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19 [F4M] #Dallas - Petite baddie girl with lots of bd ideas n want someone older that can actually handle my mouth n attitude

Just a petite baddie girl with too many bad ideas n a mouth that gets me in trouble, I want someone who can match my energy, play along with the teasing n still know how to keep me in check when I get out of line

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u/Sweaty_Judge_2881 — 15 hours ago

42 [F4M] #houston corporate soccer mom looking for long term exclusive partner

I’m no stranger to this lifestyle so you’ll never have to worry about my discretion or opsec practices. I have a professional career and young family which demand most of my time but I’m willing to make time for the right person. I’m intelligent, sweet, short, hwp, pretty and take care of myself. Looking for someone to build a connection with. We should get along great as friends and lovers.

The type of guy I typically match well with is a professional with kids (easier to relate). Older than me, experience in this lifestyle, dad bod to large athletic body, sensual, passionate, romantic gentleman, intelligent, loyal, embraces his silly or nerdy side.

Most importantly, he understands my real life comes first and I cannot meet often.

I know my worth as a high caliber woman. Think you can keep up with me?

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u/Miss31415 — 1 day ago

29 [f4m] #dfw Curvy athletic girl for bodybuilder

29, 5’4”, curvy build, go to the gym 4-5 times a week, seeking hispanic, middle eastern (NO indians) or white muscular, bodybuilder types. Above average face card, so they tell me. Don’t care about height just be taller than me. Mixed latina/white. Into eccentric things but I like boneheads who are less intelligent than me. Intelligence is obviously welcomed too. Prefer older 40+, but 30+ is ok. Don’t waste my time.

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u/Smooth_Cloud2444 — 1 day ago

29 [F4M] #RichardsonTX Looking for something VERY specific - BBW ISO Married men whose wives used to be BBWs & they miss that (No drinkers, no 420, hosting will be discussed, but mobile is MANDATORY).

I'm looking for something super, super specific here. I've met, and slept with a few married men, who when they got married to their wives, they were larger ladies, but recently they've lost weight and are no longer a BBW, or even chubby. This is not meant to be some strange fetish or pity fuck type situation, this is for men who genuinely like BBWs, and miss their own body being pressed up against one. Slim/fit guys especially. We're softer, squishier, and more comfortable for some.

I'm clearly, a BBW. 5'4", pale white skin. Long brown hair and hazel eyes. Alt/goth/hipster style. D cups, 44" waist, 57" hips/ass. Four inner arm tattoos, one nose piercing, stretched ears. I'm also married as well. Not looking to change my situation or yours. I know all about being discreet.

You: Prefer white or Asian, slim or fit, but also dad body chubby is cool too. 6" at least. Height is irrelevant to me, honestly. No one with hang ups of any kind as I said in the title. Mobile, hosting will be discussed as per. I'd love it if you wear your ring while we fool around, maybe tell me my pussy feels so much better than your wife's (those are both big turn ons I've come to find). Open to men who are travelling and here for work who want to host me in their hotel!

Would prefer rough, dominant, or someone who can switch. No older than 45 if at all possible. I like a guy more into giving than receiving. I do not do anal with anyone besides my own partner.

Pics will be exchanged in DMs. Please provide FULL stats - age, race, height, weight, dick size, hosting if you can, ofc you should be mobile, what drew you to my ad and what you miss about your wife being a larger lady (I won't pry further than that!) If you just say you like that big girls fuck better and give better head I am going to block you, as well as anyone who doesn't provide what I ask for. I have ads up in multiple subs for a number of things, so please mention this one when you reach out!

ETA: I need to clarify a few things here - firstly, I'm a BBW who's lost weight recently, but I'm still OVER 250 but under 290lbs. If you have a 'minimum' over 300, I'm not for you. Or if your wife was 200-250lbs, still probably not, who knows, maybe. But 200 I'm going to be more hesitant on. Also, I'm not interested in guys who just wanna see me 'jiggle' while I'm on top of them, or feed into the 'BBWs just fuck better' stereotype. I'm here for the guys who miss the curves, the softness of a larger woman, how sexy the size difference is (because it is), how much softer and plush a large body is, the good stuff. I'm also NOT into men who bash their wives and go 'oh well she gained a lot of weight and looks bad now', that's not okay to me and I think it's fucked up. I also understand you cannot host at home, and I would prefer you didn't. I know it would need to be a hotel or carplay. I hope this clears some stuff up after the DMs I received.

Thank you.

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u/DAINAMAITO- — 1 day ago
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26 [M4F] #Houston dead bedroom marriage, help!

Hey yall! I’m married, 26, very professional, and have an athletic build. There is a SFW pic on my profile! I live in the Sugarland area. I’m looking for someone to bring that spark back into my life! It can be a long or short term thing, in person or online! Help me out!

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u/Fragrant_Duty_5090 — 1 day ago

36 [F4M] #DFW — Be normal

Keeping this simple. I’m 36, balancing work and mom life, and looking for something consistent—not a one-time thing.

