34/37[MF4M] #Massachusetts #New England- Seeking a fellow nerd as a long term partner
Just in case it's an issue. My wife (MTF37) and I (FTM34) are trans. Though we are not looking for T4T. Just looking for someone who is understanding and respectful. Though for reference we are binary trans and both of us are working to fully transition as much as medically possible. We do pass as the gender we are transitioning to.
We are looking for a guy who is bi (ideally a top or switch) and close to our age (25+) and lives in MA or the surrounding area. (We are in central MA) We prefer to not do a LDR. Though we have no problem driving a bit to meet up.
We are only interested in something serious. Not something focused around sex. Though the physical aspect is important to us. We are more focused on building something long lasting. So please be respectful of this and don't reach out if you're only looking for sex.
We would like to start as friends and see how things go. We are both demisexual.
Us- Been together for 14 yrs, married for 10 of those years. ENM for the past 5 years. We have tried different dynamics and have found an equal part throuple fits us best. Communication and respecting boundaries is big for us. We also want to make sure everyone has equal say in things. So being able to be open once you're comfortable is important.
Our dynamic is fairly relaxed. In general we like to enjoy the little things in life. We like to talk about anything from things that matter to hypothetical fantasy. Just being silly while also just liking to snuggle and be close. We enjoy the comfort of taking it easy despite all the chaos. Though we are also mindful of our health both mentally and physically.
We are both big animal lovers and have a variety of pets. Two small parrots (cockatiel and green cheek conure) rabbit, guinea pigs and a dog.
Her- 37/5’3 latina
Likes science specifically anything to do with dinosaurs. She also enjoys sci-fi and horror. She also likes playing a variety of games. Though oftentimes strategy or simulation games.
Him/Me- 34/5’2 white
I love to create and play with different crafts. Also into sci-fi and mystery (not much of a fan of horror) also enjoy a fair amount of anime. More of a casual gamer but up for most games that are multiplayer.
Thank you for reading this far. If we sound interesting please DM me and tell me a bit about yourself. I look forward to getting to know you.
Feel free to reach out if this has been up for a while and you think we would be a good fit for you. I’m going to only update when I feel like it needs to be.