r/ExtortionKink

22 [F4M] wouldn't you want to take that risk?

Yes, this account is new, consider it part of the thrill 💸

Dont mistake me for being inexperienced at tourmenting you and fucking up your wallet. I'll have you feel like you're constantly walking on eggshells, knowing that I'm capable of ruining your life. I'm into financial domination, extortion dynamics, draining games, silent sends, and luxury tributes- all not new to me.

I can either be harder, softer, etc. depends on you how like it. We should talk after you've paid first. The ones worth my time will recognize that immediately and will DM me asking if they can send to talk to me 🖤

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u/blasiangle_ — 7 hours ago

Looking for long-term extortion/gooning roleplay with clothed girls (non-nudes) – Discord only

I’m seeking a dominant soft female (or pair) for an ongoing, immersive extortion/blackmail. The fantasy: You play one or more confident, teasing girls who have some leverage over me and slowly, relentlessly goon me into total submission.

Key vibes I want:

  • Clothed/non-nude only – focus on seduction, teasing, outfits, expressions, power, and mindfuck. No nudes or explicit body exposure.
  • Heavy gooning & arousal play – long, drawn-out edging sessions where you keep me desperate, denied, and leaking while you push me deeper.
  • Extortion/chase dynamic – You chase, pressure, manipulate, and escalate the blackmail fantasy over time. Make me squirm, bargain, and eventually give in more and more.
  • Long-term – This isn’t a one-off. I want regular sessions over weeks/months where the power dynamic grows stronger and the stakes feel higher.
  • Slow-burn psychological domination, teasing, humiliation, and addictive arousal loops.

I’m very responsive, creative, and love detailed writing. You lead the chat, I’ll follow and react. Must be 18+ and comfortable with dark consensual non-con/extortion fantasy.

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u/Individual_Ad_589 — 9 hours ago

20F come serve me and let’s make a plan

Let me break you and own every aspect of your life.

We will break down your finances and personal life and have me use it to drain you.

I see you shaking, wanting to hit sent. Your cock throbbing with anticipation. What will she do? What would they say?

Beg for me to take you in and destroy you.

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u/AverageBedRotGirl — 17 hours ago

24[F4M] who is gonna be my next victim 😈

Are u ready to be my slave and have a scary fun i know this fetish is dangerous but its fun at the same time im here to blackmail u control you scare you and turn u into my puppy doing anything I want without questions and don't worry all your data is safe with me let me know if u wanna take the risk and have a scary fun dm me now

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u/VIPDesire_ — 23 hours ago

[32F] It’s your secret and I will toy with it. (BM)

You have it all together. The family, friends, career and stability. You’re the boss man… or boss lady 😉 Sounds good on paper but you’re bored. Admit it.

There’s a part of you that likes the threat of it all being taken away in an instant. You crave surrender and giving control to a Domme like me, who knows how to hold your attention and wallet. Who keeps you guessing and anxious because she’s got, not one, but two sides to her. You’ll have me in your mind at all hours of the day and night making you wonder “Did my tribute please her today?”. It might suffice or it may be laughable and piss me off. See what happens then…

You’ll be in fear, wondering if today will be the day I decide to tell everyone your secret. Your secret worship of me and my beautiful feet that you like to be under. “Did she like my gift? Maybe I need to send another to be sure she’s kept happy...” If I am not happy or entertained.. we’ll play a game of whose inbox will I be in? Your partner, colleagues , friends, family members?

You truly don’t know which side of Goddess Mocha you will get today…

This is but a glimpse of what you’re in for.

I am Mocha, a Domme into Findom, worship, feet worship, blackmail, humiliation, and forced chastity. Experienced or New subs are welcome. Let’s explore your secret online life.

With me boundaries are always expected and respected. Tell me the dynamic you seek. How can this dynamic/relationship be of mutual benefit and enjoyment for us both. I don’t care for one size fits all interactions. Every dynamic begins with a conversation to establish said boundaries and expectations. I like clear communication, respect and most importantly consistency. If this sounds like you. You may approach by sending a DM introducing yourself, let’s get started, don’t be shy!

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u/MochaArches — 1 day ago

24[F4M] I'm a domme who loves bm kink! 😈💘

Hii all! I'm Tay, i am 24 and have been exploring my domme side for years now!

My main kinks are consentual blackmail, TPE, SPH, tease and denail and humilation!

I'm looking for an ongoing arrangment where trust and respect is build and communication is huge for me!

I'd love for you to reach out (be prepared for tribute and AV!) and we can discuss more! ❤️‍🔥 xx

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u/NoMercyxox — 1 day ago

28F submissive looking for a creative blackmail Dom to own me

I’m 28F and I’ve been craving a proper consensual blackmail/extortion dynamic for a while now. I’m naturally submissive and the idea of slowly being controlled, manipulated, and owned by someone turns me on more than anything.

