r/AffairsTX

36/F

Keeping this simple. I’m 36, balancing work and mom life, and looking for something consistent.

Physically, I’m more “mom bod but trying” than gym rat. I stay active and would love someone who’s also on a health kick or at least motivated enough to keep me on track. I’m confident in my looks, happy to swap pics early and make sure there’s mutual interest.

I’m looking for someone who is taller than 5’8, dominant, intelligent, local to the DFW area, financially stable, between the ages of 35-50, someone who can lead and isn’t afraid to laugh.

I don’t need to get deep right away, but I do want more than surface-level eventually.

A few things:
- Need a little more than a simple “Hello” message.
- Not into nerd culture or video games (no offense, just not my thing)
- DDF and prefer the same
- Lean conservative, but not something we need to focus on.
- Not interested in NSFW pics
- Discretion matters, I’m intentional about who I spend time with and expect the same

If that lines up with you and you’ve read this far send a message with a little about yourself.

Can’t sleep? Same here.
Lonely? Me too.
Dead bedroom? Right there with ya.

Mom next door looking for an emotionally available, consistent, honest man with good communication.

I want good morning and good night texts, all day and late night chats, voice notes, calls, videos, meet ups.

I miss the butterflies, sweet kisses, knowing someone is in my corner, being a priority, and having a real relationship.

I’ll be your biggest cheerleader, confidant, best friend. I may even make you laugh sometimes.

Average height, midsize, I look like a mom.

What I don’t want: hook ups, ONS, FWB, inconsistency, availability only during bankers hours, meeting up right away.

Please reply with more than just “hey”. Be a gentleman and show that you have actually spoken to a real woman.

I’m a wife who’s spent a long time being responsible, dependable, strong, and the person who keeps everything moving. Somewhere along the way, I got tired of always being “on”. Much like a phone with 3% battery and 47 apps running in the background. I miss laughing until my stomach hurts. I miss feeling light. I miss being around someone who makes me feel safe enough to soften, be silly, and forget what day it is for at least five minutes.

I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone who can become a best friend first. Someone funny, emotionally intelligent, affectionate, confident, and easy to talk to. A man who can make me laugh when life feels heavy, who enjoys real conversations and ridiculous ones, and whose presence feels calming instead of complicated. **Bonus points if you can make me laugh without sending a meme that requires a 12-minute explanation.

I’m not looking for someone to rescue me. I’m looking for the kind of connection where I don’t feel like I have to manage everything. Where I can exhale, be playful, be feminine, be affectionate, and simply enjoy being a woman instead of constantly being the one carrying the mental load. Including remembering everyone’s appointments, passwords, snack preferences, and emotional weather patterns.

More bonus points if you’re witty, can handle sarcasm, like spontaneous adventures, and understand that “I don’t care what we do” is sometimes a lie because I absolutely do care. I’m just too tired to make one more decision. If you can make a decision without asking me to choose, you may already be my hero.

I want chemistry, friendship, laughter, tenderness, flirting, emotional safety, and that wonderful feeling of having someone you genuinely look forward to talking to. Someone who can turn an ordinary Wednesday into something worth staying awake for. Even if we’re both exhausted. Mostly, I’m looking for someone who makes life feel a little softer, a lot more fun, and just chaotic enough to keep things interesting, but not so chaotic that I need a spreadsheet afterward.

I am attracted to successful, driven men. I don’t play video games, or watch much television, but I love to read and can talk about books all day. I often play tennis and stay fairly active. Hopefully you’re active, have a long list of goals, and not a lot of complications. If you can relate to any of this, let’s be friends first and see what happens!

Yes, I’ve posted before, and no, I’m not posting everything I said before because no one read it.

I’m in a long-term relationship that is on the verge of collapse. Do with that what you will.

I’m looking for a connection that I don’t receive day to day. Long-term and real are non-negotiable. Only available in the evenings.

I’m in between Dallas and Denton.

