r/DDlgLife

I'm a little and brat who isn't really into pain. I do like pain if I am in the right littlespace, but there has to be a lot of context to it, and most of the time I am only into in in scenes tbh.

I already know the writing a specific scentence over and over, works well for me. And it makes me remember what I did wrong really well, all in all this punishment is my favorite. But just having one kind feels a bit to repetitive and starts to drag after a while with no variety for me. Plus besides that I'm not really very creative when it comes to punishments, since most punishments I have come across are stuff like spanking, and I don't really handle that all to well like I mentioned.

I have tried workout punishments but I am unsure how healthy it is to equate working out with punishments? Or maybe it's not a bad thing? Maybe even a good thing? I mean it is healthy to work out and with how I brat it could be effective but I do want input with this one what people think of work out punishments, and what kind of work out punishments are fine and which ones aren't so great of an idea to use, especially for someone who never works out. (I genuinely hate working out lol)

Timeout is another one. I have never done that one tho so how should timeout function in a productive manner? How is it best to structure Timeouts? Like in a specific area of the home? Is it better to restart the timer if I don't follow what I'm supposed to do, or then switch to a different punishment before finishing the time on timeout?

I need input on two of these three. These might be dumb questions but I do like asking dumb questions sometimes to feel more secure in what I'm doing. And Yes I'm currently Domming myself so to speak, but I also want to have more knowledge on what works for me for the future.

Ps: sorry for my bad wording structure and writing. I'm dyslexic and not native English.

hii ♡ i’m 26F and incredibly new to this world. i’m hoping to find someone who’s gentle, patient, and caring enough to help me explore it at my own pace. i have a lot of walls up, so if you’re looking for someone who’s instantly an open book… i’m probably not her. maybe with time.

i spend a lot of my life in my own little bubble. (metaphorically, of course.) it’s where i feel safest. but i also think the world is beautiful. i love dancing around, getting excited over little things, and fluttering through life. i’m just hoping to find someone who’ll hold my hand, help me watch my step, and protect that little bubble instead of trying to pop it.

i absolutely adore my stuffies. i don’t have a huge collection, but i do collect little trinkets that all have stories behind them. i’d happily spend hours telling you about them. i’m also what i like to call a hoe of hobbies—i’m constantly picking up something new just because it looks fun. video games, laughing until my stomach hurts, and sharing little moments together are some of my favorite things.

discretion is really important to me. there are pieces of my life i’m not ready to share yet, and i hope you’ll be patient enough to let trust grow naturally. I am in a relationship, I understand if this is a turn off.
I just wish my life was this instead. Please let me enjoy this part.

my perfect day? waking up to sunshine, taking naps, cuddling up for movies, getting a little high ,don’t worry daddy i just need your help with the lighter. ♡ once that sun goes down come chase me through the woods.

Now I do have a little bit of a Darker side. I love a someone who wouldn’t mind getting their hands dirty in any aspect. I love you and your demons. I hope your demons crave me. (Tell me your darkest secret or desire ) (ps mine is no safe word )

Can you handle?…. I am clingy, obsessed but also very bratty.

I am a dark romance reader . So masks , horror movies. I love it all. I even listen to scary stories to fall asleep. 😉 I hope that give you ideas …
Cnc, stalkers, obsessions, rope, I’m still new so I hope it excited you to break your new toy and mold it for only you.
Oh boy I felt like I just kept rambling but since you came this far I do enjoy cute little nicknames only for me🩷 I hope I wrote this well.