F19 Are guys not into sex anymore?
I’ve dated 2 guys. My very first relationship, I’d say he was pretty horny. My second relationship, we literally got into a fight because I felt like he wasn’t physically attracted to me! He never initiated anything… I know everything isn’t how it is in movies, tv shows, etc.
But I thought usually the guy wanted it more than the girl? And now, I’m talking to this new guy and he’s really sweet. But I always feel like I’m craving him. Like I want something more. I wanna be skin to skin and I wanna hear and feel how much he adores my body. However, it doesn’t feel like he craves me like that.
Is it more common for a guy to not be super horny? I feel embarrassed and ashamed that I wanna have sex as much as I do. I also feel like it’s partly to do with the fact that I’ve never came before. I’ve never made myself, and no guy has made me. So I guess I never feel fully satisfied. Which hasn’t stopped me from wanting to have sex, lol. But I don’t know..
Like, if a guy told me he needed me right then and there, I would be floored. But I’ve never experienced that before. Am I being unrealistic?