I am 21-year-old female. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. Everything is good within our relationship. One day I went through his phone because he left it open and I was just gonna take some selfies and keep them in there for him. Well, a group text kept going off. So I clicked it and it was him in about eight of his friends. And in the group text, they were all talking about girls/girlfriends. They were talking about bodies and boobs and ass. I was stunned. There was stuff in there that I wish I didn’t see. I know men obviously you are always gonna talk about women’s bodies and what not. But I guess it was just shocking to read it all. There were also pictures of girlfriends in there. So that was a little unsettling. I haven’t told him anything because I do feel bad for going through his phone. But it was a little odd to see him in a different view. Am I over doing this or is it something I should be concerned about.
u/parkeblue9
I have been with my boyfriend for a little over two years. He is the first guy that I’ve been with where he asked if I would be OK being shared with his friends. I literally laughed it off and thought it was more of a joke than anything. I’ve never even met anybody with a kink like that lol. I thought that was only in porn. Well, one night we’re having a kickback with a few friends and we are all smoking and having a good time. Things get a little heavy and me and my boyfriend end making out on the couch in front of his friends. It was all harmless and fun. Well the next thing that happened got a little out of control. I ended up giving him a blowjob in front of his friends. He ended up having sex with me in front of them as well. No excuses and I’m not mad at him because I let it happen. But I also woke up a little disgusted and disappointed in myself. I don’t know if I should be upset with him because he let it go that far and he knew I’d never wanted to be watched or shared. I’m just worried now that it’s gonna be awkward. Next time I see his friends.
I have been with my boyfriend for a little over two years. He is the first guy that I’ve been with where he asked if I would be OK being shared with his friends. I literally laughed it off and thought it was more of a joke than anything. I’ve never even met anybody with a kink like that lol. I thought that was only in porn. Well, one night we’re having a kickback with a few friends and we are all smoking and having a good time. Things get a little heavy and me and my boyfriend end making out on the couch in front of his friends. It was all harmless and fun. Well the next thing that happened got a little out of control. I ended up giving him a blowjob in front of his friends. He ended up having sex with me in front of them as well. No excuses and I’m not mad at him because I let it happen. But I also woke up a little disgusted and disappointed in myself. I don’t know if I should be upset with him because he let it go that far and he knew I’d never wanted to be watched or shared. I’m just worried now that it’s gonna be awkward. Next time I see his friends.