I’ve already written more than most of you will read, but when you message me, please tell me about your situation, what you’re looking for, and a little bit about yourself. ALSO IM CURVY ASF

37 Looking for secret & anonymity play while husband away (please read pic caption before reaching out) DT area / any men stop by on way to work or during lunch? (Must be able to verify)

It’s a really big secret fetish of mine, but recently started acting on it — and it’s been incredibly exciting and rewarding. But, maybe 5-6 years ago I came across female gloryhole porn, ever sense then I secretly would sneak away craving getting used and left. Being a real cumslut. I couldn’t imagine myself going to a really sleazy, dirty place — so I figured I’d try setting one up at one of our places. And omg, it’s been absolutely perfect to play with others and just get used without any kind of attachment or trace for my husband to find out.

Little about me:

I’ve been married for 11 years. I am a nurse, take care of myself. Avid runner and teach yoga. I seemingly live a very normal life.. but secretly love getting my throat used, while I’m playing with myself and my vibrator.

Looking for:

looking for more regulars to come experience gh. Prefer married men, (you must show your band) and I love men in uniform. Message me for details. I can verify and you must be able to as well. (Fit and DDF ONLY!)  — prefer married, solely for the fact married men are cleaner and tend to understand the importance of being fully discreet.

I guess first off I’m not looking to change my status or anything like that. My man is locked up and I’m just lonely. I’d like to find someone I can text and talk with throughout the day, have some fun when the mood strikes.
I’m a bit chubby, but otherwise I’m pretty, short blonde hair, 5’2” and hazel eyes. I’m around the San Antonio area… that’s all I got lol

I’m in a LTR that I cannot leave for the foreseeable future. I am a mom. Only available in the evenings. Maybe once or twice a week meet ups. I’d like to start online for a bit to see if the connection is really there and then meet in person.

• About me: 28. Love cozy games like Stardew Valley but I also love COD Zombies. I’m very artsy and crafty. I love pink but I’m generally wearing black. Curvyyyy. Very hygienic. I cannot host. SAHM.

About you: Kind and patient. Discreet. Wanting a genuine connection and then more. Available in the evenings. Hygienic. Can maybe host?

Don’t message me talking about your girth and inches, that’s not what I’m here for. Tell me about yourself, your home situation, and why you think we’d be a good fit.

As the title says, there has to be other miserably married people here. My age or older, communicates well, and has time for something. I prefer someone who can appreciate honesty if either of us become not interested.

Hiii. I’m back again. Met someone, said since it was awkward meeting we weren’t a match. First meetings with me will be def awkward since I’m an introvert but it gets better. I’ll keep it simple. I am: hot, emotionally deep, std/dd free. Looking for a long term emotional and physical affair. Looking for the same in a man. Local. If you’re tracked, share bank accounts or cannot fathom cheating… please don’t bother me or even meet up with me. Please be local. I’d love to grab lunch within a week if we’re compatible physically.

I’m 28 in the Dallas area. I’m looking for a connection to build on. I cannot leave my current situation for the foreseeable future and that needs to be clear upfront. I’m looking for fun but primarily connection at the end of the day. Discretion is of the utmost importance. I’m a curvier white girl. I’m not sure who I’m looking for so anyone is welcome. 🤗

(South atx) Searching for the last time and making my own post for the first. First and foremost, we’re here for the same reason. I’m not trying to leave my spouse and neither are you. I miss the excitement of an affair. I’ve had one before. I’ve met a couple of matches here, but they fizzled for one reason or another. And that’s okay. Me: im 39, female in Austin area. Married 14 years. Bored in my marriage, just like you. Physical attraction is just as important as emotional to me. I’m an attractive woman and I won’t risk my situation for someone that im not even physically attracted to right off the bat. You shouldn’t either, by the way. I’m 5’3, 115lbs and take care of myself. Not trying to toot my own horn, I just know what I have to offer and want the same in this situation. I’m a working professional. I have no children. I’m not alone very often to meet up, but im 100% down to fall together online first. I have a LOT of hobbies, but they’re very niche and I don’t want to post them publicly, totally down to private chat about them though. Saying that to let you know im not a woman who just sits around and watches television and has nothing to do. I like to read, I play a couple of video games and I do actually like tv. I’m looking for someone who isn’t expecting an immediate meet up, isn’t pushy (we’re all busy, but i get it- you can’t build something of a response once every couple of days), also works and is just a cool ass dude who wants to vibe with the butterflies of a new relationship. Respond to me with a photo if you’re bold.. and tell me your favorite cocktail. I promise, you won’t be disappointed. (I do want to exchange photos very early). I’m looking for something long term, I don’t want a quick fling.

