r/AffairsTX

Recently heartbroken friendly neighborhood nurse looking for my next boyfriend. I have a few days off, so come keep me company.

I want to be a part of each other’s days. Texting, voice messages, calls, video chats, meet ups. I want it all.

Average height, mom bod, pretty face, sassy, and funny. I love concerts, traveling, watching sports, and trying new restaurants.

Looking for an emotionally available man, age 30+, in a DB, with time for me and the ability to make this a priority. Easy, right? 😁

I’m not interested in being your 9-5 texting/sexting buddy. Availability to chat nights and weekends required.

I am a bigger (fat) woman but I'm cute and funny. I have to he clear because you gym guys message me and then flee at the sight of my picture. 🤣🤣 I'm not ugly you jerks and then they block me like I'm going to chase after them 🤪

Anyway I just want to see if there is a unicorn that shares my same needs and wants. I have 3 pups and no kids! I just want someone who can give me the attention I would like to receive. I understand that 99.9% of you men are in need of sex but I move slow and when I feel comfortable.

No I don't want to see your peen first thing!

No I don't care for guys who are 18 to 29!

No I don't want to meet you tomorrow!

Yes a nice conversation would be nice.

Yes men between 30 to 52yrs

Yes I would like to meet one day to test the chemistry.

29F (CST) - looking for laughs and fun and maybe more

Well, here I am.

I'm 29F, married, and not looking to change anyone's situation. I want to find someone fun to talk to and where we have a natural vibe. I'd like to develop somewhat of a friendship before leading up anything else, but I think the right fit for me would understand that.

A little about me - I work from home, and I'm a home body. I love the mountains when I can go. I live in Texas, but I'm a blue dot in a sea of red. I love to laugh and make others laugh. I have dark humor. I'm a weirdo (the good kind). I love animals. I'm brunette, somewhat pale, I have hazel eyes, and I'm 5'2. I have freckles and wear glasses (usually).

If I seem like your vibe, message me or comment, let's see where things go! Get to know me!

Not my first rodeo

I’m in my late 30s, have a career, I’m a mom, and honestly? I’m in the best era of my life right now and I’m genuinely happy with who I am and where I'm at.
But as we all know even when everything looks great on paper, it can still feel like something is missing.

I’m looking for a discreet and long-term affair. I’m really not looking for a quick fling or anything shallow. I want a real, ongoing connection with someone who actually notices the details and adds value to my life, and vice versa.

What I’m hoping to find:

Mid 30s to late 40s.

Preferably a dad. It just makes things easier when someone already understands the schedule, the priorities, and the balancing act of having kids.

Tall (*er than me), attractive (like actually), career driven, intelligent and grounded. I’m drawn to a man who thinks with the head on his shoulders, carries himself with confidence, and has a solid, masculine presence.

Someone who genuinely cares about his health and stays active.

End Goal: Something long-term. A mutually fulfilling connection built on chemistry and strict discretion.

If you have your life together, balance your career and fatherhood, and want to throw in handling a high maintenance girlfriend, I’d love to chat.

Shoot me a message with a bit about yourself.

I’m new here. But….I’m ready. I still love my husband, but a combination of reasons have me here. He does not know about this and I don’t want him too.

Looking for a friend where we can be normal friends. And we can be feminine and girlie together. And then, also, in secret, hug and kiss and just be soft together.

If this sounds like something you could be interested in, and you do not want your hubby to know or be involved, please DM me.

Looking for that super bright connection.

This isn’t my first rodeo. I long to feel that high attraction and chemistry that doesn’t fade in a week or 2.

About you: hot. By someone’s opinion other than the hooters waitresses. Independent. Flirtatious freely giving of compliments.

Me: I hate saying hot. I hate attention but I turn heads when I don’t want to. Full life- mom, wife, professional. More best friends then I should have. Caring. Kind. Considerate.

If this sounds like we would get along. Shoot me your BEST message.

Im looking for a fully employed pastor for an in-person even if long distance love. Im sweet. Im lonely. I’m a SWF, size 6. No role play- a real pastor. Looking for intimacy. Discretion. I’m very open-minded. Look cute and girl next door. Light brown hair below shoulders. Must be real and open to planning for me to meet you and comfort/ please you.

