[Confession] 26M my 1st time hiring an escort in coimbatore
Spent way too much time browsing sketchy, virus-filled websites trying to find an escort number, but eventually I found one and actually went through with it.
The process was pretty straightforward. They give you multiple options to choose from, and once you decide, they’ll tell you the location on the day itself. Price range was around ₹6k–₹10k for a few hours, which honestly felt affordable compared to what I expected.
On the day, they texted me the location and room number. When I met the girl, I paid her directly. She was respectful and professional, and the whole environment honestly wasn’t nearly as shady or scary as I imagined. Still, there’s definitely this lingering fear/paranoia in your head the entire time because you know what you’re doing isn’t exactly “normal society” stuff.
It was my first time ever doing anything like this, so I was nervous as hell. Not even about the sex itself, but more about the location and whether I was walking into some scam or setup.
But once we actually met, things got comfortable pretty quickly. We spent a lot of time just making out, talking a little, and easing into things. She was surprisingly gentle and patient with me since it was my first experience. The whole thing felt way more natural than I expected.
One thing that genuinely surprised me was how intimate simple stuff like kissing, cuddling, and foreplay felt. I always thought the “main event” would be the memorable part, but honestly the closeness and skin-to-skin moments stood out more to me.
The actual sex itself felt surreal because nothing really prepares you for your first time. I was awkward at certain points, panicked about finishing too early, and definitely didn’t have perfect rhythm or confidence, but she made it feel relaxed instead of embarrassing.
After everything, we cleaned up, got dressed, and just talked for a bit. Apparently this wasn’t even her full-time job — she said she works as an air hostess and only does this occasionally for extra money. We ended things with a hug and I headed back home.
Overall? For a first experience, I honestly can’t complain. I had a really good time and learned a lot about myself.
But the moment I got back home, the nightmare part started.
First came scam calls from random numbers pretending to be police officers asking for ₹30k bribes. Then came WhatsApp spam, blackmail attempts, threats, and random dudes messaging me details about my “enquiries” asking for ₹2k–₹3k to “settle” things.
Important advice: DO NOT pay these people. Once you pay, they’ll just keep asking for more. I simply turned on “block unknown callers,” ignored everything, and eventually the spam died down.
The biggest realization from this experience though was this:
There was definitely lust, attraction, and physical pleasure… but no emotional connection.
And weirdly enough, by the end of it all, I kept wondering how different it would feel to experience intimacy with someone you genuinely love instead of someone you paid for.
So yeah, this was my first time. I don’t regret it, but I also realized escort services and one-night stands probably aren’t for me long term. I think next time I have sex, I’d rather it be with someone I actually care about.
Peace out, Coimbatore.