Bear with me on responding. I’m already getting a ton of responses.

I dont host. 420+ friendly. I have xbox and pc. Looking for Gamer guys only. If you only play COD and sports games not you either. We can meet whenever but the majority of the time we'll be gaming...

I'm looking for a connection that's both deeply passionate and deeply peaceful.

The older I get, the more I realize that peace isn't boring .... it's beautiful.

I've learned that chemistry alone isn't enough. I want someone who communicates openly, follows through on his word and understands that consistency creates trust. Someone emotionally intelligent enough to be curious instead of defensive, secure enough to build something meaningful instead of constantly seeking validation elsewhere. I want a man whose attention naturally settles where his heart has chosen to invest.

I'm especially drawn to quiet confidence. A man who doesn't need to announce his strength because it's evident in the way he carries himself, the way he protects the people he loves and the way he shows up consistently.

As for me, I'm a cute, curvy 5'4 Latina. I'm affectionate, thoughtful, deeply curious and someone who genuinely enjoys understanding people and getting to know them in a deep and meaningful way. I could spend hours talking about psychology, philosophy, dreams, human behavior, or the moments in life that quietly shape who we become. I have a great sense of humor and few things make me happier than smiling at my phone because someone I care about sent me something that made me laugh.

As we get to know each other and the connection develops, I'd eventually like for that to include phone calls, video calls, voice notes as well as exchanging pictures when the time feels right. I'm happy to offer that openness and vulnerability and I'd appreciate the same in return. I'm not interested in rushing intimacy or forcing anything before trust is there .... I just want to know that we're both open to allowing the connection to become more real and personal if it naturally grows in that direction. Also note, I'm open to exploring some kink with the right man if the chemistry and compatibility is there.

I don't need constant communication but I do appreciate consistency. A simple "thinking of you" can mean more to me than grand gestures. I want a dynamic where we naturally become part of each other's day because we genuinely want to share life together.

I admire a man who enjoys leading with kindness, steadiness and intention. The right man won't have to force my softer side .... It will simply feel safe enough to emerge. I think softness is one of the most beautiful things a woman can offer and emotional safety is what allows my softness to flourish.

I'm not looking for perfection. I'm looking for a relationship where we can be honest, curious, affectionate, supportive and deeply attracted to one another without sacrificing peace. A connection where we both feel chosen, where trust grows naturally and where coming to each other feels like an exhale at the end of the day.

Don't bother messaging me if you're looking to just have some fun and/or wanting to add to your roster. If you're looking for something intentional, built on friendship, respect, emotional intimacy and genuine desire, I'd love to hear from you 🫶✨

I'm an alt/goth BBW in the Richardson/UTD area of Dallas-Ft. Worth metro. I'm white, nearly translucent really, hazel eyes, long, curly/wavy brown hair, D cups, pear shaped body/hourglass figure, wide hips, a big belly because I am a BBW, hairy pussy, and plush plump lips. Four tattoos, one nose ring, and stretched ears as well. 5'4" over 250lbs, under 280lbs.

I'm looking for the following:

Someone who can host and is mobile - I cannot host and need you to pick me up.

Men any age up to 60.

White or Asian.

6"-9" size. I can't really handle anything larger, I'm too tight.

