r/DesiMarriedButLooking

I miss the kind of conversation that starts with a random opinion about whether pineapple belongs on pizza and somehow ends three hours later with neither of us having a clue where the time went.

I’m looking for a man who is intelligent enough to challenge me, confident enough not to be threatened by me, and funny enough to make me snort-laugh at inappropriate moments. Someone who can dish it out, take it back, and knows the difference between banter and being a jerk.

Please be emotionally stable, intellectually curious, and CONSISTENT. I’d love to meet someone ethnically TAMIL OR MALLU—not because it’s a requirement, but because sometimes it’s nice not to spend twenty minutes explaining why three aunties are suddenly involved in a life decision or why I buy rice by the kilograms.

And what do I bring to the table?

Confidence. Wit. Conversation. Questionable life choices. An unhealthy relationship with books. The rest, you’ll have to discover yourself.

If you’re convinced you’re my dream man, send a message. If you’re wrong, at least make it entertaining.

#married

we're an Indian couple in 30s, just getting started to swinging lifestyle and looking couple who is new to lifestyle too.

What do people feel about verifications as a means to filter spam from irl?

#throwaway account #married

I miss the sort of conversations where we can chat for hours and realise at the end of it that we do not know each others' names yet or even what we do. I miss a man who can dish it and take it. A man who is confident, bold and calm. A man who reads voraciously, thinks that a woman who does Sudoku is the height of sexiness. A man who is good looking and knows it. A man who is not horny or desperate. A man who wants me for who I am and not because he did not find any other woman. Someone ethnically indian , because I am too and sometimes it just is easier to explain the cultural context or constraints or even share stories about our lives. Someone who is willing to invest the time, energy and effort to make this work. Someone who takes care of me.

And what I bring to the table? DM me if you think you are my dream man and i'll tell you.

F29 NJ Married for 4 years and lost the connection. Looking to connect with folks in the same boat

Married guy here and there is nothing that I love more than a long, passionate making out session.

Kissing is the best thing ever, the hottest, the most intimate, it's just amazing!

That is absolutely the thing I love doing the most, and I crave it so much.
Even when it doesn't lead to anything else, it is still extremely enjoyable!

If you agree and crave making out as much as I do, we should get together!

I hope I don’t have to post it again next month. So, here it goes. I love being in a romantic relationship. Like staring at the phone waiting for a message from her. That butterfly in the stomach before meeting, wondering all the different ways to win her and the sense of touch and intimacy emotionally and physically.

I am 44, have been in a couple of discreet relationships in the past. Missing that feeling now. Want to get back in it. I am tall, rightly built - what I mean to say is I don’t have a 6 pack but I don’t have a dad bod either.

If you are looking for a discreet relationship, may be let’s chat and see if we can end both of our searches here. If you are on the fence about getting into a discreet relationship, also ping me. Let me have the chance to convince you to jump off the fence to the other side.

Oh yes, I am married and never looking to change that.

29yo Desi woman in the US, refined, discreet, and married. Looking for a mature man for a casual, respectful connection. Seeking men who are in a similar situation.

[29F] Married for 4 years and have been wanting to explore for a while now. Looking to see if I can find the right person to connect and see where it goes.

41F4M - Married, #Australia - Seduce my mind - Indian men preferred

Married and looking for someone also married. No cake eaters please. No singles please (no damn idea why you are here)

Let’s play a game of 2 truths and a lie.

Guess the truths and lies correctly in your DM to me (and learn a little about me in the process) and i’ll talk to you. ;)

Question 1

1. I have a tattoo
2. I have a nose piercing
3. I have multiple ear piercing

Question 2

1. I love reading
2. I love posting on social media
3. I love podcasts

Question 3

1. I love going for long walks
2. I love swimming
3. I love dancing

Question 4

1. I love travelling to cold climates
2. I love travelling to rural areas
3. I love travelling to cities

Godspeed ;)