r/ExtortionKink

Seeking a partner for psychological role-play. One or more sessions.

Premise: my character starts therapy with yours to address issues, trust builds over one or more sessions, then things turn. Your character starts using what’s been shared to drive me deeper toward my issues thru subtle manipulation, coercion, and potentially blackmail. Bonus points for juicy betrayal moments that I don’t see coming.

My issues for therapy:

• Sissy crossdressing
• Porn/gooning/edging/denial addiction
• Self-esteem and sense of inferiority to women
• Self bondage kink
• Golden shower kink
• Body image insecurity
• Trust issues

Looking for:

• Someone who writes subtle manipulative characters well.
• OK with checking in out of character and having a hard stop signal or safe word
• Slow burn over multiple sessions if it clicks between us
• Should genuinely enjoy manipulating someone for the fun of it
• Must be ok with discussing scat academically (no role play)

Not looking for: findom, insta-blackmail, overt domination, or anyone who can’t separate character from self after a scene.

DM with a bit about your style or in character. Some semblance of identity/age verification required (3rd party site ok). Not into findom but tribute and compensation discussion welcome.

Hi, my name is mat and I'm abdl and femboy/sissy (I know it's not the same) and I want to become more pathetic and maybe get a dom who would love to humiliate me and train me even more.

My kinks are: ABDL (duh), sissy, humiliation, blackmail, parental control, public humiliation, edging and spankings.

My limits: gore ana scat (but I use my diaper for both)

I'm looking for a dom who is into those kinks and wants to own a diaper sissy to train and blackmail for they enjoyment. I have a lot of items so I can wear it if you want.

My items:

-ABDL pacifier

-Plastic pants and diaper cover

-2 onesie

-Skirt and top

-Bib

-Chastity cage and a flat cage

-A plug

-Cute cat socks

-Cat ears

Dm me if you are interested :3

Hello my new bait if you have the will to dive in and break the ice i promise you will have the experience of your life all you will is gone…

And you just be my new fucktoy.

Long experience in blackmail and domination.

My main kinks a humilation degradation public impact play and total power exchange.

You will have a safeword to step out if needed.

Hi you.

I'm Hana, a wicked Asian Temptress who lives for making men like you squirm, lose control, and beg to keep their filthy secrets safe.

It's no secret that you're craving that heart-pounding thrill of being blackmailed into submission, forced to obey just to keep your shame hidden. You know what makes that experience better? I can slip into the role of any woman. No matter who she is in your life (or the public eye), I'll embody her perfectly, teasing and tormenting you until you can't think straight.

Imagine me giggling as I drain you dry, your wallet empties into my hands, your time vanishes in endless tasks, your dignity crumbles with every humiliating demand, and your self-control? Shattered beyond repair. Message me with the word "waffles" if you want a reply. I'll break you down piece by piece, rebuilding you as my perfect, pathetic plaything and you'll beg for more.

If you crave for the things I mentioned, and want to have some fun, DM me, but don't just say hi. Tell me what you enjoy, what you want, what you want to end up as, and I'll make it your reality.

Some people were not born to decide something in life, they were born to be controlled. You are like that. I start with your phone, then the messages, contacts, photos, conversations, browser history...I will gradually discover all your weaknesses and shames while you get desperate sending me money. When you least expect it, everything that was once yours, will be mine. Everything you do will be used against you. And so you lose strength, dignity, self-control and surrender.

That’s all you need: direction and someone who knows what’s best for your life😈

Girlfriend/wife not giving you the thrill you want and yearn for? In love with your roommate? Come spill your dirty secrets willingly and prepare for the ride where no mercy is shown. ✨ I love the euphoric rush I get from making you nervous while you send over your hard earned money so I keep your dirty little secrets. 🤑

The thought of me exposing you and posting you or contacting someone that you wouldn’t want to know your secrets scares you to the point you buy my silence, over and over again. 🫰🏼

“Holy fuck, how’d you do that? I’ve never had someone find my info so quick.” I love hearing it every time 🤩 The sacredness even through a text makes my heart get an excited flutter and my panties wet.

I love incriminating pictures of yourself, contact numbers like family, wife/girlfriend, job, etc. I also enjoy techdom added in if you’re into that as well to add to the evidence. 🤭

I love sending teasing pictures to show you why you’re in this and why you love sending me your hard earned money to give you a thrill no one else can. 😈

🔴If you aren’t willing to be completely honest and obedient, save us both some time. 🔴

Lurking once again, looking for someone to satisfy that urge you keep hidden. That feeling you get when your partner is asleep, the secret account, the dimmed screen, the private fantasies you pretend you don’t have 😏 I’ll learn everything about you one by one as you fall deeper under my spell & submission to the point of exposure.