Physically, I’m more “mom bod but trying” than gym rat. I stay active and would love someone who’s also on a health kick or at least motivated enough to keep me on track. I’m confident in my looks—happy to swap pics early and make sure there’s mutual interest.

Looking for someone local to DFW who is mature, intelligent, attractive, over 5’7”, between the ages of 30–45. I prefer men who can lead, must be financially stable, and ideally a father—it matters to me that we both understand family comes first.

I don’t need to get deep right away, but I do want more than surface-level eventually.

A few things:
- Not into nerd culture (no offense, just not my thing)
- DDF and prefer the same
- Lean conservative, but not something we need to focus on
- Telegram only
- Local to DFW (no travelers)
- 30+ only
- Not interested in NSFW pics
- Discretion matters—I’m intentional about who I spend time with and expect the same

If that lines up, send a message with a little about you.

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u/ThePerfectAccomplice — 3 days ago

38 [F4M] #Austin ready for sex again 2 years into a sexless marriage

I have a playlist and it’s 51 minutes long right now. Let’s break my 2 year dry spell and listen to it together.

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u/Alarmed-Parfait8495 — 3 days ago

41 [m4f] #Houston nerd librarian here!

Need someone to talk about all sorts of topics? I’m your man. I enjoy reading and particularly fantasy and science fiction. I enjoy a good conspiracy theory or paranormal encounter. Anything science related. Hit me up!

Married with kids. But ready to have another connection.

Also I’m a goofball and have plenty of dad jokes!

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u/BlackHoleSun984 — 3 days ago
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39 [M4F] #Fort Worth, TX - who wants to be a mother?

Successful breeder willing to help couples or single moms. DM is key.

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u/NoBill4416 — 3 days ago

39 [F4M] #Houston Dogleg left or Dogleg Right?

Me:Beauty and brain… confidently rating myself a 9/10 because closed mouths don’t get compliments. Equal parts classy, funny, and slightly unhinged in a charming way.

You: Lawyer 6’1. Tall enough to reach the top shelf and emotionally stable enough not to argue with me using “technically.” Bonus points if you can win an argument and still make me laugh after or help me fix my slice

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u/TemperatureSea1402 — 4 days ago

23 [f4m] #houston anyone up?

I got married young no I won’t get a divorce and I don’t expect you to either. I’m just here to make the best of our shitty situation.
Honestly, there’s not much to me. I’m probably the most simplest/boring woman you’ll ever meet🤷🏽‍♀️ I’m a huge homebody, I watch the same shows over and over, my best friend is my cat, I like to be alone, and I get excited to go on my daily walks😂
I randomly get obsess with things (right now it’s candles)
I say I’m an introvert but it’s extremely easy for me to have conversations and make friends, I just rather not? Lmao.
I love laughing and telling jokes, so if you’re funny don’t hesitate to message me😂
I’m reaaalllyyyy fucking sarcastic and I love dark humor, I hate taking everything so seriously
I would like something long term and consistent but things like this never work out for me unfortunately 🙃 I’m just tired of having my time wasted and not getting the effort l give.
Look forward to hearing from ya. <3

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u/420flower_ — 4 days ago

41 [f4m] #houston. Chemistry, subtle teasing, all the butterflies.

I’ve been here before. But it’s been awhile since someone came along and absolutely wrecked me.

I’m looking for a high intensity connection that doesn’t fade in a few days or weeks. Not looking to change my life or yours. Just add some big sparks.

If you understand that attraction lives in the little thing. A thoughtful text, a voice note at the right moment, a teasing photo, or a date that actually required effort, we’ll probably get along.

About you: married, dads to the front. Hot dads- yall get the fast pass. Some level of independence, can text beyond 8-5, some day time flexibility. Kind, funny, can carry a conversation. Hopefully local. Not afraid to take the lead.

Me: active, HWP. Attractive. Hot mom. Sweet, funny, kind. Busy but willing to put in the effort for the right person.

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u/Blush_Bunny_BB — 5 days ago

31 [F4M] #Tyler Manly men are my type!

obligatory, I’m married and I’m not looking to change my situation or yours.
No cake eaters, if you think you’re in a happy relationship and you’re just “looking for more” I’m not the one for you.
Location matters to me (East Texas, Tyler)
As the title states, manly men are my type. We will get along best if you are:

Between the ages of 30-45
A Dad
Right leaning politically
Outdoorsy (🦌🦃🦆)
Looking for something long term
Into ✨curvy women

If you’re interested, tell me your favorite drink!

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u/Silent-Position2013 — 4 days ago

34 [f4m] #OK just curious

Hi there! Just genuinely curious how many folks on here are from love county or somewhere close? Well apparently I have to keep typing cause this post wasn't long enough lmao. So lets see im 34 nurse mom of 3. Dont know what im looking for or want. Ok thats a lie i just gave up on finding it lol ok maybe thats enough 😂

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u/DistinctRaise3039 — 6 days ago

36 [f4m] #Houston. Are slow fades and ghosting your thing?

