u/youngestinchargeOTC1

so my friend(F) was looking to start topless boxing related hangouts among other women in our city and the subreddit for hookups in our city (r/r4rtoronto) judged her for having a boxing fetish. they accused her of being some user named u/bigmatch_johncena, as well as being a man. they judged an innocent woman for having a boxing fetish. if that subreddit had a man posting about a specific eating/stuffing or bdsm fetish, they wouldn’t bat an eye if the next poster about it was a woman. but they judged OUR fetish. she was so upset and crying because she was looking forward to a summer of hookups, all because one mod wanted to judge a normal fetish. She now has no Reddit account to make connections

when a couple friends (who had accounts using the same email she lended) also had their accounts blacklisted from the subreddit, they messaged the mods. the mods continuously accused her of being a man. after a few days out of the blue, the mods decide to mute that convo for the next 28 days. very fishy to do that after many days.

then they allowed one friend to post in the sub despite all this stuff, so that friend did post...ONLY TO GET THEIR ACCOUNT AND A BUNCH OF OTHERS BANNED. the mods said their account WOULDNT get hit with anything only for them to get perma banned. when that friend reached out to the mods about them getting their account banned for no reason, the mo MUTTED the convo.

What you can do to help my friend:

• post on r/r4rtoronto with the proper format (example a 21 year old man looking for a woman would be posting as 21M4F #toronto followed by their post need. the hashtag beside Toronto is very important)(if a woman then F4M, F4A, etc). not posting with the right format won’t allow some posts. the goal is to have many posts to show them a love for boxing is huge and not limited to one man
• people into online pic fights you’ll REALLY benefit from this so I hope you go out there and post 🙏
• replace some letters either numbers if need be as the sub may blacklist some words (0 for o, 1 for l, 5 for s, etc)
• fit the short character limit (literally not hard at all)
• men, women, trans, non-binary folk, gay, straight, lesbian, bi, and all gender diverse folk are welcome to post there :)
• post on this sub regardless of where in the world you are. You don’t have to be Canadian to post. Please message me and let me know after you’ve posted :)

we can NOT let our fetish get judged. i need this sub to show up in DROVES ❤️for my friend, she would greatly appreciate it! she’s not on Reddit atm but I will let her know how much everyone is showing up for her!

if the sub asks where you came from do not let them know of this post as I’ve blocked all their mods