u/trestfan

I know how this sounds, but I miss actual connection. Not the performance of it where we go obligatorily go through the motions, the real thing. That nervous excitement when you're genuinely curious about getting to know someone, when conversation flows from both sides.

And yes, you don't need send an angry message about this, I know this is inherently contradictory, posting on Reddit at midnight, offering to pay for authenticity, pulling a gollum looking for someone precious.

I'm not naive about what this is, but I'm hoping to find someone who gets that intimacy, even if transactional, can still be human. Someone who enjoys the mental foreplay as much as the physical. Bonus points if terrible dad jokes land as charming instead of grounds for blocking me.

I'm looking for intelligence, humor, authenticity. It's not. Important to me if you're conventionally attractive, I care if you're present, engaged and willing to be your honest self.

I very much not looking for anyone who engages findom/femdom/etc.

Fair warning: I'm still a kinky dude, and if there's a connection, I'd like to know that I'd be able to see your face and body. Also, I have some weird kinks (I get ridiculously excited by girls farting - there's a whole history there). If that makes you giggle instead of grimace, there's a very good chance we're compatible.

Logistics:

  • Telegram

  • crypto/international payments preferred,

  • up to $150/week, ideally starting with a paid trial day.

  • Verified/reviewed sellers only.

If you think we might click, mention your timezone and any sort of highlight about your week?

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u/trestfan — 21 days ago