u/sissyindira

Hey girlies

Writing this at work about what happened to me today morning.

So today I was going to a work site with my colleague and I started getting incredibly hard - with like no stimulation whatsoever. We were just on a dual carriageway and just that.

It’s when I thought for a second, that I noticed the sound of my colleagues keychain bumping against the steering column - IT WAS THE EXACT SAME SAME SOUND MY CLIT MAKES DURING SEX!!!!

The sound of the lock hitting against the hood of my chastity cage sounded EXACTLY like the sound of my colleges keychain bumping against plastic.

The fact that my subconscious brain picked it up and got me hard makes me laugh and get horny at the same time. I’ll definitely be hearing that sound again before the weekend is over. I’m determined 😈😋

Hey girliesss

First of do you cage? If so how far into the sissy tunnel did you buy your first cage?

How do you use your chastity cages? I use mine a lot when playing with my pussy, so that I can focus on other sensations more and I also use it when I'm too horny and I need to get work done or focus on something. I also use it while dressing up, especially when in just lingerie, because I like the way it looks (looks cute 🥰) but my main reason for getting a cage was to lock up before hookups and sessions. I'm very into key holding, and I like being locked up before a hookup, so that I can build up the excitement and fantasy of it without any of the horniness leaking out (horniness is the only only thing not allowed to leak)

Would love to know your relationship with your cage, how you got into it and how it helps or adds to your sissy persona and/or daily life

Love xx

Hey girlies I know alot of you like to keep your sissy life secret and in today’s world that is increasingly difficult. I’m quite tech savvy and privacy focused my design so this was easier.

I’ll split this into 3

**1. Appearances**

I wanted to look more feminine while dressed but still masculine in boy mode and without having people suspicious.

First I lost weight and got more muscular/lean. This made me prettier but mainly now I had a proper excuse to laser my whole body.

I use an eyeliner gel or something to shaper brows. I never do anything that’s permanent.

All makeup, toys, clothes stay in a locked luggage with an additional lock. When I have guest over for extended periods I stow it away in a storage unit. Only sissy related objects that’s out and about is my shower plug and chastity cleaning kit which both remain inside the bathroom in a lockbox.

Also DO NOT underestimate the power of a proper face of makeup. The right foundation and contouring combined with the rest will completely transform you! Ive tested this!! I got a 6 hour glam course (2hr sessions) at a popular UK cross dresser boutique. Also a full glam job with outfit and everything is a huge treat esp if you’re starting out. It helps you understand the true potential of your feminine self and is very flattering and hot.

I take regular breaks between chastity and limp sissygasms so that I can perform normally in sex with females (although it’s not really a thing, it’s more based around mental but just to be safe ).

**2. Online presence**

I use a Google pixel running graphed OS for sissy stuff. which is a privacy and security focussed version of android with stuff like distress passcodes and lots more. I also use a separate laptop with bit locker and Veracrypt. Every single thing is over data, on VPN. Absolutely nothing touches my main devices. Not even a DM.

Everything including buying clothes, arranging meets etc are all done on them. Use separate accounts using ur sissy email for everything (and I mean everything. I even use a seperate Spotify). I also have a separate online bank account, email (I recommend proton) and phone number for sissy stuff as well.

I don’t post photos with face and although I record my hookups I usually don’t post them nor do I give them to my dom straight away. I always edit it and blur it myself before I do. And if I do post on life fetlife or sending to someone I have a folder of pictures I use just for that and they’ve all been stripped of almost all meta data. I mainly only keep photos on my devices.

I only take photos and videos in hotel rooms and make sure there are no identifiers

Also I’m the only person allowed to record. I’m pretty into film and photo so this is easy. Others will be given my devices to record on.

All photos and videos stay on a cloud that’s in my sissy name and creds. Physical backups exists with a high end self encryption and doomsday and distress feature.

**3. Meets**

First and foremost I don’t do random hookups. I always talk to them extensively before hand knowing their kinks and desires so I’m not wasting my time. There’s a lot of wanna be all talk no cock doms out there. I’ve found good doms on Reddit and fetlife. Grindr is mostly rubbish and too unsafe but hinge is good if you’re looking for a FWB or long term dom. There’s something called sniffies, I haven’t tried it myself but I think it’s in the same cup as grindr.

I book a hotel and get ready there. In London where I live I have a hotel I visit often which allows me to check in under an alias. Other hotels tho will require ID.

I can’t recommend getting a gay escort enough. I use RENT MEN and it’s great. You can find very dominant men through search filters and they are tested and can prove it. They’re usually very experienced, caring and make the whole thing much more comfortable and safer. I’ve never had issues finding a BDSM dom while travelling.

To verify on Reddit/fetlife it’s the usual holding up date and username on crumbled paper against yourself.

I usually don’t tell people where I am going when going for overnight trips and I don’t take my main phone to hookups bc of find my friends. I use something called deadman’s switch where basically if you don’t get back home in x amount of time and are not responding to alerts it sends out a distress signal. Also if you’re recording remember to turn of geotagging.

