u/shortandsophia

I just wanted to share my sadness about losing contact with another redditor 😞

A few weeks ago I was in dire need of a “distraction” or something to keep me going through college finals. One day started talking to a guy thinking it would be a one and done conversation, something to take the edge of.
Mind you I’ve never had any private/intimate conversations with anyone ever, so I didn’t expect much of it. Also, you never know with people you “meet” online.

Turns out I had the time of my life that evening and we continued with those conversations for a few days (maybe 3-4 days). As I said I was mid exam season and he had work, that plus us being in different time zones made us stop talking abruptly.

I let it slide for a week or so, thinking that was the end of it and that I’d forget about it, but I find myself thinking about him at least once daily😕

We didn’t establish any sort of connection, just pure chemistry (at least on my part). I have texted him again but he hasn’t opened my messages in over a day.

I know I’m probably being ghosted but Idk how to get over it😭

edit: I’ve never finished as hard in my life so I guess that’s why I’m missing him so much

hi, i (21F) have tried to engage in a fun dynamic with a daddy for a while now, but i can’t seem to find my match

they’re always either too harsh and demanding, making me feel sad and not heard at ALL 😕or they don’t know how to make me do what they want me to do and i end up feeling like the dom 😤

i am relatively new to this world and i just need someone to take the lead, is that too hard to find? i just want a purely online relationship with a daddy who knows what he wants

question for any other brats: was it this hard at the beginning of your journey too? how do you know if a daddy is going to be a good match without getting hurt in the discovery process?

question for any doms/daddies out there: what red flags should i look out for? am i really in the wrong when i try to set my boundaries and i’m made to feel bad about it for “disobeying”?

please be kind, i’m literally just a girl🎀

ps: if anyone knows where to look for, i haven’t found any good communities here :(

hi :) I (F21) have had a weird relationship with masturbation my whole life. Going from periods of time where i’m constantly engaging in it to times where i can go months and months without even thinking about it.

the thing is these past few days i have been thinking about it non stop and it’s getting in the way of things i have to do (for instance, studying for my finals)

i also just discovered a “technique” (if you will hahah) that made me feel like never before and i bought myself a small toy a couple of months ago and so i can’t seem to stop myself

i don’t want to quit it all together by any means, but i do want to be able to control it.

any tips?

hi, I F21 have been wondering if I could be a brat or if I simply don’t fit into the dom/sub world.

I’ve never had a relationship like that, but I’ve read about it and I do think I’m attracted to doms. However, there are a lot pf things that I wouldn’t be able to do or that I know I would put up a fight about.

I don’t know any doms/subs or brats personally to talk to about this.

If any dom or brat could help me understand this dynamic I would appreciate:)

Also, I don’t know how people get into these relationships, like, what’s the starting point? At what point of meeting a new person do you bring this up?