My GF only wants to be a fucktoy. I want to edge her. [Help]
I'm just getting into this with my partner. It isn't the first time we've tried, but we've always failed. I've tried many times by edging her, sometimes for long periods, but if she didn't eventually finish, she would feel frustrated, and that frustration would turn into anger.
Recently, while talking about how I would like to try it again, I came up with the idea of proposing that one of the new rules would be that neither she nor I would stimulate her clitoris, and that she would be there solely for my pleasure.
Magically, since that day we've had sex every day, sometimes even twice a day (which would have been unthinkable in our relationship, considering we have two small children, etc., and sex had been declining or had almost completely disappeared).
Suddenly, every night she is willing and eager to be used. We've done some roleplay where I make her say things like, "Thank you for using me," etc.
At this point, and being a newbie to all of this, I would like to understand how I can now reintroduce pleasure as a form of torture, without the release of orgasm. I tried it on the last night before she left for five days (for personal reasons), and she really wanted to come but didn't. Over chat, she told me it was good, but that she prefers it when she isn't stimulated via clit and is only used through penetration by me like a fucktoy.
I'm not sure if I'm doing something wrong. I always try to provide aftercare, and perhaps I should remind her more often that it's a game and that I don't actually mean the things I say outside the bedroom.
I've also read that some women experience drops, and that this practice has harmed some relationships. What can I do? I want to take it even further; if it were up to me, I would edge her every day but i like using as my fucktoy too.
I'm not sure whether it's normal for her to be happy just being used as a fuck toy? On the other hand, if I give her an orgasm, I know this experience will end and we'll go back to the pattern of having sex once or twice a month, and that's something I don't want.
Need some advice pleaseee