r/DDlg18Plus

Hi! I’m Sassy or Lou 😊
I’m a soft-hearted, affectionate little/middle with a silly side, a lot of love to give, and just enough innocent mischief to keep my future Daddy wondering whether that angelic face can really be trusted. 😇🤭

I’m looking for one person. Not a collection of chats, not someone who disappears after three days, and not someone who thinks being a Daddy begins and ends with calling me “babygirl.”

I want the real stuff.
I want a Daddy who genuinely enjoys caring for his little — someone kind, intelligent, emotionally available, dependable, nurturing, and confident enough to be firm when I need him to be.

I love structure. Rules, routines, expectations, accountability, encouragement, praise, and knowing Daddy is paying attention all make me feel cared for. I want someone who can be my soft place to land while also being the person who lovingly says, “Nice try, little girl.” when I attempt to charm my way out of something. 😇

But more than anything, I want connection.

Quality time is huge for me. Give me phone calls, movie nights, games, bedtime stories, ridiculous inside jokes, random messages during the day, and evenings where we’re doing absolutely nothing exciting but we’re doing it together.

I want to know the man behind “Daddy,” too. Tell me what made you laugh today. Tell me when work sucked. Let me celebrate your victories, encourage you, listen to you, spoil you with affection, and become a safe place for you too.
Because I don’t just want to have a Daddy. I want to love my person well. 💜

I’m 48, BBW, creative, sentimental, tender-hearted, affectionate, and occasionally a complete goofball. I love coloring, crafty things, creating meaningful portraits for families, and finding reasons to laugh.

I’m primarily looking for an online/long-distance dynamic at first, but I want something real and long-term. If we build something wonderful and eventually want to bring it into real life, I’d love to see where it takes us.

One important thing: I’m not looking for someone who immediately turns our conversations sexual. Please get to know me first. Friendship, trust, emotional intimacy, and feeling safe with someone matter deeply to me. Anything more intimate can unfold naturally if and when we’ve built that kind of connection.

If you’re looking for a little who will care just as much about your heart as she does about having you care for hers, maybe we should talk.

Tell me about yourself — not just your roles and kinks.

And answer the two questions I’ve apparently decided reveal everything I need to know about a man:

What’s your favorite comfort food, and how do you take your hot chocolate or coffee ☕🤭

Choose carefully. I’m judging.
Sweetly, of course. 😇💜

Haii! I am (ask me) and I am 20 years old! For me being little isn't only a kink, its a lifestyle and part of me, maybe because of my diagnoses/dissability (wich i tell later in the post) I am Dutch and prefer someone in the same country (Netherlands) because I want to meet up and stuff.

I like all sorts of series/movies, horror, cartoons, romance, action ect. I also like gaming and reading on wattpad. I also have taken a liking in working out, I work out 1 hour a day (also to try to lose some weight, later in this post my weight is told)

I LOVE stuffed animals, sippy cups/bottles, cute decorations, pastel colours, cute clothes and pajamas and I also LOVE adult pacifiers, and I have like 5 or 6 of them hehe.

I do wear diapers at night, not because its a kink or because i like it (im mostly embarrassed about it) but because my bladder is messed up, during the day i have to wear pullups when i work out and when i dont work out i have like special thing in my underwear so i dont dripple in my underwear. I am very embarrassed about it lol

I am 169cm tall, my weight is around 106, but trying to lose some weight/become healthier. I have pale skin with stretch marks and self harm scars. I have long brown hair and like to put on blush and mascara, cute hair things and just trying to look cute hahaha.

I have an intelectuall dissability and dont function as a 20 year old mentally, in most things (in relationship stuff I am mature) but with many things i need help. I also have autism and a depressive disorder.

I live in a grouphome but currently staying in a psychciatric ward for treatment, have been here for 6 months, probaly for a little while here staying still.

I really want a daddy who likes me for me, not my boobies or butt, but i want him to like me, just me.

I cant travel far, so my daddy has to be able to travel to me, or eventually pick me up and bring me back (if its in my country)

Big yes yes! Things i like:

- praise

- light bondage

- light choking

- being dominated

Big no no! Things i DONT like:

- Sadism

- Degrading

- Anal

- feet

- illegal/scary things