r/ArtCinemaHartfordCT

been needy and i want that special tongue that makes me squirt so messy

Me (24f) and my bf (30m) are monogamous and we both think the idea of swapping is hot but neither of us would feel comfortable actually doing that, or are actually seeking that. But we are both pretty kinky and I think that we might have fun watching and pleasuring each other.

Do many monogamous couples go? Is it assumed that by being there, we are looking to swap? Or would people mostly leave us be unless we indicate otherwise? Any monogamous couples that have been before want to share their experience?