I have been with pastors before and love it. I am willing to be with you however would make you happy. I enjoy reading, learning. I’m Christian. I’m not into partying. I don’t drink. But I love hearing how you really feel. I like talking or just being physical. Movies are great and going places, but I understand if you would need me more discreet than all that. Totally up to you. But I’m easy to get along with.

I am a 41-year-old married business exec. Love my life and my career, but I no longer have sex at home and have made the decision to fulfill my physical needs elsewhere.

I am a confident size 16 after losing 40 pounds, but I'm on a serious, long-term journey. My body is changing rapidly, so please be ok with that. My professional identity and my marriage are my highest priorities, so discretion and privacy are non-negotiable for me.

If you're interested in an arrangement like this, please send me a message with your age and what you're looking for! Maybe we can spark some chemistry.

Just looking for some good vibes for the moment, if that sounds good to you let's discuss more in the DMs

Here’s a recap of my experience looking for an affair partner on this subreddit. I’m a married woman that hadn’t had sex for 2.5 years and shared that info in my Reddit post. Maybe if you browsed it at the time you might recall a since deleted post saying I wanted to hangout with someone and listen to my 55 minute sex playlist.

From reddit DMs, I built a connection with someone else in a sexless marriage and we ended up doing it. The affair ended abruptly after a bit and I’m done with affairs because this experience gave me some courage to ask for separation.
Truly I should have separated from my spouse before even looking for an affair but I can’t explain my logic.

So if any of y’all are on your way of a marriage, interested in late 30s MILFs, please see my DMs because I’m having a hot divorce summer 😘

Hi! Im 28 years old. Im hoping to find someone close or someone who visit this area a bit. Im willing to travel some also. I guess Im looking for “dating” without actually dating! lol. I don’t have a preference on age or looks. I do have kids so someone who understands how busy that can be would be great. 😊 i don’t know what else to say so just shot me a message!

No passengers. No breadcrumbing. No “wyd” at 11:47 PM after disappearing for a week.
I’m looking for a good looking WHITE man who can communicate, make plans, and bring something to the table besides excuses.
I have a career, a life, and enough chaos already. Be the peace, not the project.
If you’re confident, consistent, and can make me laugh until my stomach hurts, I’d love to hear from you.
If not… well, TLC already covered that subject

Hello! I’ll be in the town for work with a couple of free evenings. I’m in search of someone who wouldn’t mind enjoying a few drinks, good conversation and seeing where that may lead. Could be to some off key karaoke or maybe something more intimate. I’m fun, easy going, and love being spontaneous when I can.

If you travel for work as well this has potential to be long term. My travel cities are Austin and San Antonio. Houston would work too.

My goal is to start building a connection now that way we both feel comfortable meeting for something low key on the date of my arrival.

A little about me: Hispanic, 5’4, slim with curves, super girly. I enjoy being active. Yoga and Pilates are my mental therapy sometimes. I listen to all kinds of music and love a good reality show.

You: married or single. Able to maintain a consistent and engaging conversation. No love bombing please. Sweet, funny, charming men absolutely melt me but let’s keep it honest and realistic. I’m attracted to confident men that are active and take pride in their appearance as well. Expect to sent me a picture early on.

If you’re interested, reach out with your age/location/ ideal situation.

47 years old. I've been driving rideshare for about 11 years and seen as well as done it all. Let me know if you want to set up a naughty ride.

All I was looking for was one night of fun. His words let me to believe we were hitting it off nicely and I was looking forward to getting a BWC bull to make me feel better this evening. Imagine my surprise when I got downstairs at the agreed upon time and he wasn’t there. Instead I had been ghosted and blocked. He apologized and said he panicked, yet I have so many reservations now. Why is it so difficult finding someone to have a little discreet fun with?

As in the title; I'm a Teacher with an otherwise good marriage whose wife just is not interested in satisfying needs anymore. It's sad because we used to be all over each other, and we've talked about it, but nothing changes and I'm tired of being the only one to put the effort in to intimacy.