That’s all I can remember for now but I think there are still little things I do here and there to separate my identity. You may think this is overkill but as someone who’s into cybersecurity, the reward is 1000% worth the effort. Also you never know when you’ll open you Amazon account or Spotify, notes app anything really in front on someone. Maybe you were checking the delivery status of a regular delivery or you forgot to logout of Reddit. There’s many ways.

An added benefit is when I’m logging into and using these accounts I embody my sissy persona deeply which really adds to the monotonous bits of the lifestyle.

I really hope this helps and if there’s anything you need to know please ask

Love xx

UPDATE : I also sometimes use contacts to change eye colour, this is easy for me as I usually wear contacts but I get some may be squeamish.

How long did you girlies just indulge yourself is the process of it (hypno, porn, plugs, dressing up etc) before actually seeking out for cock?

I’ve been heavy into sissy porn for the last 2 years (cuckold or trans before that for several years) and got into hypno recently. I bought my first plug a year ago now I have 5 toys. Went to a cross dress boutique last month and got a full glam makeover and ever since I’ve been dressing up and practising makeup. Bought heels, lingerie, stockings and clothes. And now lately over the past few weeks my craving for cock is insatiable. I don’t even get PNC anymore. I put out a post on a local hookup reddit to test the waters and the response has been so overwhelming and awakening I had to delete it. I really find myself wanting to please men and find sexual pleasure and happiness in degradation and worshipping.

Thinking of getting a cage now

Would love to hear what your process has been, how long it took and if you haven’t yet, I’d like to hear your thoughts behind that as well

Love xx

While I was getting ready to use my dildo today I realised something

I’ve not watched regular porn in over a year it’s always trans or sissy stuff or hypno and ever since I locked myself, it’s really only been hypno

I wanted to get in the mood so I put on some BNWO hypno. Started leaking profusely and switched over trying to find some BBC porn where the man is extremely domination and regarding, just how I like it. Came across and video and put it on and started using my dildo. Was thinking to myself damn this is so hot I would love to be her, and that’s when the realisation happened.

I used to jerk off to this video years ago…..fantasising to be the man…..

I have done a complete circle going from wanting to be the man to fantasising about being the women being dominated by a thick BBC…..came a little quicker to that thought 🫢

Heyyy

Sorry for the long post in advance. TLDR in comments

So in my regular like I’m a bisexual guy and pretty masculine and dominant as in I know what I want and how to get it, and I don’t let people fool around me or my loved ones. I’m pretty athletic from bodybuilding and mountaineering and have broad shoulders (I’m 170cm or 5’7)

I’ve mainly had female friends since childhood as all my cousins were girls and I was just more comfortable w girls (98% platonic I don’t wanna fuck every girl I see). I think naturally I started wearing my moms clothes when I was like 12-13 and also had makeover done by friends in my late teens. I’m pretty sexually open and I’m confident in my sexuality that I’ve briefly dated a trans woman and had a ONS with a guy at uni. Just to experiment and while I appreciated both in the moment, it wasn’t something that enticed me.

All my other relations were w women and I’ve had 2 gfs in the past. I’m quite extroverted and outgoing so I’ve not really had any trouble with women in the past nor am I “sexually frustrated”. I work a serious and busy job so times not really on my side these days and I’m particular about spending what available time I have on something or someone I enjoy, and coincidentally I’ve gone on less dates recently and have been single for a while.

Now I got into sissy stuff when I was 20 and I got into it really well. I mainly loved sissy porn and later Hypnos and caption. I have a chastity cage and a fucking machine and I now like anal stimulation. I also have dressed up and put make up on on several occasions and recently sissygasmed for the first time while locked.

I wanna start shaving my whole body soon and start working out my glutes more for a better ass and I’ve been having severe urges to meet men to hook up. Thing is when I’m in sissy mode I get off on degradation and humiliation which I usually wouldn’t allow in my boy life. The fantasy of being severally degraded and fucked has been really turning me on lately. And to be honest I crave cock more than men and not necessarily big cock, just cocks in general. Also I prefer older men (I prefer older women too tbf)

Can you ladies share what it’s like juggling the 2 sides and if either side bleeds into the other? I wanna keep both sides strictly separate. I think shaving will be the only real identifier but then again I used to shave my body in uni as I thought girls liked the muscular look and I have no beard so it’s not a big deal and for legs I can wear stockings.

I’m scared whether indulging into hooking up w men and the sissy life might deter me from seeking relationships w women. I don’t wanna transition and I’m not looking for long term sissy relationships.

In my head my affinity for the sissy life is a sexual kink or fantasy. I’m not necessarily ashamed or disgusted by it as some are as I’m pretty comfortable in my skin and I’m safe in terms of hooking up. I don’t really get bad PNC that often (or ever really) but sometimes I get disinterested for a little while (like under 15 mins) before I get back into it.

Can you give me some insight and advice into the sissy life please? Experiences or feelings from real life and how it feels going back to a woman after being…let’s say spitroasted by random men.

DMs are open for discussions, opinions or advice

Much love xx