Ever since my first relationship, I have been fascinated by size: what everyone is hiding under their shirt or in their trousers and how much it matters to them (if at all). Later the interest grew to include proportions - anything that's quite a bit smaller, or larger, than others would expect. Anything that would cause surprise (whether happy or disappointed).
Are you someone of unusual size or proportions? Have you been with someone who is? Are you also interested in life when it is not quite made to measure? Or am I just barking up the wrong tree?
I'd love to chat with anyone who has stories, whether first or second hand, and to hear your feelings on how expectations shape reality and how reality shapes our self image. So please, say hello if you've got something to share!