r/ChicagoDomsubPersonal

Dm me

Looking for a very hung, fit, strong man to put me in my place. If you like making a women cum and using her as a fuck toy we're a good match.

You've probably seen me posting here or there and you're probably thinking to yourself "this person's probably a bot" which to that I say, nope! The only metal part of my body is my IUD and I can't do simple arithmetic sometimes.

So why am I posting here again? Mainly because I can't seem to find that sweet spot where someone's a good texter, a good conversationalist, and someone I'm physically attracted to. I don't need constant communication, but I do want someone who's excited to talk, can keep a conversation going, and doesn't make me feel like I'm interviewing them every time we text.

By all means, I'm not a Victoria Secrets model but I'm not ugly. I work out, have a decent skincare routine, have a decent sense of style, and I don't wear them hippie natural deodorant. I use the real shit. All I ask for you to put the same effort to your appearance as I do.

So if you use that 5-in-1 shampoo/body wash/face wash/motor oil combo... maybe consider branching out a little. I'm not asking for a 10-step skincare routine, but smelling nice, wearing clean clothes, and looking like you care about yourself goes a long way. The bar isn't "look like a movie star"—it's "look like you made an effort before leaving the house."

I also prefer someone my age. What would you consider my age? Well my age range is between 25-35. I don't want someone too young where I feel like a creep by just breathing next to you or someone too old where I feel like I have nothing to talk about.

Besides that, I'll introduce myself briefly. Hi! I'm Taylor, and I'm 29 years old from the SW Burbs. I'm a married woman but my husband and I are in an open relationship. We date separately. While we're not actively looking for a threesome, we're not completely opposed to the idea if everyone genuinely clicks.

Outside of that, I'm a bit of a nerd and a bit of a gym rat. You'll find me reading fanfiction in between sets at the gym. Sometimes I even bring my Switch while I'm walking on the treadmill because cardio is significantly less painful when I'm trying to catch Pokémon.

I'm also a huge EDM fan. Ask me about my favorite DJs and I can talk about them for hours. Festivals are one of my favorite ways to spend a weekend, and I firmly believe life is better with good music and a little bass.

I'm also chronically online in the best and worst ways. Expect random TikToks, memes with zero context, and me disappearing down an internet rabbit hole at 1 a.m. only to resurface with the most useless fun fact you've ever heard.

If we hang out, there's a good chance we'll end up grabbing coffee, wandering through a bookstore, trying a new restaurant, hitting the gym together, or debating something incredibly important—like which Pokémon generation was the best or whether pineapple belongs on pizza.

At the end of the day, I'm looking for someone who's easy to talk to, enjoys laughing at dumb jokes, communicates well, and genuinely wants the friend part of FWB. Chemistry is important, but I think it's a lot hotter when we actually enjoy each other's company.

If you've made it this far, congratulations! Your reading comprehension is already above average.

When you message me, include:

• Your preferred name
• Your pronouns
• Your age
• Your location (approximate. not exact)
• Something from my post that caught your attention
• And a 🎂 emoji so I know you actually read this.

Please don't send me your dick size, shirtless mirror selfie, or "hey." None of those tell me anything about who you are. I'd much rather know what book you're reading, what game you're playing, your favorite EDM artist, or the most unhinged fact you know.

If we click, awesome. If we don't, I genuinely wish you the best. Thanks for reading my novel.

EDIT: I’m not interested in engaging with anyone who is cheating or in a closed monogamous relationship. Please respect that this is a hard boundary for me. Messages that cross it will be ignored or blocked.

EDIT: Please don’t message me if you’re racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, anti-LGBTQ+, anti-immigration, or generally bigoted. I’m only interested in people who believe in basic human rights, equality, and treating others with respect.
I’m also very openly pro-Palestine, and that’s not something I’m willing to debate or compromise on. If that’s an issue for you, we’re not compatible.

I’m 28F looking for M/F/Other in the Hyde Park area, but I can travel. I’m tatted with curly red hair, 5’4, not fat but also not skinny, and negative for STD’s/STI’s.

I’m looking for someone to do a CNC scenario with. I just want someone to fucking destroy me.

I like the idea of a “date gone wrong” scenario, where we meet up for a meal or a coffee and it generally goes really well… until you start getting pushy. Once we get back to your place, you keep making advances and I keep saying no or trying to push you away. I want you to be a little sadistic and scary about it. I want to have a real struggle before you fuck me into submission.

Open communication is a must! Let’s thoroughly discuss kinks and limits before starting anything.

Upfront I will say I’m in a polyamorous relationship with a woman. It depends on how we click if we’d like to make it long-term, short-term, or just a one-night-stand. Roleplaying is fun and I’d like to keep exploring different scenarios, so come to me with some ideas of your own!

Petite but I want to feel even smaller when you pick me up and toss me around like I'm nothing. Looking for a very hung, fit, strong man to put me in my place. If you like making a women cum and using her as a fuck toy we're a good match.