Now that summer school is over, let's have some fun; Meet somewhere and find a place to be sneaky in for our fun, come over when my or your SO isn't coming home, or maybe something else. Public or car play is fun, but not required. We can also meet up and have fun doing our things if we vibe together well, I like learning about

35, white, 6ft, grey eyes, dirty blonde w/ beard, works out, not a bodybuilder but no slouch, and tan decently well.

NRH/ Hurst area by TCC and NE Mall.

I'm mostly completely free, but mornings and afternoons are easiest, and after the first time we meet we can plan for different times.

Looking for a woman over 21 (drinking age, less is a bit close to my students' age ngl), could start as just talking and getting to know each other before we meet. Helps if you're married too; if you're also a teacher I definitely want to talk to you!

If interested, tell me a little bit about the what fantasies you've had that this post may remind you of, or what you've been doing this summer so far.

Updating specifics here. I'm a mom of 3, married for 18 years, and not looking to change my situation or yours. Just wanting to be seen and wanted. I'm not entirely sure I want a physical relationship; it's not really what I'm looking for. So I'm sorry for the confusion. I don't want to meet up, but i definitely wouldn't mind sharing pics. My family means everything to me, but I'm also feeling lonely and wanting attention from someone new. Please be over the age of 30, no hate but it's just my preference. Also I want to emphasize I am on the bigger side. I'm a size 22, FOR NOW, though i am currently working on myself. Also, if you're a fan of Freida McFadden, I'd be glad to hear about how many of her books you've read. Thanks for reading! Have a happy day ✌🏽😊

Plus-size single mom going through a divorce, professional collector of hobbies, emotionally devastating books, and things I absolutely didn’t need from the thrift store.
I’m a crafter, tarot enthusiast, Renaissance Faire addict, and completely obsessed with Fallout—both the games and the show. If you quote Vault-Tec propaganda, debate the best companion, or think wandering the wasteland is peak entertainment, we’re probably already getting along.
Most days you’ll find me junk journaling, hunting for weird little treasures, collecting witchy things, or getting way too attached to fictional characters. I’m mostly a homebody, but I’ll happily leave the house for concerts, Renaissance Faires, movies, a good bookstore, or wandering a metaphysical shop for far longer than any reasonable person should.
I’d love to find someone who can match my energy, make me laugh until my stomach hurts, flirt a little, and absolutely rock my world. Bonus points if you’re down for sharing random thoughts throughout the day, sending me memes, or getting excited over the dumb little things that make life fun.
If you’re kind, a little nerdy, enjoy genuine conversation, and don’t mind a woman who’s equal parts cozy and chaotic… come say hi. Worst case, we swap Fallout opinions and thrift store finds.

🤦‍♀️ Can't believe I'm doing this.

But fuck it, won't know if I don't try, right?

About Me:

1 kiddo (he's 8)

Married for 10 years

2 degrees, work in Transcription/Telecommunications field

Live on 250 acres w/ cattle

Still have dreams of experiencing those 1 in a lifetime moments... where the butterflies in your stomach almost make you levitate. You know, the stuff you see in movies, that just grab your heart & make you go, "Awwwwww"

Here's where I lose most people...

Still also have dreams of experiencing those '50 Shades of Grey' moments where you can't help but grabbing me by the waist, pinning my hands up over my head, while you slowly move your mouth from mine, to my neck, to my collar bone & further down we go 😏

*I like sex... what can I say?!*

Yes... both men AND women. But usually prefer to focus on 1 at a time... I want my person to feel just as special/wanted/desired as they make me feel.

Which is what I'm ultimately looking for.

Look, I have read through these posts for almost 2 months straight now & have managed to find ONE candidate, who ultimately will just be a good friend. But I want more. Not asking you to give up your existing life to focus on me, but I'm hoping I'll stumble upon that person that doesn't mind throwing their hands up in the air & saying, "fuck it... I deserve to be happy, too!" And just makes it work.

I can tell you things about me all day, but ultimately, you won't know shit unless you reach out with genuine curiosity.

Only requirements needed for you to apply:

-must have sense of humor

-must have your own vehicle, own house

-must like p.d.a (and yes, sex)

-must be financially stable (I cannot be your sugar momma, sorry buddy)