Someone who's intelligent, respectful, and can hold a conversation. If you have the personality of wet dirt, don't bother me. I want someone who can stimulate my mind as much as they can my body. If you need to ask, 'what does that mean?' then you are not equipped for this conversation, or any conversation with me for that matter.

Any body type is fine, but please be 140-280lbs, unless you're over 6' then up to 300lbs is totally fine.

Good hygiene is very important!

A good personality matters to me much more than looks. And I really, really mean that. I don't care how hot you are, if you act like a dick weasel, my pussy will dry up quicker than Corpus Christie's water supply because of the data centers. Period.

I'm looking for a guy who's a little more dominant, too. Into mutual oral, and making their partner feel really good before they get much in return. So basically, a pleasure dom, if you will. I'm not interested in men who are selfish, and only wanna get their dick wet.

I like guys who explore with their hands and mouth head to toe, then give attention to my breasts before diving in between my legs.

Here's what I am NOT looking for:

Anyone older than the age I stated. This is a HARD boundary. Do not disrespect it!

I'm not looking to be on camera in any capacity.

Anyone who's not IN DFW or not visiting currently, or in 1-3 days, even. I don't do online. I am NOT in Houston, Austin, etc. I get so many of yall in both of those areas. I am NOT there. Stop messaging me!

Drama - if you're going to bring drama to my life because you've got a wife who's nuttier than a squirrel's home, don't bother me.

Drug users - spun, PNP, cloudz, all means METH. The growing number of meth heads on Reddit is to damn many. Heroine. Cocaine. Etc.

No heavy drinkers, no frequent weed smokers (medicinal is fine).

Couples. That should be obvious.

Men who think they're god's gift to fat women. If you're not actually attracted to big girls, don't bother me.

Using pet names, and demanding honorifics.

Low effort men in my DMs.

I HIGHLY suggest, if not require you read my pinned post before you DM me. And when you do DM me, I need a full intro. Age, race, height, weight, dick size, where you're going to host (I'm open to hotels if you're local OR traveling, I CANNOT host and rather not go to a married man's home, it's a recipe for disaster), if you're mobile (which you need to be), and more about you. If you just say hi/hello/hey, compliment me and say nothing more, or say 'I'm nearby' or '(age)M' or anything else that's low effort, I will not reply to you. I do not know you. Also, I ignore 'still looking?' DMs as well.

I prefer to meet for coffee, lunch or dinner before we get together. I want to make sure we mesh before just jumping into bed together. I'm freaky for the right person, but disrespect won't get far with me.

You know the kind where it’s just so good that you don’t want to put your phone down. Or the kind where you keep sneaking off to check if you received a message from them yet. That’s the kind of conversations I miss.
I want to be able to find someone who is willing to put in the effort into something long term. Able to actually make time for meeting in person and going on dates. I don’t want to jump straight into NSFW chats , that comes with time and consistent communication.

This isn’t my first rodeo and I’m not looking to change my situation or yours.
About me:
-committed
-Latina
-plus size

Please have availability to chat and eventually meet when the time is right. No older than 45 please
If you made it this far, tell me a quick intro of yourself and what your ideal first date would be 🙂

Hey y’all! I guess I should start off with sharing a little bit about me. I am 33 and I have been married for about 8 years. I’m pretty tall at 5’10, plus size/curvy but well proportioned, and a mixed Mexican and Black woman. I have quite a few tattoos and can’t wait for my next one! I enjoy anything artistic. I paint, write poetry, enjoy baking, thrifting, working out and hiking. I’m a self proclaimed coffee snob as well, so ask me all of your coffee questions…if you’re nice I will answer. I also am a major music lover, I enjoy all genres but my favorite right now is country. Tell me your top 3 country artist if you’re a fan too. I am a shy person at first but open up over time with the right person. I have posted before but it’s hard to meet the right person.

I am ultimately looking for the person to give me butterflies and to build a special, meaningful connection with. I am not the hook up type, I’m more of a hopeless romantic. I do prefer men in their 40s and that are local to me or travel to DFW area often. I’m so bad at these but if you’re interested feel free to reach out!