I love the psychological side the teasing, the threats, the power exchange, being given tasks, sending humiliating proof, and feeling that delicious fear of “what if he actually exposes me?” while knowing it’s safe and consensual. I want someone who enjoys building tension and pushing my limits creatively (tasks, photos, voice notes, financial elements, etc.).

I’m obedient, playful, and I get very wet when I feel truly dominated and trapped. Bonus points if you’re detailed, patient, and enjoy long-term play.

If you’re an experienced (or creative) blackmail Dom looking for a eager victim to control, hi! Tell me a bit about your style and what kind of dynamic you enjoy.
Let’s see how deep you can pull me under.

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u/wildkissheat — 1 day ago

27 [F4A] Heed the warnings, siren ahead.

You always come back, and relapse. You’re always being drawn back in because part of you needs this. You need to be scared. You long for the rush of adrenaline this brings. You wonder what it’s like to genuine have a connection here, one that’s truly terrifying. One that can truly make you feel euphoria for the first time. The mix of fear, and post nut clarity hits HARD.

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u/whatthrmilk — 1 day ago

26 [F4M] - So the rumours are true….

Someone told me that you are a simp submissive little man that likes to hide. Hide from your family while you send to your one and only Goddess. Hide from your coworkers while wearing lacey panties. Hide even from yourself and your deepest desires…

Surrender already. Become my little toy. Let me make all these decisions for you. Open up and tell me all your dirty little secrets. Let’s play blackmail, truth or dare and hide and seek… while you handle me all your belongings, kneeling and thanking me 😈 If you behave, I promise not to tell everyone how easy of a prey you are.

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u/Cool_Truth4517 — 1 day ago

27[M4F/MtF]

Heyy guys i'm a weak boy looking to be blackmailed and used abused gather information from me and you could use them against me, i could take nudes for you. Btw I'm submissive as fuck. Feel free to use me and DM me🐽 melt my brain and make me your little toy i'll follow all orders just to feel weak for you. Moreover, i'm open to share some of my accounts🙈 blackmail me please 🥺

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u/urgdboy — 1 day ago

First I'll gain your trust, then I'll gather the evidence, and finally I'll make you spend more than you have. Are you in?

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There is a profound difference between a boy who plays with fetishes and a mature man who understands the exquisite weight of surrender. I'm looking for the latter.

Someone who occupies a respectable and stable position in the real world, but who yearns for the absolute psychological thrill of knowing that an elite Latin Goddess has her eyes on their secrets. I want to be the phantom notification that makes your palms sweat during an important meeting.

I want you to look at your bank balance and realize that it no longer belongs to you, but to the silence that I kindly provide you.

Each shipment will not only be money; it will be the price you pay to prevent your perfect little world from falling apart.

If you're looking for simple, repetitive scripts or quick thrills, keep scrolling. I demand a deep, absolute, and consistently high level of devotion.

Don't open my private messages with a lazy greeting. Introduce yourself by explaining your reality and exactly what is at stake if you fail to satisfy me.

I want to be the secret anxiety that keeps you awake at night.

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u/Potential-Strain8199 — 2 days ago

Let me control your mind and wallet

I want to control you, consume you and invade every inch of your being. I want to retrain your brain that you only feel pleasure when you send to me.

you already want to be my dog, let me Pavlov you.

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u/SpoiledAndSovereign — 2 days ago

30[M4A] Married Sub

Married male submissive by nature, seeking a dominant who enjoys consensual extortion kink and the deep psychological thrill of breaking me down with sharp humiliation and degrading tasks. I’m in a happy marriage but have this intense need to be used, mocked, owned, and put in my place — all while keeping everything completely discreet and online for now.
My biggest weakness is humiliating masturbation rituals and tasks that reinforce my place: fucking my food, long edging sessions, humping random objects around the house, body writing, ruined orgasms, denial, following detailed jerk-off instructions, or any other creatively cruel ritual you design to remind me how pathetic and desperate I am. Verbal degradation is a major turn-on — tell me exactly how worthless, ridiculous, and obedient I look while laughing at my submission.
I’m looking for a dominant who gets genuine pleasure from exerting control through consensual extortion, mind games, and humiliating power exchange with a married submissive. Whether you’re experienced or simply enjoy the dynamic, I’m here to serve and entertain under your instructions.
Hard limits: anything illegal, blood, scat, permanent marks, or non-consensual exposure. Everything else is open for discussion.
If this resonates with you, message me and tell me what your first extortion demand or humiliating task would be.

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u/XDarkXFairyGen2 — 2 days ago

30 [F4A] Sadistic Asian Blackmailer Hungry For More Victims. NOT FOR FREE.

I am a trained blackmail domme and I’m one of the best in my country. I am into TPE, financial submission, debt contract, chastity, SPH and a lot more. I want a long term dynamic so you have to be in a proper mindset.

There will be initial and weekly tributes. This isn’t for free or else this won’t be blackmail.

You will hand over all the info I want. You will give me access to your everything. I will reprogram you, change you, mold you, and break you. Your life will be in my soft hands.

You will feed my lifestyle, work hard to give me a good life, and in return, your secrets will be safe with me.

