36[F4M] Be careful everyone
It feels way to heavy i need to take it out. I posted here a week ago or so searching for FWB with an emphasis on being friends. I met a few here but this has to be the worst meetup.
I 36F met with 25M. Sobrang linaw sa post ko na SFW lang initial meet just to check the vibe. Sa convo namin i was very clear din than I'm not into PDA or being clingy in public. Yes, im looking for FWB but i clearly stated boundaries.
To cut the story short, sa mall kami nagkita. Hindi ko alam na he was behind me. He said my name and i said Hi, tapos he held me by the nape of my neck. Hindi sya naka akbay, like literally his hand was holding me by the neck. I told him how it was making me uncomfortable. Tapos binaba nya, mamaya binalik na naman nya. It happened more than twice. We decided to have lunch somewhere and he kept touching me by the knees. I already promised to get coffee or dessert and i felt the need to keep my word. After coffee I went home.
Before you judge me if you think this is shallow, yes may mga na meet na ko dito for NSFW but never pa nangyari sakin that someone stepped over the boundaries I've set. It has always been consensual. If you're wondering why i didn't walk away right away ( which i think now was the right thing to do ) , I'd say it's a mix of fear, helplessness and hope that it will turn out better.
I already sent him a message about it and he apologized. But honestly, it didn't make me feel any better. Im just hoping he understands the weight of what he has done and learn about the importance of consent.
I don't mean to discourage anyone but be reminded to always be vigilant and always meet in a public place.
Stay safe and happy hunting!