You crave the thrill of surrendering control to a goddess like me, letting me discover every desire that makes you tick. I bet your heart is racing already, imagining the tasks I might give you and the delicious tension of wondering what it will cost🤫

I’m an alt ebony goddess who knows exactly how to push your buttons, and you’re the willing sub who chooses to obey. This goddess may ruin your composure and self control in more ways than one. Think you can handle the test, subby? 😈

Kneel. Submit. Devote. Remember your place will always be beneath me. Dare to play? Confess to me your kinks, limits, and dark desires.

Goddess Honey 💋

That saying, ‘don’t kick a man when he’s down,’ is an invitation to me. In fact, it’s a challenge. Not only will I be the one to pounce on your weakened state, I’ll be the one who put you there in the first place.

You thought playing with me would give you a quick thrill. That was your first mistake. One of many.

I’ll use every tool at my disposal to bring you to your knees, shaking and desperately pleading for me to stop. I’ll strip away your ego and shred your sense of self. Your livelihood will be under constant threat, and every penny in your account will be at risk. All while you feel my heel digging deeper into your back.

My game has a sharper blade and a slower pace. The results, however, are deliciously sadistic and psychologically devastating. I’ll be your worst mindfuck yet. It will be your ruin.

At first, you’ll find it amusing. Maybe even thrilling. After all, I could expose you at any moment, and you’ll tell yourself that pending fear is part of the fun.

Your real downfall comes later. That slow spiral that spins out of control. When you no longer own your own life.

It begins when you start wondering whether that strange message was really spam. When your wife gets a wrong number call. When your boss receives something that seems completely innocent but out of the ordinary.

Was it coincidence?

Perhaps.

Or perhaps not.

That’s when the little details begin to consume you. You start questioning every unfamiliar number, every unexpected message, every person who suddenly appears around your inner circle. You replay conversations. You replay every conversation we have ever had and wonder if you somehow gave away valuable information. You question whether any tiny detail could have led me down a path to dig into your past.

And eventually, you realize you don’t need to know whether I’m watching. You begin to wonder what I’ve seen.

That anticipation becomes your own worst enemy. The fear of the unknown is what keeps you exactly where I want you, desperate, spiraling, and begging me to end your suffering.

That is the point that you know you’re defeated. You’ll do anything to be free from my possession. That’s when I’ll decide your fate. 😈

Sign a CNC agreement and bring your wallet if you think you can handle it. Consent is bliss.☠️

Lonely? Need someone to talk to? I have room for only 2 more long term subs. Do you have what it takes to serve me?

Don't even bother if you aren't willing to send. Long term debt contracts where I give you a bit of attention and sometimes leave you on read when you don't feel worth my time.

Get on your knees and beg for my attention . Open your wallet and maybe I'll give you some. I am successful in life, a director at a company. I make more than enough money, but still want to drain your accounts for my own investments and vacations with my hot girlfriend. I have a cunt but am still twice as successful as a man then you will ever be.

If you aren't going to send don't bother reaching out. I'm not poor or here to beg for scraps. Let me into your life and you'll be all sorts of fucked up.

Look at yourself in the mirror and face the disgusting truth. A miserable peasant wearing panties on command, hiding in the dark like a coward while your wife thinks you are a real man. My body is a heavenly masterpiece compared to hers, so it is no surprise you are completely obsessed with my perfection. But obsession has a price. You are going to spread your pussy wallet wide open for me and hand over your money without hesitation, because you know what happens if those shameful secrets get exposed.

Every confession you have ever made is pure relapse fuel, dragging you right back to your knees every time you try to run. The thought of your wife finding out about your sickening double life makes your heart race, yet you cannot stop sliding back into my web. You are a helpless cheater trapped under my heel, forced to fund my lifestyle just to keep your pathetic secrets safe. Keep paying, keep relapsing, and stay exactly where a worthless loser like you belongs.

Sluts like you should WORK for your orgasms. You spend wayyyyyy too much time gooning like a desperate bitch. But how do you stop when it feels too fucking good?

Well I have a little penalty game for you. We chat, get to know each other. Who doesn't love a bit of banter? Then... the teasing comes. And if you get hard or wet, that means a penalty send. Playing with yourself gets you an even higher penalty. Of course, I'm not a total monster. You can edge all you want after you send. But the price to cum may be more than you can afford. That's the whole point isn't it?

Because your pleasure doesn't belong to you. It never has. You're way too needy and horny all the time. You know you need someone to keep you in your place as a little edging fucktoy. Because good pets only cum when they're given permission. But know, I don't want to just humiliate you. I want to destroy you. I want to ruin your life while making you beg for more.

