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[M4F] Ever had your underwear shown in public (intentionally or unintentionally)

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I'm curious to hear what you think about having your underwear visible when you are out in public. It can be anything from showing your bra to having a wardrobe malfunction that leaves you just in your underwear in public.

Do you mind it when it happens or does it not bother you at all? Do you think there's a stigma attached to visible underwear, or do you think it's becoming more accepted?

Last summer I was outside walking down a street close to a beach, when a sudden wind caught a woman’s sundress mid‑stride. The fabric flew up just enough to reveal a flash of bright‑pink lace underwear. She glanced down, smoothed the dress back into place, and kept walking as if nothing out of the ordinary had happened. She did not even look around to see if someone might e seen it. It made me wonder whether that glimpse was an accidental slip or a subtle part of her style.

Have you ever worn clothes with the intention to show off a bit of your underwear? Maybe a low-rise skirt or a high-waisted top that peeks a little? How did that make you feel? Did you change the way you acted or carried yourself when you noticed people looking?

Maybe you bent over and realized a little more was showing than you intended? How did you react in the moment? Did you laugh it off, quickly adjust, or maybe even use it as a chance to show off more?

Do you always let your friends know if you can see their underwear or do you leave them to it?

Personally, I'm 100% certain that I have done it. Especially when I am wearing white linen pants. Considering I am almost always wearing black boxers, I know there are times where I see myself in a mirror and I noticed that my underwear are visible clear as day.

It's also a bit common that I show off the waist line of my boxers when I'm at the gym and doing lat pull downs or something similar and I can feel my tshirt being pulled up.

One of the most exposing one would be when I was trying to take a shortcut and get over a short wall at a festival but my shorts got caught, pulling them down in front of several strangers. This was late at night and a lot of people were drunk so it wasn't so bad.

Have you ever had a stranger discreetly tell you that your underwear is showing? I never know if I should tell it to my friends when it happens. I can never be quite sure if they would appreciate it if I told them as opposed to a woman telling them about it

Im happy to chat about anything relating to this.

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u/tresatt — 2 days ago

[M4F] Ever had your underwear shown in public (intentionally or unintentionally)

​

I'm curious to hear what you think about having your underwear visible when you are out in public. It can be anything from showing your bra to having a wardrobe malfunction that leaves you just in your underwear in public.

Do you mind it when it happens or does it not bother you at all? Do you think there's a stigma attached to visible underwear, or do you think it's becoming more accepted?

Last summer I was outside walking down a street close to a beach, when a sudden wind caught a woman’s sundress mid‑stride. The fabric flew up just enough to reveal a flash of bright‑pink lace underwear. She glanced down, smoothed the dress back into place, and kept walking as if nothing out of the ordinary had happened. She did not even look around to see if someone might e seen it. It made me wonder whether that glimpse was an accidental slip or a subtle part of her style.

Have you ever worn clothes with the intention to show off a bit of your underwear? Maybe a low-rise skirt or a high-waisted top that peeks a little? How did that make you feel? Did you change the way you acted or carried yourself when you noticed people looking?

Maybe you bent over and realized a little more was showing than you intended? How did you react in the moment? Did you laugh it off, quickly adjust, or maybe even use it as a chance to show off more?

Do you always let your friends know if you can see their underwear or do you leave them to it?

Personally, I'm 100% certain that I have done it. Especially when I am wearing white linen pants. Considering I am almost always wearing black boxers, I know there are times where I see myself in a mirror and I noticed that my underwear are visible clear as day.

It's also a bit common that I show off the waist line of my boxers when I'm at the gym and doing lat pull downs or something similar and I can feel my tshirt being pulled up.

One of the most exposing one would be when I was trying to take a shortcut and get over a short wall at a festival but my shorts got caught, pulling them down in front of several strangers. This was late at night and a lot of people were drunk so it wasn't so bad.

Have you ever had a stranger discreetly tell you that your underwear is showing? I never know if I should tell it to my friends when it happens. I can never be quite sure if they would appreciate it if I told them as opposed to a woman telling them about it

Im happy to chat about anything relating to this.

