I was too scared during my conservative upbringing to come out, now I'm a family. So here's to having a place to express ourselves😁

u/nikki_luv_closet_sub — 12 days ago
▲ 164 r/MatureTSandCD+1 crossposts

Too deep in family life to live my truth, I've come to terms with that, but luckily I have y'all. Here's to having a good place to express ourselves 😊

u/nikki_luv_closet_sub — 12 days ago
▲ 9 r/westernslopehookups+1 crossposts

M4M, 40, downlow, married father, total sub fem bottom. Looking for a similar aged or older, kind, masc, (total) top in similar circumstances; maybe a "lurker-too-shy-to-post" kinda guy? Secret rural love is hard to come by, but I'm looking for it, and pretty desperate for that kind of connection 😕

I just want a respectful, loving alpha that wants the same from his affectionate bottom. Discretion, drug and disease free a must (and I'm not one for drama either, which also means, if you're not into me, I have no problem respecting your preferences 😊)!

I love to explore the mountains and desert, and love to meet new people. I also like to dress, but I'm not a sissy that wants to call you daddy and it's not my entire identity; I'm just kind of a submissive gay bottom . I guess it just helps me embody the submissive, feminine side of the bedroom that I desire so much ( but I wouldn't mind wearing what you want me too 😁). So if you want to meet up and go on a hike or something to get to know each other, and talk about what we're into, I'm totally into it!

I don't always have the time I want to satisfy my fem side (I have a family, please don't judge, conservative upbringing, ya know?), and you might not have time either, but I'd love to try and find a way to make it work, even if we just connect here for a bit, but I'd like to get physical eventually if you're into me.

Seriously though, I'm looking for a good guy that I can have a romantic relationship with, so if you want me to "worship" you and be your "obedient fuck toy", I'm not gonna be into it, no offense intended whatsoever.

I know you're out there hun, and, trust me, I know it's hard hiding your secret side. And I want to give you the attention you deserve. Let's find a way to have fun together and be secret lovers 😉.

(bonus points if you're on the west side of the la platas)

u/nikki_luv_closet_sub — 12 days ago
▲ 55 r/westernslopehookups+2 crossposts

Here's to hoping it works out with one of y'all. I just don't have the freedom atm. Oh well, a horny bottom can hope for a miracle. Here's some pics 😁

u/nikki_luv_closet_sub — 11 days ago