This is an experience you can never miss. It’s now or never. Go on, pet. I don’t bite.

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u/spoiledasiangirl — 2 days ago

29 [M4F] I feel like I want to do something stupid today

It's easy to get aroused in the heat of the moment and have a momentary lapse of judgement. What often follows is post-nut clarity and [deleted]

But now imagine you act all soft and supportive. Give me false sense of trust, comfort and security. You pretend to care about my well being and keep pushing me to share more details about me, slowly building all the evidence.

It might seem slow at first. Maybe even boring and not very fruitful.

But quitely you were gathering ammo to unleash hell. Once you have what you need you bring out the most abusive cruel side of you. You don't even try to be ethical. You make it a mission to make a whimpering, crying slave out of me for your pleasures.

You ignore my limits, you make me deliberately overspend beyond my budget and once satisfied expose all my info anyway.

This could be us.

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u/roastedchickn_ — 2 days ago

[M4A] 20yo Aspiring Sissy Seeking Online Dom/ Feminization Coach for Makeup & Training

Hi there,

I'm a 20-year-old guy with very little real experience beyond occasionally wearing girls' clothes in private. I'm looking for an experienced online Mistress or feminization coach to guide and train me properly into becoming a pretty girl.

I'm seeking a structured, ongoing dynamic focused on:

Makeup skills, styling, and feminine image advice (helping me look convincingly cute and passable)

Progressive sissy training and tasks

Sexual elements and play as part of the dynamic

Creative commands, such as ordering me to create and run an Instagram account under my new feminine persona for posting progress, outfits, etc.

I’m very eager, obedient, and ready to put in consistent effort. Hard limits: anything illegal or involving non-consenting third parties, anything that could cause social suicide/exposure, scat, boring/pointless tasks, and anything permanent or non-reversible.

If you're a dominant who enjoys mentoring sissies with a focus on makeup/feminization and enjoys controlling the transformation, please message me. Let me know a bit about your experience and approach.

Excited to hear from a potential Mistress 💕

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u/Reasonable_Manner330 — 2 days ago

20 [F4M] 20yo trans girl ready to own your cock, cash, and mind tonight.

Hey there, weakling.
I’m your 20-year-old trans goddess — smooth, superior, and already bored of boys who think they can handle me. You’re not special. You’re just another wallet and cock that’s about to get completely drained.
I don’t beg. I command.
Pull it out and start stroking exactly how I tell you. Send while you leak. Edge until your brain melts. Your money is mine to spend, your orgasms are mine to ruin or deny. Every tribute makes my cock throb knowing I’m breaking another pathetic boy.
I’m greedy, relentless, and I love the moment you realize you’re completely owned by a 20yo trans girl. You’ll send until it hurts, then send more because saying no to me feels impossible.
No safe words. No limits. Just total surrender.
Message me with your first tribute and the words “I’m ready to be owned, Goddess” if you’re brave enough to lose everything tonight.
Let’s see how fast I can empty you.

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u/MistressMidsole — 2 days ago

Ruin me hard

I am searching for (Fin+Fem) domme that is willing to enslave me.
You will make me scared, bully me, and enjoying breaking me down.

Decide what I wear, If I can see my friends, how long i will be caged. If you use KidsLox you are ++.

Trap me, and take adventage of me.
I am looking for serious dommes, don’t let me run, don’t let me use a safeword.

Let me know if you want to try this out!

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u/Robin_Banaan — 3 days ago

36 [F4A] The original is right here.

Isn't it funny, that you can be so terribly, terribly triggered by words? There's a power in wordplay that transcends images, for a certain type of person. Perhaps you're a deep thinker, or you love to read, or you have a particularly cerebral job. It's okay to let go, you know. You don't have to be so tightly wound all the time; not here; not with me.

Perhaps it starts with an acrostic. It's a particularly 

Simple and highly 

Effective way of

Needling into that

Dirty, dirty brain of yours -

Now... 

Other times, it won't be so obvious. Maybe we talk anon about little things; your life, your hobbies and interests. Slowly you find yourself getting hard when we speak. You leak a little. What's the harm in that? Except you find yourself thinking about me, more and more. Perhaps you tell me things, private things... Secrets...

You're so weak, aren't you? But there's a sweetness, to your weakness. A little gift, to catch my attention. Maybe a glass of wine. Then a few coffees. A spa day. You don't realise that you're rewiring your brain, right now, do you? Your presents aren't just tokens, they're hush money - because even though you're safe here, there's still an element that feels... Dangerous. Seductive. Deviant. Hopelessly entangled in a soft, silken web...

You're right where you need to be, darling. And I'm waiting for you.

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u/findom_pixie — 2 days ago

26 [M4F] Looking to be extorted and publicly exposed

Hello r/ExtortionKink
currently looking for someone that wants to have fun with me. Would love to also be publicly exposed as that is another strong kink of mine.

If you are interested please write me chat.

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u/shyengine — 3 days ago