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u/tresatt — 4 days ago

25 [M4F] Have you ever been in an ENF or ENM situation?

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Hi! Today I'm curious to hear if you have ever been in a ENF (embarrassed nude female) or ENM (embarrassed nude male) situation.

I got some stories of my own that I am happy to share with you if you're interested.

One of the times when I saw someone else was when I was living in a shared apartment during my studies. I lived together with 3 women but we never had the same schedule as we were all studying different courses.

One day, I received an email at around 9pm that my morning class that start at 8am would be cancelled because the professor were out sick. I thought this would be a great time to catch some sleep so I slept in until 09:30 or so the next day.

I woke up and just sat down by my laptop for a while before I had the need to make myself a cup of coffee. I make my way to the kitchen and as I turn the corner down the hall to the kitchen, I can see one of my flatmates wearing nothing but a towel around her hair.

She does not notice me straight away, it feels like I saw her for over an hour but it was probably less than 10 seconds. She looks at my direction and practically jumps up and screams. She use her hands and arms to cover herself while I try to pretend I didn't see anything. I could barely say anything and just mumbled out "sorry! Didn't know you were home".

I get back to my room and hide myself there for like an hour before I can hear her leave the apartment and made my way to make myself coffee.

Im happy to share the times I've been caught as well if that would interest you.

Just to give you an example, I was staying at a hostel one time but luckily for me, I had the room for myself. I asked at the reception about it and they said it would only be me in that room for the next two days. That suited me just perfectly as sharing a room with strangers sucks. I just gotten back from the shower and I was just about to change into some new clothes. I was standing there fully naked when the door opens and in walks two women.

I got really, really surprised and the two women are just staring at me. I was so shocked that I didn't cover myself before I realised that I have nothing to cover myself with so I take a few steps to grab a tshirt to cover myself with.

The woman who opened the door just closed the door and as she did, she just said "sorry". I was super nervous to see them again that I basically spent the rest of my time looking around the hostel like a spy to see if they were there so I could avoid them.

No story is too big or to small! Let's have a fun chat.

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u/tresatt — 8 days ago

[M4F] Ever had your underwear shown in public (intentionally or unintentionally)

​

I'm curious to hear what you think about having your underwear visible when you are out in public. It can be anything from showing your bra to having a wardrobe malfunction that leaves you just in your underwear in public.

Do you mind it when it happens or does it not bother you at all? Do you think there's a stigma attached to visible underwear, or do you think it's becoming more accepted?

Last summer I was outside walking down a street close to a beach, when a sudden wind caught a woman’s sundress mid‑stride. The fabric flew up just enough to reveal a flash of bright‑pink lace underwear. She glanced down, smoothed the dress back into place, and kept walking as if nothing out of the ordinary had happened. She did not even look around to see if someone might e seen it. It made me wonder whether that glimpse was an accidental slip or a subtle part of her style.

Have you ever worn clothes with the intention to show off a bit of your underwear? Maybe a low-rise skirt or a high-waisted top that peeks a little? How did that make you feel? Did you change the way you acted or carried yourself when you noticed people looking?

Maybe you bent over and realized a little more was showing than you intended? How did you react in the moment? Did you laugh it off, quickly adjust, or maybe even use it as a chance to show off more?

Do you always let your friends know if you can see their underwear or do you leave them to it?

Personally, I'm 100% certain that I have done it. Especially when I am wearing white linen pants. Considering I am almost always wearing black boxers, I know there are times where I see myself in a mirror and I noticed that my underwear are visible clear as day.

It's also a bit common that I show off the waist line of my boxers when I'm at the gym and doing lat pull downs or something similar and I can feel my tshirt being pulled up.

One of the most exposing one would be when I was trying to take a shortcut and get over a short wall at a festival but my shorts got caught, pulling them down in front of several strangers. This was late at night and a lot of people were drunk so it wasn't so bad.

