Hey everyone,
I'm a 23M with what most people would call a very feminine body — narrow shoulders, wide hips, and a noticeably big round ass. I've always felt a bit awkward about it, especially since I grew up with only sisters and a lot of feminine energy around me. Clothes never fit quite right on my lower body, and I get comments sometimes.
Lately I've been having mixed feelings. Part of me wants to just accept my body as it is and feel more comfortable in it. Another part of me sometimes wonders what it would be like to lean more into a feminine presentation or even explore a softer/sissy side. I'm shy as hell about this and I haven't really acted on it much. I'm not fully sure what I want yet — I'm somewhere between "this is just my genetics, deal with it" and "maybe I should try embracing the feminine look more."
Has anyone here been in a similar spot? Especially guys who started with a curvy/feminine build. How did you handle the confusion? Did you fight it with gym/masculine training, lean into it, or find some middle ground? Any advice on clothes, mindset, or just dealing with the shyness would help.