32m, Married, physically unsatisfied but Okay otherwise. This is my story!
Hi all. I go by the name Kammie and reddit is where I secretly vent out. I'm 32M based at a far end in Navi Mumbai. Mine is a love marriage, still standing strong since 8 years despite challenges. My wife wanted a baby initially but I was against it since I had my own reasons. I felt we were financially not ready for this.
Now that when I feel we are ready financially and emotionally, she denies me sex because I denied her initially. We did it rarely and with protection because I was stressed most of the time working hard to make ends meet. Now, we have sex once or twice a year and its very mechanical at her end.
I'm very kinky and we've done it many times before marriage because it was our young horny blood. But now? Our physical life hits an eclipse when we reach our bedroom. Otherwise, we spoil each other with gestures.
Our close friends and relatives call us the ideal couple because how well we take care of each other. This is the only thing that is holding us back. However, trying to talk it out leads to arguments between us.
A few months ago I learnt from one of my Bhabhi that she also gets denied sex post the birth of their first child. Her mother-in-law is my Masi. Masi always tries to create rifts between Bhabhi and her husband.
Masi even didn't let them sleep together for more than three years now. Having found each other in a similar situation, we agreed to relieve each other. We had our own reasons to not leave our respective marriages. But now we are secretly continuing our relationship.
How many of you are into an otherwise okay relationship with your spouse or GF/BF but are secretly into something physical with someone else? Share your stories. I'll share mine with my Bhabhi in the next post!