Have you ever had a stranger discreetly tell you that your underwear is showing? I never know if I should tell it to my friends when it happens. I can never be quite sure if they would appreciate it if I told them as opposed to a woman telling them about it

Im happy to chat about anything relating to this.

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u/tresatt — 14 days ago

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Hi! Today I'm curious to hear if you have ever been in a ENF (embarrassed nude female) or ENM (embarrassed nude male) situation.

I got some stories of my own that I am happy to share with you if you're interested.

One of the times when I saw someone else was when I was living in a shared apartment during my studies. I lived together with 3 women but we never had the same schedule as we were all studying different courses.

One day, I received an email at around 9pm that my morning class that start at 8am would be cancelled because the professor were out sick. I thought this would be a great time to catch some sleep so I slept in until 09:30 or so the next day.

I woke up and just sat down by my laptop for a while before I had the need to make myself a cup of coffee. I make my way to the kitchen and as I turn the corner down the hall to the kitchen, I can see one of my flatmates wearing nothing but a towel around her hair.

She does not notice me straight away, it feels like I saw her for over an hour but it was probably less than 10 seconds. She looks at my direction and practically jumps up and screams. She use her hands and arms to cover herself while I try to pretend I didn't see anything. I could barely say anything and just mumbled out "sorry! Didn't know you were home".

I get back to my room and hide myself there for like an hour before I can hear her leave the apartment and made my way to make myself coffee.

Im happy to share the times I've been caught as well if that would interest you.

Just to give you an example, I was staying at a hostel one time but luckily for me, I had the room for myself. I asked at the reception about it and they said it would only be me in that room for the next two days. That suited me just perfectly as sharing a room with strangers sucks. I just gotten back from the shower and I was just about to change into some new clothes. I was standing there fully naked when the door opens and in walks two women.

I got really, really surprised and the two women are just staring at me. I was so shocked that I didn't cover myself before I realised that I have nothing to cover myself with so I take a few steps to grab a tshirt to cover myself with.

The woman who opened the door just closed the door and as she did, she just said "sorry". I was super nervous to see them again that I basically spent the rest of my time looking around the hostel like a spy to see if they were there so I could avoid them.

No story is too big or to small! Let's have a fun chat.

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u/tresatt — 20 days ago

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Hi! Today I'm curious to hear if you have ever been in a ENF (embarrassed nude female) or ENM (embarrassed nude male) situation.

I got some stories of my own that I am happy to share with you if you're interested.

One of the times when I saw someone else was when I was living in a shared apartment during my studies. I lived together with 3 women but we never had the same schedule as we were all studying different courses.

One day, I received an email at around 9pm that my morning class that start at 8am would be cancelled because the professor were out sick. I thought this would be a great time to catch some sleep so I slept in until 09:30 or so the next day.

I woke up and just sat down by my laptop for a while before I had the need to make myself a cup of coffee. I make my way to the kitchen and as I turn the corner down the hall to the kitchen, I can see one of my flatmates wearing nothing but a towel around her hair.

She does not notice me straight away, it feels like I saw her for over an hour but it was probably less than 10 seconds. She looks at my direction and practically jumps up and screams. She use her hands and arms to cover herself while I try to pretend I didn't see anything. I could barely say anything and just mumbled out "sorry! Didn't know you were home".

I get back to my room and hide myself there for like an hour before I can hear her leave the apartment and made my way to make myself coffee.

Im happy to share the times I've been caught as well if that would interest you.

Just to give you an example, I was staying at a hostel one time but luckily for me, I had the room for myself. I asked at the reception about it and they said it would only be me in that room for the next two days. That suited me just perfectly as sharing a room with strangers sucks. I just gotten back from the shower and I was just about to change into some new clothes. I was standing there fully naked when the door opens and in walks two women.

I got really, really surprised and the two women are just staring at me. I was so shocked that I didn't cover myself before I realised that I have nothing to cover myself with so I take a few steps to grab a tshirt to cover myself with.

