r/DesiMarriedButLooking

38 married F4M. Long time lurker. Finally found the courage to post.

First things first:

1. If you are not within 200 miles of Austin, please do not message and waste your time. I will not reply.
2. Please be between 35 and 45.
3. Please do not send me NSFW imagery.
4. Please be in good shape.

About Me: From central India, been in the US for about 5 years. Looking for a friend first, more later, sort of a connection. I am new to this and still a bit apprehensive. Please don’t scare me away.

I am 5’4”, 120 lbs and stay super near and clean. Looks do matter to me.

I got ditched by my friend at the last moment, I have an extra ticket for the movie. The show is at 10 am, at Phoenix market city PVR Viman nagar

Upvote this and dm me.

I want to be your first thought in the morning and last text at night. And I want you to be my favorite notification at all times.

Hi, married Indian woman here looking for a long term romantic affair with a Bay Area local, preferably Indian and married as well. I want to build a genuine connection that can develop into something meaningful. Not looking for casual hookups.

Non-negotiable qualities that I look for: 

Consistency, emotional availability, good communication, mutual trust and respect

A little bit about me:

I am 5’3”, fit, good looking. I love deep conversations and I am also fun to hang out with. I am looking for a man who can sweep me off my feet while giving me a safe space to trust and open up. I like men who are confident, kind, caring and know how to carry themselves. Physically, I am attracted to men who are fit, athletic and well groomed. 

If you think we will be a good match, please DM me !

Looking for a broad man (over 5’11”) ages 40-50 for an online and potentially offline affair. Must be a gentleman and a professional. Uniforms are welcome! Preferably married. Has to value extreme discretion!!

I am 5’1” married and attractive with a great career. no drama.

Discreet, Genuine & Kink-Friendly

Married, 55, educator by profession, and very much someone who believes that the best connections start with trust, chemistry, and feeling genuinely comfortable with each other.

I’m looking for an AP who is interested in more than just a physical arrangement. I’d like to build a strong foundation of trust and a genuine connection, and from there explore the more adventurous, sensual and kinky sides of ourselves. I tend to be naturally confident and take the lead, so “pleasure Dom” probably describes me best—not interested in control for its own sake, but in creating an environment where we both feel safe enough to let go and enjoy the moment.

Discretion matters enormously to me. I understand that both of us have lives, families, careers and responsibilities outside of this. I have no interest in interfering with yours, and I expect the same in return. What happens between us stays between us.

I’m clean, respectful, gentlemanly, open-minded and very attentive to the person I’m with. I want you to feel safe, wanted, respected and completely comfortable being yourself around me. For me, that trust is what makes everything else possible.

I’m based around Erin Mills Parkway and the 401 in the GTA and have a fairly flexible schedule, including working from home regularly, which makes finding time for the right connection much easier.
Personality-wise, I’m funny, charismatic, confident and naturally a leader. I enjoy good conversation, flirting, chemistry and that feeling when two people can completely switch off from the outside world when they’re together.

I’m looking for something long-term rather than a one-off encounter. Someone who wants a real connection, who is curious about her own desires, and who wants a private space where we can explore that side of ourselves together.

And yes, I’m comfortable with feelings developing. I think pretending there can never be emotion involved is unrealistic. The important thing is that we communicate openly and respect the boundaries and parameters we establish together.

If you’re looking for something discreet, safe, passionate and genuinely connected—and you want a man who values the woman behind the fantasy—I’d enjoy getting to know you.

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I need a man, a reeeeeeal man. Big, broad chest, tall (over 5’10 will do). Someone with a calm demeanour, no drama. Preferably married. Must have a good profession. Cop or Firefighter uniforms are a bonus lol. Between 35-55 (don’t prefer young ones but they won’t leave me alone).

Me? ”Happily” married, MILF, 5’1”, 47 and have an established career.