I'm a somewhat new to this whole staight guy doing butt stuff but my god do I love it. But 3 decades of steriotyping and degrading cultural comments about men doing butt stuff makes we feel so insecure about it. I really want to love this openly but I'm sure that non of my direct circle would see me the same afterwards. My wife is very chill about it but rarely has the drive to peg me so I play around with toys myself. The whole submissive degrading aspect of this pleasureable activity also rubs me the wrong way. Why am I less of a man if I like my prostate stimulated.
Why is so much of this pegging stuff about being a submissive slave. As if being the recipient of any pfallic object makes you a lesser being, and yes that also goes for cis women in society.
This post is just me ranting about my self doubt in all of this.