u/toppperware

Hi!

Soooo... I've been in this set-up of Daddy-babyboy relationship.

After our first meeting, he asked me to be his baby boy. We talked about how this set-up works so we are calibrated.

The set-up is, he has a partner and his partner has his boy as well. To him, I am his baby boy and I get to get all the perks first. But since he is always horny he gets to fuck other people too and ako rin, I can fuck whoever I want.

First few months, I was soooo pampered. Hahaha I am enjoying everything... From small gesture like caressing my nape when we are outside, or inside the car, basta everything. There's so many things I enjoy which daddy is doing during those times.

Even in sex, how excited he was, or how often we do it. During first few months, it was different.

But I guess, everything really settles/tones down as time goes by.

It feels like everything waters down. No, everything waters down.

Also, there's a new boy that came it. We had 3some.

As we do it I felt an outsider so I let them. Haha to me okay lang naman, since hindi ko lang din talaga trip yung mga ka-age ko.

But what made realize that time is how things shifted.

All the things daddy did to me before is what I can see he does now to the new one.

Maybe I am jealous. Maybe I am a little sad. But one thing is definitely sure. I was replaced. At least that's what I feel. And there's this feeling of detachment whenever I felt this way. The feeling na nababaliwala. Hahaha. That feeling of not being the favourite. Hahaha

And sadly, sobrang randam ko 'yon ngayon.

But this is all inside me. I don't impose this to daddy because people hate drama and I should know how to deal with it. And surprisingly I am handling this better than I expected.

At the end, there are things we do beyond sex.

Part of me wants to be favourite parati, but then I realize that we will never be the favourite. Someone will always replace me and the position I have.

And for me, that came fast.

Sad but life goes on.

Hi!

I just want to share a story, and maybe, a little bit help or validation of what should I and shouldn't I feel. This can be quite long and I hope it is a good read.

I have daddies, kind of sugar daddy because the set-up comes with a perk.

My First daddy is Daddy B, we started our relationship sexual, of course. He works few buildings away from mine, and that's where I met him. That night after shift the first time I chat him, we went to his house and I fucked him good. Sexual relationship last for a couple of months until our relationship shifted from sexual to Father-son relationship.

From just visiting Daddy to fuck him, I stayed to his house for almost a year, rent free, food free having my own room. I am also close to his partner which never existed before we start our thing. Kuya knows our story and we joke about things about daddy. Hahaha. I love daddy as my second parent, and until now, I am visiting the house. Nothing sexual anymore but a good relationship that started from nothing but an itch of the body.

Going 3 years as I write this I am really grateful for Daddy B and all the things he did for me.

My second daddy is Daddy N (VB). I saw him online and sexual attraction I felt towards him is immensely strong. I messaged him and to my surprise, he responded.

We planned our meet-up, and it happened. It was a really good fuck, not long, not short but hot.

He is partnered. He has many subs, and they have 1 baby boy (VB) which originally is for his partner, Daddy S (T)

I thought I was signing up to be a just fuck buddy submissive Top that he casually looks for, but daddy said he wants me as his baby boy.

From the get-go, we have established our relationship as Daddy-babyboy relationship, nothing romantic because he has a partner which is okay with me since I am not looking for anything serious at that moment.

Then he introduced me to his partner, Daddy S (T). We're pretty cool. We're now a family of 4 haha what an uncommon family.

Being daddy's baby boy comes with perks, free foods, free travels, and even games.

Yes, we do play games and we have things we do even outside sex.

I love daddy but I am not vocal with it, unlike with daddy B which I can be vocal about it. I love him not in a romantic way but something different. I just can't say it out loud since I don't want him to misinterpret it.

Comes the sexual part of this set-up, the honeymoon phase as they call it started to subside, it's normal, sex becomes less frequent. And that's okay.

Btw, whenever we do sex, daddy easily gets "damaged" whenever I fuck him. He said, due to his age, when we get a little rough and he gets too excited, when not inserted right, his hole gets damaged. (lowkey bragging about my tool haha jk)

Sometimes he looks for a substitute for me to fuck since he can no longer keep up with me.

In this set-up we are free to meet people and fuck. No problem with that.

But here's the thing, there's a new baby boy coming in.

Daddy asked me if this boy is into my liking and I just say yes to him since I am a good sub. Haha

During one of our trips, we were cuddling and the topic came, and he said "Hindi na ikaw 'yung bunso"

I am kind of hurt... Or threatened.

Because my place is being occupied by someone. I WAS the bunso, but now I am the middle child.

It was the position I don't want to give up. I don't want someone taking up my space. But then I cannot do anything about it.

When I asked daddy if he will introduce him to daddy S, (that's when it will be official) he said yes but not now because they are both busy

Daddy said he wants this new baby boy because he can no longer keep up with the sex, me and daddy S needs someone to fck when he is not available because Kuya (the first one in the set-up, most of the time is not available) .

That's when it hit me, I am no longer the bunso and spot will no longer be mine. I hate it tbh, because I am a middle child in my family and all the middle children out there knows what it feels to be one.

So now I am just being okay with it since the way I look it now, it's unfair to their side. I don't want to become selfish.

Unfair because:

They have to change what they are looking for. They are initially looking for a versa, but changed when daddy met me (Pure T). During one of our trips, only the 3 of us went, kuya is not available. During that time, it was only me and Daddy N who had sex since Daddy S' baby boy is not available.

I am being okay with it and definitely will adjust too but I definitely don't want to give the position. But also I understand where they are coming from. And I don't want to be selfish.

Is it valid, or not?