30[F4M] #Online #Aus sub seeking soft dom, online-first connection and mentorship.
Hi there! This is a long post, but I value substance and communication, so please bear with me.
I am looking for someone who I can build a connection with, and has experience with newer subs. They have to have the patience to start small and build up as we get more comfortable with each other, and be willing to help a newbie sub explore the kink world and bring my fantasies to life. If you are looking for an immediate hookup, video calls/pictures immediately, or instant submission, we are not a match. If you are a practicing dom who values doing the simple things with intensity rather than intense things sloppily, I want to hear from you.
I have spent the last six months intentionally researching, reading, and educating myself about the kink lifestyle, but there is only so much I can learn on my own. I am new to the community, and because of this, I am very protective of my safety and my pace. I am looking for an online-first buffer to build an intellectual connection, banter, and see if we click before anything physical is even discussed. My risk profile is strictly SSC, and I utilize the traditional traffic light system (and have my own hard safe word). Let me know what risk profile you have and what safe word system you use. I am looking for an honest, communicative, and safe dom who enjoys teaching, guiding, and pacing a curious beginner. I lean naturally submissive and am deeply intrigued by dynamics that involve a lot of caretaking, guidance, and consistent communication. Know that my submission is earned and not assumed. I need structure, I want to know what’s expected of me, and to be held accountable when I slip. Degradation is out, Praising me is in, repeat this at the top of your reply.
I am happy to discuss my kinks and fantasies, but these are the hard nos:
Not looking for one-night stands, Discreet married men unless you’re in an openly discussed poly dynamic/ENM, extreme pain and body harm, sharps, blood and scat anything illegal,
A little about me: I am a homebody at my core, I love staying indoors reading, painting, playing games, or just chilling, watching my comfort shows(the good place, grace and frankie, monk). I do like exploring different places around where I stay, particularly finding good spots to eat. I do love a good meal. I don’t go out much, but will indulge once in a while. I prefer day parties so that I am back home before 9 pm. I’d describe myself as someone who is deeply creative, thoughtful, and probably a little too much of a dreamer sometimes. I romanticise small moments, and I tend to notice details that other people overlook. I’m ambitious and always trying to grow into the person I imagine for myself, but at the same time, I’m very introspective and often in my own head (too much sometimes). I think I come across as shy, but that’s not the case when you get to know me, calm and somewhat put together, but internally, I’m always thinking, questioning, imagining, and feeling everything very deeply. At my core, I’d say I’m someone who’s sensitive, creative, curious, and constantly trying to make sense of both myself and the world around me.
Thank you for reading, and I can't wait to see who is out there! 😃
I will only be replying to those who demonstrate they have read and respected my words. Start your message by repeating the phrase, mention one of my comfort shows and tell me yours, and include how long you’ve been a practicing dom, your designation/style, and what your framework for aftercare looks like.