and whether it’s even possible to have what I’m describing without just outright dating. I honestly don’t know. I can see all sides of the argument. Maybe it’s not even possible but what I have in mind is more than friends but less than outright dating. If you think I’m delusional I’m not going to argue. I’m also open to discussing it and figuring out what works for everyone.

A little about me although I’d like to save most of that for the “get to know you part”: I’m 37, pretty good looking, shaved head, short beard, with bright blue eyes. I have a job and my own place in a nice neighborhood. I fancy myself fairly intelligent and able to hold a conversation. I’m an introvert and definitely shy at first but goofy and a smartass once I open up. I’m respectful, clean, and not pushy. Drink socially and don’t do any drugs.

If any of this resonates with you please reach out. I’d love to hear from a few nice women. Hope everyone has a great Friday night or rest of their day.

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u/merlinstears — 15 days ago