Anyone else struggle with feeling comfortable enough to be lewd with others from here?
I've been lurking for a while and despite being very into this kink I'm scared to trust people and it feels like most just want pictures and voice calls immediately... People are scary, and feeling rushed/uncomfortable makes me disappear. I really want to have someone I'm comfortable with, maybe even get close enough for dating?.. I wouldn't say no to a cute silly kinky gamer boy that's kind empathetic and good at communicating, but getting there is the issue... I really yearn for the sexual and romantic connection but it's scary.
And I know I'm basically shooting myself in the foot not responding to people, but letting people in is hard, especially when it's NSFW oriented first...
Does anyone have any advice for me? ):
Edit: Do NOT dm me sexual messages!! I will report you for rule 7 - ignoring consent.