Will I make your gooning addiction better or worse? Well, that depends on you. 😉

You probably thought you were careful.
Maybe you were… for everyone else. But not for me.
I know what you’re hiding. I know the secret you’ve worked so hard to keep buried, and I know exactly what would happen if the wrong people found out. It could ruin you. Your reputation, your life, everything you’ve built so carefully around the lie.
And the most dangerous part?
You know that I’m holding all of it in my hands.
You should be terrified of me. You should hate the way my name makes your stomach tighten. You should want me as far away from your secrets as possible. But I don’t think that’s what you want at all.
Because every time you look at me, I can see it, the fear, the anger… and something else. Something you don’t want to admit.
Maybe there’s a part of you that loves knowing I know.
Maybe being seen so completely by me, even at your most vulnerable, feels dangerously good.
So go ahead. Keep pretending you want me to stop.
We both know you’ll be thinking about me the moment you read this.

And I’ll be thinking about how much power you gave me the moment you let me in.

Let me be the wolf that blows your piggy house away 🐺🌬️

Findomme with years of experience here, looking for the real deal. I’m not for the weak of mind, or wallet.
I wanna MAKE YOU weak, that’s different.

🔍 What I seek: over 18, knows how to communicate, loves findom or doesn’t shame it. Someone who will obey, worship me and talk to me like a normal human being, as well as kinky.
Someone that can handle a firey latina girl that has mood swings and can drain your wallet as I gather more and more information.
And more important: someone that LIKES IT.

💗 Who I am: I am a lot of dommes in one. Findom taught me I can be who I want to be, depending on my mood and my wishes. I am soft and sweet, but also strict and demmanding. I love to yap and talk about everything, but your servitude is my fuel!

🤫 What I don’t tolerate: nothing here is done without consent, respect or communication. We are all grown ups so be ACCOUNTABLE for your actions.
Brats and ‘convince me to’ subs are my limits. Otherwise, I can be very open minded.

DM is definetely open to all those who wanna try the experience of their lives 😈😈😈
Come, and make sure your wallet is open as well 💸

Heeyy... I'm looking for someone that is ready to give in and be submissive to me. I want to take control of your wallet and you won't say 'no' to my demands. I'm very demanding and I want you to give in and fulfil my desires.

You must be 18+. Personally, I prefer someone mature from 25 years to 65 years.

you can pretend you’re just curious, but we both know there’s something about being told exactly where your attention belongs that gets under your skin.

i’m not going to chase you. i don’t need to.

if you want my attention, approach properly — and let’s see how obedient you really are.

30 female in Canada. Bbw curvy body. Loves to please easily, I fawn easily, I’m very submissive. I like to be free use, overpowered and dominated.
Hunt me, blackmail me, make me into your perfect Freeuse slave. I really want to feel used, humiliate me and mold me into your perfect slave.

My dynamic is simple. sooner or later you will give yourself to me. We can start slow, you give me your information as I probe into it, I manipulate you, I hypnotize you until you can’t get me out of your mind. Blackmail is inevitable. I put you in chastity, sneak into your deepest secrets while you give me everything. I convince you that your money belongs to me along with your brain, and you do all the tasks I come up with just because, because I entertain you, and because I give a purpose to your life. You thank me for it.

If this made you feel something, you are a person with good communication and a good budget, willing to open up to me, write to me saying BANANA in the chat. Otherwise, don’t even come near me. Think carefully, there’s no turning back.

Looking for a coach to work on your repressed identity or kinks? We start out like a normal therapy session but I ask you more and more invasive questions. Over time I'll find your biggest insecurities and twist them on you. Start calling you out and shaming you. Getting cruel to the level we have previously discussed.

The dynamic can go in different directions depending on your comfort. Tasks, degradation, humiliation, blackmail, etc. We work together to create something for you within your boundaries.

I'm a transman and particularly interested in working with people who have insecurities around same sex desires, their gender, or other people's. I love humiliation play in all forms. I love turning powerful men into insignificant play things and cucks. Let me warp your mind and your wallet.

I may look innocent at first but I have some pretty intense fantasies I want to see fullfilled (hence posting here).

I am the kind of goddess that you beg for attention. The one you praise with every step. The one you will gladly follow every command! The only reason for you to exist!

And in that world you only exist to entertain and make your goddess happy! The question is what tools need to be used to make you this little serving pathetic worm ;)

I want to take over your life eventually and control every little step, not only Kink ones! So besides needing permission to cum you would also need permission to eat/sleep/game etc.!

My biggest achievementt would be to pimp you out / whore you out. But there are so many other Levels!

Please dont Text me if you are Just a quick thrill seeker. I want this to be more longterm! Also dont text if you are into scat or diapers!

So if you are interested lets talk kinks/limits/safeword(s), get to know each other and who knows what will happen ;)

Everyone is welcome! So F4M F4F F4A F4R F4T

edit: My dms are open now! i dont know why it was turned off

I'm looking for a willing and loyal victim to abuse, use, drain and blackmail.

What is it you truly want out of life? Is it to be dominated and used by a man like me? is it to be turned into whatever your owner desires deepest? is it to have you wallet and bank account zeroed out to make me happy?

Will you be able to keep your eyes off of me long enough to succumb to my sultry voice?

You’re welcome.