Hi There - this is likely not the normal post that this subreddit gets; I’m not experienced, I’m not confident that I can find what I’m looking for on Reddit, and yet here I am, casting a line into the waters of Reddit in hopes of landing my dream catch.
I’m a 34 year old married straight male who, despite having a wonderful life, finds themselves yearning for something a little more due to an unfortunate and one-sided dead bedroom situation. Am I looking to blow up my life? Of course not. Do I fantasize about how the grass (might) be greener on the other side? Yup… 100% guilty.
Thus, I’ve long fantasied about connecting with another couple who were willing to share their wife/gf. Why not just find another woman who’s in a similar circumstance? No reason; I just imagine (in this hypothetical fantasy world) that it would be nice to only have one person in the proverbial dark as opposed to two! Does this, combined with a lack of experience count me as a bull? I highly doubt it… but you’ve got to start somewhere!
I dream about how nice it could be not just to have a connection with a couple (or at least, person) that’s meaningfully interpersonal as opposed to “just” physical - something where it’s only a partial lie to explain to my spouse where I’m going… because indeed I’d be hanging out and having fun in multiple ways.
Since i lack any and all experience in this realm, I recognize I’m likely not the perfect catch. Add to that a desire to take things slow and feel everyone out conversationally via messaging before any in-person meetings… and I recognize that I’m complicating things for people on the prowl who are looking to act fast.
However, if you’re searching for somebody to connect with and get comfortable with, I’m more than happy to see if we click and vibe. Feel free to send me a message, and maybe this fantasy of mine (and presumably yours) comes true! 🤞