I'm 24 and still a virgin. Never fucked, never got that close. The most I've done is make out with a few girls. Ppl keep telling me I'm good looking (delusion me hai sab), and honestly some girls have tried hard to get my attention. One junior even asked me out on a date directly. But I just can't seem to escalate shit.
My past experiences with women fucked me up pretty bad (don't date bengali women 🙏). I can be friends with girls without any issue, but unless they themselves make the first moves and push things forward, I don't do jack shit. And most of the time, they don’t.
I’ve tried dating apps too. Got some decent matches, had long talking stages, but it never turned into anything real. I do find girls hot as fuck, but unless I actually know them well, the attraction is temporary and dies out fast.
My last situationship really broke something in me. After that mess, I’ve become completely emotionally numb. I can’t feel shit anymore, no excitement, no real desire, nothing.
Now I’m just stuck. I want to fix this, go out with girls (not just for sex but to spend real good time), have fun and actually start living, but I don’t know how.
What the fuck should I do?