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Well, the poll was overwhelmingly in favor of me posting this letter from my husband to my Master. It’s from a few years ago but I recently found it in an old email..
I swapped out my name of course for [my wife]
Enjoy!😉

“It’s with both discomfort that I write you these words.  

For several years now, I have witnessed you carefully seduce and masterfully control every part of my wife’s sexual being.  Often it’s come with the deepest of pain and heart ache as I’ve watched the love of my life, the only woman I’ll ever want to be with, bond deeper and lust so singularly for you while I’ve been left ignored and neglected.  I desire more deeply than anything the pleasures of my wife and her perfect body, but my sexual advances have long been rebuffed and she has made it clear to me they are unwelcome in favor of saving herself for you.  
The last scraps of my masculinity, and former role as her sexual partner have been methodically stripped from me, leaving my sexuality resolved to a place of utter emasculation.
I wanted it not to be true for so long, imagining it all a dream and waiting for her return, waiting for us to be normal in some way, but for some time now, it’s been constitutionally understood by both of us that that will never happen, that she belongs to and with you and there is nothing that will or should alter that reality.  You are her lover.  You are her Master.
While [my wife] has done what she can to perhaps slow this inevitability and seemingly protect me, she, and I, have come to the long overdue acceptance and understanding that you alone will be the constant focus of her worship and service.  You alone are her partner and owner of the entirety of her sexuality. And you alone deserve to enjoy her exclusively without my interrupting, distracting or in any way treating or touching her that doesn’t not honor yours and her relationship.

I am certain what is to come will bring further discomforts to me, but I also accept that you deserve to enjoy the spoils of my wife’s body exclusively, for you have earned her in a way I never did or ever could.  
It is understood that for [my wife] to more thoroughly serve you that your will and deeper enjoyment of her, may extend to and include my participation but more often my exclusion.
To be fair, my sexuality has long been entirely dependent on yours and her intense bond and the humiliation I feel because of it, so I nervously accept this next step as a necessary shift to solidifying your place in our lives.

This is a truly humbling experience and to be honest, I’m feeling a sense of overwhelming loss but I know I must do write these words.

Thank you for taking [my wife] from me. Thank you for leading her into your world and showing her your power and overtaking her body and mind. She now so clearly sees my sexual insignificance and recognizes I always have been and will forever be unsuitable as a sexual partner. My role is to exist to only serve your more important bond.. You did that to her, and for her. I owe you my sincerest gratitude and my respect.

As per your request, it is with respect, acceptance and understanding that I will not attempt to engage in any sexual act with [my wife] without expressed consent from you. “

Once, when I was deeply involved with a dominant man, he and I both knew we needed to take our bond to another level and that I be exclusive to him, but also that it be understood, accepted and respected by my husband. My master told me he wanted my husband to write him a letter explaining that he understood this next step and they he would not only accept it, but he wanted my husband to thank him.l for taking me from him. I can’t even imagine how humiliating that must have been for my husband, but he did it and surprisingly it turned me on so fucking much to see him diminished and give me up to this powerful man.

I just found the email recently.

Would anyone want to read the letter?

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Friday! What a week! So hot and so hot! 😂 I’m having trouble finishing work today because my mind keeps going back to yesterday afternoon.
I hadn’t allowed myself the freedom to enjoy another man in forever it seemed like, but I’m kind of amazed how easily I slipped back into that version of myself! Maybe there was a comfort with him or maybe it seemed like just yesterday he had me splayed out driving his cock into me.. I mean that in the “just yesterday like several years ago kind of way” hahahhaha. But actual yesterday, was fucking hot! I loved that I didn’t even get out of my bikini and I immediately just did what I wanted put my mouth on the head of his hard dick and sucked his delicious and still magnificent cock. I took him deep and I could tell he was loving the noises I was making as he popped in and out of my salivating mouth and throat. I think he could tell I was desperate to embrace that side of me. He just sat there and watched me, now married, taking him deep and smiling while licking his balls. Like he knew I needed it. Just to serve a masculine confident man. Everything left my mind and I simply pleasured him. It was my pleasure really. My husband wasn’t even a thought until much later as I approached our place. It’s funny that I didn’t feel the guilt I used to. I actually felt such a sense of peace and entitlement. For just a moment I contemplated telling my husband to feed him the angst and humiliation that I know he probably needs, but then I thought, no, I think I’ll keep this one to myself. It had been a while and I just wanted to enjoy it alone. Having that taste of semen on my lips when I got home. It was so familiar. It felt so right. And I loved giving my husband a kiss as I walked in. I think he thinks that part of me is in our past. It had been so long since I’d done anything, since I’d cheated or humiliated him, I thought maybe it wasn’t still in me 😂 but nope, it’s still there! But I think I’ll take this next chapter slow and maybe just let it happen naturally and not force labels or outcomes. It was just so sexy to feel free again and enjoy the energy of real masculinity. 🫠🔥

I don’t have a bull/dom at the moment but I still want to maintain some of the hierarchical dynamic between my husband and I that exists when I do have another more capable primary sexual partner.
I think it’s important to keep him in his diminished role but I also enjoy the power and attention that comes with it. I’m not a naturally cruel person so I can struggle with humiliating my husband during times when I don’t have a more powerful man leading me.
I’d love to hear some ideas that could keep and reinforce my being sexually superior and him being inferior during these quieter periods. I don’t want him coming up for air 😂
I do have him massage me a lot and I feed him my pussy and ass to clean and please without reciprocation pretty regularly. I’ll let him ruin himself to me occasionally. I torture him with the visual of me in skimpy bikinis and panties, but I could use some ideas how to humiliate or emasculate him so our dynamic remains consistent even if I’m not presently getting the hard fucking I love and deserve.
Tbh, this is more for me than him, but I know treating him certain ways will only ever solidify his weaker sexual identity and role benefit me.😊

I prefer to leave him at home and enjoy sex with a deserving dominant man without the distraction of my husband. He’s never seen me have sex with anyone else and I don’t ever want him to. I think it’s more emotional for him that I don’t want to include him. And I like that it adds a layer of humiliation that I can fuck whoever, whenever, wherever I choose and there’s nothing he can do to stop me. I know it sounds harsh but it turns me on to cheat on him or sometimes rub it in his face but never include him. I know it destroys him because he’s been so sexually diminished over the years and I’m sure he’s jump at any chance to witness my sexuality in full display. He’s so desperate and pathetic but i just don’t think it’s appropriate for him to get to enjoy see me getting fucked. He’s a wonderful husband but terrible in bed and always was. I love coming home from fucking and feeling powerful and confident and knowing he doesn’t deserve to experience me the way other men do. It’s like he’s not even a cuck, he’s something beyond that - just so beautifully broken and undeserving of the visual of me being taken and used by a dominant masculine man. Fuck! Just thinking about it has me so turned on. Feeling that difference of being fucked properly vs the inadequacies of my husband. I think I’m going to have him just sniff my ass tonight and make him jerk his little dick to me. Because the longer he does only that, without inviting him to enjoy me beyond that, he’ll have to consider I must be getting it somewhere else…..🔥😈😊
Curious if any bulls like fucking a wife on their own vs in front of the husband. I need to make a poll! Hahahahha