Why are you denied?
Always a fun question to ask. It seems like some of the newer people in this sub don't realize that there are a thousand and one reasons that we choose to stay denied beyond just "good girls don't cum", so I think sharing some personal reasons is important.
For me, I'm denied because I'm tired of making choices all the time. I work leadership, I run my household. It's my decisions that keep things running in all aspects of my life, and that's draining beyond belief. So when I'm able to get time with my Dom, I don't want choices. I don't want to have to think. Staying denied until I'm wet and needy makes it easier to give in to the submissive side of myself that lets my brain turn off and let's me recover from always being in control. I'm denied for myself, for my own pleasure, and for my own mental and emotional health. My Dom likes the results of the denial, sure, but ultimately it's something done for myself, and most of my sessions end with him getting me off. Because that's what we both want. Because it works for us.
So... What about you? Why do you choose denial day to day?