I didn't know I could cum during sex
To preface, I know cumming during sex isn't everything, and it's not the goal, doesn't define your worth or skill, etc, but this is a big accomplishment to me personally (and an excuse to talk about my tboyfriend). You are not broken for not being able to orgasm.
I thought it was impossible for me due to many things.. until I got with my bf. Woo boy now I am cumming at least 3 times during sex (record rn is 14- I was so useless afterwards). He's just soo fucking good at oral,, and with his hands and tdick and strap but goddamn. His mouth. Was not expecting it to be so intense the first time I came from him sucking me off.
He could stay between my legs for up to an hour (and then go back in after a break). He tries to deepthroat my dick even though it's barely an inch long. Watching him bob his head up and down, drool all over my tdick and treat it like a natal penis is so affirming and hot. Love when I'm trying to push his head away and he just wraps his arms around my thighs or holds my hips in place and keeps going. I swear it sometimes feels like it's for his pleasure rather than mine (although I do love it, too). He also gives the best cuddles and kisses after scrambling my brain. I love him so much <3