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Sorry for the mess i was working on something >.> also my hair isn't styled

Ignore my messy room I was working on smth. Also I didn't style my hair yet 😭

(The image is random just so I make the post more interesting >.>)

I feel like I try so much to not look ugly but no matter what I do I still looked chopped af. Also it sucks that how pretty your face looks is pretty much the most deciding factor of how everything else about you is perceived. Like you can have messy hair and it just becomes "cute" if you are pretty enough. You can wear the most unflattering things and it's just seen as fashion if you are pretty enough.

Anyway since I was 14 (I'm 21 rn so unc in femboy years) I had went to the dermatologist for my acne and I went through like 50 different products but nothing helped. I switched dermatologists 4 times and no one was able to fix my acne. I wanted to get tretonin but it's prescription only and my derm doesn't want to prescribe it for me and I don't have the money to switch again so I'll probably have to get it illegally which is also expensive but if it will help I'm wiling to try it.

Currently I'm doing topological estradiol every day (along with cleanser and sunscreen and yadidadia) because I found this study saying it will help (I can post more of them if someone's interested. It's not a one of thing there's plenty of research behind it) so I'll see how that goes.

I cannot afford plastic surgery (even the cheap ones like rhinoplasty) and I don't even know what exactly is it about my face I don't like. I cannot name the exact feature and in what way it's bad I just know it is it's wrong so I don't even know what I would ask for.

So am I left with just wearing make up every single day everywhere I go and get really good at it? Is there something else I could do?

And please don't say the bs like "oh you just have to love yourself more and not care about it so much" THAT DOESN'T FIX MY FACE. It doesn't make my face less ugly so it's not helpful.

This is a question for mostly women and enbies on here,
since a lot of mainstream femboy culture is targeted mostly at gay/bi men, what are some things you like seeing on posts from femboys? Specific poses? A story? Kinds of outfits? Style of fashion? Skin? I really want to hear your opinions! I feel like what women actually like is often times overlooked in society in general, and I think it's especially true in this niche.

Please share absolutely anything you feel comfortable with and isn't against the subreddit rules. I want to hear it :3

(art by koyashka)

People always complain about femboys wearing the amazon basics fit, hopefully this will inspire some of you to thrift more of your clothes >.>

Sorry if this is not the right place to ask but I feel like I can't be the only one with this problem in this community.

It's genuinely a problem where I start seeing someone and we both realize we’re submissive😭 so the dynamic just dies. I don’t think I come across as dominant at all . I do present more feminine (femboy style, both casually and going out), though I know that doesn’t automatically equal submissive.

For context, I’m not interested in men they are always weird to me

Has anyone else run into this pattern or know why it happens?

P.S: I don't mean this nessceseraly as kinky thing but as a relationship thing in general >~<