I'm an alt/goth BBW in the Richardson/UTD area of Dallas-Ft. Worth metro. I'm white, nearly translucent really, hazel eyes, long, curly/wavy brown hair, D cups, pear shaped body/hourglass figure, wide hips, a big belly because I am a BBW, hairy pussy, and plush plump lips. Four tattoos, one nose ring, and stretched ears as well. 5'4" over 250lbs, under 280lbs.

I'm looking for the following:

Someone who can host and is mobile - I cannot host and need you to pick me up.

Men any age up to 60.

White or Asian.

6"-9" size. I can't really handle anything larger, I'm too tight.

Someone who's intelligent, respectful, and can hold a conversation. If you have the personality of wet dirt, don't bother me. I want someone who can stimulate my mind as much as they can my body. If you need to ask, 'what does that mean?' then you are not equipped for this conversation, or any conversation with me for that matter.

Any body type is fine, but please be 140-280lbs, unless you're over 6' then up to 300lbs is totally fine.

Good hygiene is very important!

A good personality matters to me much more than looks. And I really, really mean that. I don't care how hot you are, if you act like a dick weasel, my pussy will dry up quicker than Corpus Christie's water supply because of the data centers. Period.

I'm looking for a guy who's a little more dominant, too. Into mutual oral, and making their partner feel really good before they get much in return. So basically, a pleasure dom, if you will. I'm not interested in men who are selfish, and only wanna get their dick wet.

I like guys who explore with their hands and mouth head to toe, then give attention to my breasts before diving in between my legs.

Here's what I am NOT looking for:

Anyone older than the age I stated. This is a HARD boundary. Do not disrespect it!

I'm not looking to be on camera in any capacity.

Anyone who's not IN DFW or not visiting currently, or in 1-3 days, even. I don't do online. I am NOT in Houston, Austin, etc. I get so many of yall in both of those areas. I am NOT there. Stop messaging me!

Drama - if you're going to bring drama to my life because you've got a wife who's nuttier than a squirrel's home, don't bother me.

Drug users - spun, PNP, cloudz, all means METH. The growing number of meth heads on Reddit is to damn many. Heroine. Cocaine. Etc.

No heavy drinkers, no frequent weed smokers (medicinal is fine).

Couples. That should be obvious.

Men who think they're god's gift to fat women. If you're not actually attracted to big girls, don't bother me.

Using pet names, and demanding honorifics.

Low effort men in my DMs.

I HIGHLY suggest, if not require you read my pinned post before you DM me. And when you do DM me, I need a full intro. Age, race, height, weight, dick size, where you're going to host (I'm open to hotels if you're local OR traveling, I CANNOT host and rather not go to a married man's home, it's a recipe for disaster), if you're mobile (which you need to be), and more about you. If you just say hi/hello/hey, compliment me and say nothing more, or say 'I'm nearby' or '(age)M' or anything else that's low effort, I will not reply to you. I do not know you. Also, I ignore 'still looking?' DMs as well.

I prefer to meet for coffee, lunch or dinner before we get together. I want to make sure we mesh before just jumping into bed together. I'm freaky for the right person, but disrespect won't get far with me.

So I am a proud Mexicana, BBW with some extra rolls. I'm tired of asking a man to give me what I obviously haven't found.

I began to wonder if connecting with a woman, could heal what I need.

I've always been curious but this isn't open for some threesome. Maybe I'm in the wrong room for this.

I am 5'5, dark hair, fair to olive skin tone, I'm empathetic, emotionally intelligent, smart in general, corporate job, hardworking and one tough woman.

Must love dogs, stand against this current administration and accept all humans.

Message me, maybe we can chat and by the way I am fluent in sarcasm and hilarious 😂

Looking to find a consistant fwb to have fun with. 37 m 6ft blonde blue 7c 250. In grand prairie arlington area. Can host or travel.

Corinth/ Denton are. 36 F looking for same age or younger attractive male. Discreet long term, down for day drinks and fun