I helped my ex wife install a door cam and nanny cam, I gave myself access.
My ex wife (28) and I (37) have been divorced for 4 months, but separated almost a year. We're on very good terms now, and whenever she needed something done around her apartment, she'd generally call me to see if I could fix or install it.
We share a 2 year old daughter so anything to keep them safe I'm all for it. It initially started with her ring door cam, I went ahead and installed it, did the set up. She gave me the email and password to set it up with and I did.
What I didn't tell her, I also put it on my phone, I too am able to see who comes, knocks, Amazon... what I'm also able to see is who's coming over at 10, 11, midnight and staying till the wee hours of the morning.
We both have great careers and there are times we need to get a sitter, she found these motion cameras and cameras she can log in to to see our daughter when she's not home. I too have access to that.
Cucking never was my thing, but I'm not going to lie, it is really hot. I know I need to logout, just haven't.