The woman who opened the door just closed the door and as she did, she just said "sorry". I was super nervous to see them again that I basically spent the rest of my time looking around the hostel like a spy to see if they were there so I could avoid them.

No story is too big or to small! Let's have a fun chat.

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u/tresatt — 22 days ago

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Hi! Today I'm curious to hear if you have ever been in a ENF (embarrassed nude female) or ENM (embarrassed nude male) situation.

I got some stories of my own that I am happy to share with you if you're interested.

One of the times when I saw someone else was when I was living in a shared apartment during my studies. I lived together with 3 women but we never had the same schedule as we were all studying different courses.

One day, I received an email at around 9pm that my morning class that start at 8am would be cancelled because the professor were out sick. I thought this would be a great time to catch some sleep so I slept in until 09:30 or so the next day.

I woke up and just sat down by my laptop for a while before I had the need to make myself a cup of coffee. I make my way to the kitchen and as I turn the corner down the hall to the kitchen, I can see one of my flatmates wearing nothing but a towel around her hair.

She does not notice me straight away, it feels like I saw her for over an hour but it was probably less than 10 seconds. She looks at my direction and practically jumps up and screams. She use her hands and arms to cover herself while I try to pretend I didn't see anything. I could barely say anything and just mumbled out "sorry! Didn't know you were home".

I get back to my room and hide myself there for like an hour before I can hear her leave the apartment and made my way to make myself coffee.

Im happy to share the times I've been caught as well if that would interest you.

Just to give you an example, I was staying at a hostel one time but luckily for me, I had the room for myself. I asked at the reception about it and they said it would only be me in that room for the next two days. That suited me just perfectly as sharing a room with strangers sucks. I just gotten back from the shower and I was just about to change into some new clothes. I was standing there fully naked when the door opens and in walks two women.

I got really, really surprised and the two women are just staring at me. I was so shocked that I didn't cover myself before I realised that I have nothing to cover myself with so I take a few steps to grab a tshirt to cover myself with.

The woman who opened the door just closed the door and as she did, she just said "sorry". I was super nervous to see them again that I basically spent the rest of my time looking around the hostel like a spy to see if they were there so I could avoid them.

No story is too big or to small! Let's have a fun chat.

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u/tresatt — 25 days ago

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Hi! Today I'm curious to hear if you have ever been in a ENF (embarrassed nude female) or ENM (embarrassed nude male) situation.

I got some stories of my own that I am happy to share with you if you're interested.

One of the times when I saw someone else was when I was living in a shared apartment during my studies. I lived together with 3 women but we never had the same schedule as we were all studying different courses.

One day, I received an email at around 9pm that my morning class that start at 8am would be cancelled because the professor were out sick. I thought this would be a great time to catch some sleep so I slept in until 09:30 or so the next day.

I woke up and just sat down by my laptop for a while before I had the need to make myself a cup of coffee. I make my way to the kitchen and as I turn the corner down the hall to the kitchen, I can see one of my flatmates wearing nothing but a towel around her hair.

She does not notice me straight away, it feels like I saw her for over an hour but it was probably less than 10 seconds. She looks at my direction and practically jumps up and screams. She use her hands and arms to cover herself while I try to pretend I didn't see anything. I could barely say anything and just mumbled out "sorry! Didn't know you were home".

I get back to my room and hide myself there for like an hour before I can hear her leave the apartment and made my way to make myself coffee.

One when when I was caught fully naked was the time I stayed in a hostel. I stayed there for about a week but they only had those stalls you see in gyms which was quite annoying. I talked about it with a guy working there and he said that if I just continued down the hall and took a left, there's a single shower that I could use instead.

Next time I was about to take a shower, I went where he told me and it was perfect! Big shower with a bench where you could put your clothes. I started to shower when all the sudden, the door opens and a woman walks in. The shower only had glass walls so I was a bit like a deer in headlights. She just looks at me before she closes the door. Apparently, you had to turn the door knob twice and not just once like I did.

Im happy to share more of times I've been caught as well if that would interest you.

No story is too big or to small!

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u/tresatt — 25 days ago