u/randomsmthh

Sorry if this is not the right place to ask but I feel like I can't be the only one with this problem in this community.

It's genuinely a problem where I start seeing someone and we both realize we’re submissive😭 so the dynamic just dies. I don’t think I come across as dominant at all . I do present more feminine (femboy style, both casually and going out), though I know that doesn’t automatically equal submissive.

For context, I’m not interested in men they are always weird to me

Has anyone else run into this pattern or know why it happens?

P.S: I don't mean this nessceseraly as kinky thing but as a relationship thing in general >~<