Shopping irl
I know this is can be very daunting and scary but just go out shopping. I am not saying go to VS or intimate stores but going to walmart, target, marshalls etc is more easier than it seems. You tend to blend into all the chaos and no one is really paying any attention to you. Even if they do, they glance and move on. Maybe you are helping your gf, or friend look for something (i have seen so many guys with their SO picking panties etc). Also, a lot of places now have self checkout which makes it easier
Trust me no one will bat an eye but the exhilarating feeling will be the best...imagine all the clothes you wanted are already with you, no waiting for 2-3 days of shipping. You get to see, touch, and feel what you want
I have been going out shopping irl for almost 9 years (been a sissy for 10) and at no point have I gotten weird looks or stare.. just glances. I have gone out in my exs heeled booties, jeans etc during peak Christmas shopping and it was soo freely, i was on call most of the time and just went about my shopping. If people were looking I didnt really pay attention. I still regularly go out in womens joggers, pantyhose and panties underneath.
Once you do it a few times, you stop caring and actually enjoying
Trust me gurls just go shop... no one cares