r/ChicagoDomsubPersonal

who is interested

Does anyone know the best bdsm dungeon in Chicago? Do they host parties? Girl and boys?

Or does someone host parties? It would be mostly girls with a couple guys. Maybe 8-10 total. Ages 22-40.

Im trying to organize a bachelorette party and looking for ideas. The bride is open minded and free thinker.

Has anyone been to Polekatz in Bridgview? Would that be an option?

It would be this weekend (sorry for shorts notice). The main girl in charge backed out and I'm trying to help out in emergency.

Thanks in advance!

Dm me

Title says all 😎 27 yo guy in Dupage county looking for a fwb.

6foot, fit, strong hands, very laid back grey collar guy looking for someone who is clean, a good communicator & a freak.

I’m only recently versed in some of the BDSM community’s jargon. Which means that I’ve only last week grasped that I’m (mostly) a pleasure dom.

However, I haven’t the slightest idea where I might meet praise subs or service-oriented submissives.

Are there “dating sites” for this?

A few options would be great.

(I’m in Chicago if that matters.)

I’m trying to explore more kinks and would love to explore w an experienced Dom

looking fun

I’m trying to explore more kinks and would love to explore w an experienced Dom

Dm me.

My desire: A young college athlete to date while my older, experienced Daddy Dom coaches.

Lets all 3 of go out and see what happens.

Me- clean, fit, attractive, professional, discreet, playful and flirty.

Him- Same, very straight, personal trainer, experienced daddy dom, loves to coach and mentor.

You- Tall, intelligent, college student, athlete, handsome. Please send a pic and very brief intro.

still looking

Kink is a performance and a connection. Two minds coming together to build a world of fantasies, feelings and emotion.

I want to be analyzed, examined and picked apart. My mind is imaginative but anxious; a deep thinker burdened with seeing how fucked up this world is. I am looking to use bdsm and impact for supplemental ADHD treatment lol

I'm looking for domination and discipline thats sensual, intimate and intense. My main focus is receiving spankings, forced orgasms and really leaning into some improv and play. I'm not really looking for sex beyond teasing, and orgasms. Spanking and impact is what I'm after. Imagine me fully naked (profile) you in a suit, sleeves rolled up.

A part of the no sex aspect is that I get cold sores (hsv1) every other year (if you ever have, it's an extra match). But I am negative for everything else as of 5/09​

I also am pansexual and not into penis in vagina sex unless for a few minutes. I also want to possibly get my tunes removed one day.

Kinks: spanking, degradation, praise, nipple sucking/torture, power play, impact play, vibrators, edging, slapping, ear kissing, daddy/lg

Limits: scat, cum/swallowing, piv, blood/scars

When I say psychology, that is something we could build together. I like someone to come to conversations with analyzing why we do what we do. I do this with my friends often. I'd love to analyze why i'm into what i'm into and why it attracts you. Discover new things together. Form new kinky ideas.

An element to this is I'd share my trauma. For now, the gist is I've always been into kinky sexual fantasies and online chats, was homeschooled and Christian, and now have a very complicated relationship with sex. Been indulging in every pleasure imaginable because it's a rare time to be alive as a woman, completely free. And I want to give a little of that control up for an intellectual man to discipline me. What's going on up there? Come see.

You are ideally in the Chicago area but if the connection is there, open to you traveling

You're not a trump supporter, you enjoy talking about and analyzing race, deconstructing Christianity, and respect black women

You're a professional and can relate to my corporate job and frustrations

Send me

- age

- sign (just a funny little thing cus of my username)

- location

- why this stood out you

- one thing you want to know about me

- ready to send a picture right after

I'm not looking to jump into this, but phone calls will be part of vetting and the build up. Test results within a month if fluids/blowjob is involved