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[MF4MF] New west - Wife is curious. We can also do single male. I'll just watch.

[MF4MF] New west - Wife is curious. We can also do single male. I'll just watch.

u/PassersMila3 — 17 hours ago
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MF4F 40/40 (Vernon/Sparkling Hill)

Hey all, couple (40/40) looking to see what the vibes are at Sparkling Hill. We will be heading up in the summer to enjoy some quiet time and relaxation. Wondering if anyone knows if lifestyle folks frequent this resort (beyond just as regular guests). We have regularly participated in European Hour but definitely few and far between.

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u/Ok-Party-2738 — 3 days ago
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Nelson couple looking for a couple or bi-female, MF4MF

We’re a 27-year-old couple, new to the lifestyle and excited to explore what this world has to offer. For us, chemistry, respect, and fun go hand in hand — we believe the right connection makes the experience truly unforgettable. We’re looking to meet another open-minded couple or a playful bi-female who enjoys good vibes, laughter, and a bit of adventure. Since this is all new to us, patience and mutual respect mean a lot, and we’re hoping to find others who can make this journey exciting and comfortable at the same time.

Hit us up if interested and let’s chat. Can share more NSFW photos and revealed photos after there is mutual interest

u/FrontMark2190 — 3 days ago

MF4M/F Vancouver Married couple seeking submissive third

Please read the post before messaging. If you’re older and not submissive please don’t reach out. We Hope to find the right person.

We are in our early 30s looking for a younger bisexual male or female who enjoys a more submissive dynamic and is open-minded, respectful, and DDF, we are interested in chemistry, good vibes, and a fun night where we take the lead.

About us:
Her: 32, Asian, curvy with a thick body.
Him: 34, Mexican, 6’4”, slim build.

We’re not looking for another dominant person.

We live in Burnaby!

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u/Strong-Meal63 — 4 days ago
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Visiting New West May 30–June 1! Mature, active couple looking for connections – We can host! (MF4MF)

Hi everyone!
We’re an active, down-to-earth, and mature couple (52M straight- 54F bi) heading to New Westminster at the end of May, and we'd love to connect with like-minded couples.

We are looking to make new friends and really connect first. If the connection is real and flirty and fun and the anticipation is strong… that is our goal… great company.

We have a hotel booked and are fully able to host, just a couple of commitments to work around.

A few quick things we're hoping to find:
Genuine & Sincere: Actual chemistry starts with honest communication.


Faces to Names: We'd appreciate it if you're comfortable exchanging photos so we can see if there's a mutual spark.

If you think we might hit it off, drop us a line in our DMs!

P.S. Just to set clear expectations, we are strictly looking to connect with other couples and are not seeking single men at this time. Thanks!

u/Success1245 — 4 days ago

MF4MF Maple Ridge Pendulum Society Question

Hello Everyone!!

I know that there's a lot of experience and knowledge within this group so I'm here hoping to find an answer to.a question I have.

I'm looking to talk to people that have attended events at Pendulum Society in Langley.

My wife and I have been im the lifestyle for a while now and are always looking for new and exciting people, experiences and events. We are not new to places like Bon Bon, Vancouver Velvet or Eden. We have not been to a Pendulum event and are curious about them seeing as we have heard different/conflicting versions of Pendulum events.

Our question (s) are, what kind of parties/events do they have there? Are they full out swingers parties with lots of play going on? Or are they more simply like a party where there might be play? Are the crowds there open, accepting, non-judgemental or is it click or totally oriented towards certain age groups or economic status? We've had experiences where the latter was the case.

My wife and I are an older, mature couple that still enjoys the lifestyle, still enjoy swinger parties and are always looking for new friends and new swingers clubs to party a night away. We are really curious about Pendulum Society and would really appreciate any and all advice or information that you have.

Thanks!!

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u/Conscious-Ice-6542 — 5 days ago

MF4MF VIctoria BC

We are a local couple (both bi) looking for other couples to join us for soft or full swaps

u/Affectionate_Gap3358 — 6 days ago

Another day, another swing. (Coquitlam,Surrey,Vancouver) MF4MF/F

Fun, respectful, and experienced couple (30M / 27F) looking to meet genuine, open-minded people in the lifestyle. We’re hygienic, drama-free, communicative, and believe mutual attraction and comfort come first. We enjoy good conversation, chemistry, and respectful connections with others who value discretion and maturity.

u/Sad-Moment-7725 — 7 days ago

28 [MF4MF] Couples in the lower mainland area

Hello everyone. I am 28M and she is 34F. She is gone for a work trip to Edmonton and has given me one lifetime chance to go enjoy with a couple. Either watch them or play with them if they allow.

I am a respectful person and do no drugs. Please DM to know more.

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u/anthony020000 — 7 days ago

[F + MF4F] - Vancouver - FFFM

We are a couple with a unicorn, both girls are bi, looking to add another F into the mix for some extra fun.

M 41 white, 6’5

F 30 Asian, 5’1

F 26 Asian, 5’2

Pics in our posts. Our ideal woman would be a curvy blonde who is either switch or domme, but open to all body types and dynamics!

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u/YVR_Dizzy — 8 days ago

[MF4MF] lower mainland

Fun, attractive couple ready for spontaneous weekend fun! We are completely new to this and looking to explore. She is 40, beautiful, great body, he is 41, athletic average body. Our ultimate vibe, us booking a nice hotel, having a few drinks, party friendly and having a wild night. He loves the idea of watching her have fun with another couple. He will participate as well but for now only with her, until the times right, same room, soft swap, see where it goes, Classy, respectful, and ready for adventure

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u/Minute_Afternoon8150 — 10 days ago