If so, please keep it moving.
If you're more of the genuine and caring variety, keep reading.
I'm a sweet southern soul that has been on a tiresome search for maybe the non existent. From my title you can probably tell l've run into an interesting lot here. Is there anyone normal? Not just someone looking for their own personal only fans model that you will ghost or slow fade in 2 weeks?
I'm not looking for anything extraordinary. Just something to give the day to day a little excitement.
I also hope to exchange photos and meet in person fairly quickly.
If you can keep up with consistent communication, hold a conversation, and meet tairly regularly, teel free to shoot me a message.
Please take pride in your appearance, be HWP, non smoker.
As for me, I'm HWP myself, take care of myself, care about my health, attractive. I'm a mom- mom bod included. If that's an issue, feel free to keep it moving.

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u/HoneyPudle — 5 days ago

30 [f4m] #tyler long term AP

Hi, I’m back! 30-ish married, curvy, pretty brunette in East Texas looking for a local long term affair partner to meet up with in person and text/dm with as well. Attraction is a must and I’m willing to send pics when you do. Been looking for a while and ready to find someone. 🤞 (I’m ddf and willing to test as you should be too.)

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u/DepartureConscious75 — 6 days ago

40 [F4M] #Houston Latina seeking friends

North Houston area married, and fairly new to an open relationship. Wanting to meet open minded non judgmental friends to get to know and develop a long lasting friendship. Not looking to change my situation or yours at all, but ideally you’re either single or also in a similar relationship.

Prefer men my age or slightly older. Race is irrelevant. Can share pics if interested.

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u/Necessary_Life_5024 — 6 days ago

36 [F4M] #DFW - Looking for FWB

Looking for a FWB type situation in the area. Preferably a white male ages 30-45. I have been told frequently that I am hot, but if you’re into smaller/skinny women im probably not your person. I am a curvy woman so so don't act surprised that im chunky.

I am on the hunt for an attractive man that isn’t going to get scared and ghost when he sees that we actually have things in common. Im all about honesty and will call you out if I feel like something isn’t adding up. Must have a decent job and not sleep on your parents couch.

I will ask for a picture because I am big on physical attraction. If that’s an issue, don’t bother even saying hi.

Bonus points for guys with tattoos or guys who wear their hats backwards 🥵

Also, if you can only be a Mon-Fri 8am to 5pm, don't bother. I want to feel like a priority. I match energies and effort.

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u/RealKinkyChick — 8 days ago

35 [F4M] #Austin #Brownwood 6FT WOMAN LOOKING FOR A TALL AP (please read the whole thing before shooting your shot 😭)

I’m 6ft tall, so yes, you must be at least 6ft. I’m not a short queen out here demanding a giant for fun. I genuinely just want to feel normal when I look someone in the eyes 😂 Bonus points if I can wear heels 👠 😘

Trying not to sound like that girl, but I’m attractive. I get compliments pretty much everywhere I go, so take that however you want. I’d say I’m like an 8, maybe more, but I’m not trying to be the woman who writes a Reddit ad about how hot she is and then shows up looking like she fought a lawn mower.

Discretion is important to me... obviously, but I’m also not looking for something completely surface level. I want someone I can actually build a good connection with. Start slow, but eventually be consistent. Like… if you disappear for 9 hours every day and reappear at 10pm with “how was your day?” we are probably not compatible 😭 I want someone who understands what it feels like to be lonely in a marriage. Not just missing the physical stuff, but missing the emotional side too. I miss the connection, the flirting, the excitement, having someone who actually gives a shit about how your day went.

I’m looking around the 30–40ish range and I really need y’all to respect this part because somehow “around 35” turns into a 53-year-old man named Rick telling me age is just a number. Sir, respectfully, if you could’ve gone to prom with my dad, I cannot do this. I’m freaky, but not that freaky.

I travel for work, so someone around Austin, Brownwood, San Angelo, etc. would be ideal, or at least someone who can travel. I’d honestly love an overnight eventually if we click.

Music-wise, I mostly listen to heavier stuff, rap, and a very tiny amount of country. And before we waste each other’s time, I am NOT MAGA. Never voted for that loser, never will. If you did, we are probably not going to vibe and that’s okay, but please leave me TF alone.

If you message me, tell me your height, age, relationship situation, and what you’re actually missing in your marriage, because “hey” is not enough and I’m tired, boss.

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u/Ok_Lunch1810 — 10 days ago

22 [F4M] #DFW Looking for discreet older connection

I have been dating my high school sweetheart since we were both 16. We ended up going somewhere far away for college and have been doing long distance for the last few years. It’s been hard and honestly I feel like I’ve lost a spark in my relationship. Looking for somebody local in DFW area. Appreciate anolder with experience. I also highly value discretion. Please reach out if you are interested.

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u/CTX2grams — 11 days ago