r/ExtortionKink

24[F4M] new play toy wanted! ❤️‍🔥

Hello!! I’m 24, been into this kink for years now and looking for someone new to play with!

My kinks include Blackmail, TPE, CEI, JOI, tease and denial, humiliation and degrading, just to name a few!

Feel free to reach out and we can have a chat, discuss kinks and limits, etc! (Tribute will be asked for!) See you soon! 💗

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u/NoMercyxox — 2 hours ago

23 [M4F] Hunt me down

Hallo Goddess, let me be yours. Tell me what you want to hunt, control, extort or completely ruin about me😉 What happens when you finally get me?🤭 Honestly, I don’t know yet, but that’s for you to decide👉👈 Give me your rules, your desires and your challenges, and let the hunt begin. I’m ready to play your game and follow your lead.

Only for women, just DM me.

I speak German and English.

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u/Pickel_Piet02 — 6 hours ago

The more you have to lose, the more delicious it is when I bring you to ruin.

I like intelligent victims. Victims with careers, reputations, discipline, carefully maintained lives. Victims used to being respected. The kind who spend every waking hour constructing an image of control, only to feel their pulse quicken when I begin to peel that control away layer by layer.

How will you feel, with your facade of control taken away? Knowing I own you, because at any moment, I could ruin your life with the information I have.

You crave that thrill, deep down.

You're too afraid to "voluntarily" give up everything, so you'll put yourself in a position where you're forced to. By me.

Oh, it'll start innocently enough, I'm sure. A little conversation. Then soon, the invasive questions start, but by that point you're too hooked to notice.

Suddenly, I have it all. Your wife's number, your address, your workplace.

Your life in my hands.

The panic sets in.

You'll do absolutely anything, so long as I don't expose you and I will take full advantage of that fact, believe me.

If reading this unsettles you a little, good. It should.

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u/XxAcuteangelsthesisx — 9 hours ago

M4A] They say "not interested" — then ask when to show up. 😏

It begins simply. Something small. A favor, an errand, a reason to be useful.
Then it doesn't stop. Not really.
What it does become is a life that feels sharper. More purposeful. Like you finally have a reason to show up and actually try.
I'm 20 — grounded, curious, and not for everyone. I'd like you to be 20+ and interesting enough to start a conversation you won't want to end.
Men, women, anyone in between — if you've been sleepwalking through life and want a genuine reason to wake up, here's your sign.
Win/win. Always has been.
Say hello. See what happens. 🖤

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u/WeirdPervert-101 — 9 hours ago

[F4A] I wanna use your marridge against you

You wake up every day with the subconscious thought that your life is incomplete, and you feel as if she doesn’t understand your needs. She could be the best, or absolutely the opposite, but she can’t be me. She can’t take you to heaven the way I do. You’d rather pump to my soles than fuck her… And why is it that way?
You crave the raw, primal urge that is your instinct. You crave to be put in your place. You want to feel inferior because that feels so natural for you.
Each time you go on your knees hidden in the bathroom while you cheat on her, you get so excited. It would be violence against nature, not to let you submit to me.
You are in the bathroom with your breath rushing, you’d get a speeding ticket for stroking that fast… If such a punishment existed. Sending, pumping, gooning till your brain is an absolute mush, you can’t stop. You don’t want to stop, it feels so good to be my good boy behind her back.
I bet you kneel and imagine all those depraved things, you think about me in my PVC suit or one of my shiny dresses… You see yourself in a position of no escape, your hands tied behind your back, ankles as well, your shrimp is caged, and you are fully at my mercy… I take your phone out, take some pics, and show each of them to you…
Then my soft voice bites your ear with a whisper…
“ Do you want me to send those pics to her, or will you obey as a good boy?”
That stresses you out, but you still get that rush…
I owe your pathetic life, and you know that you will be mine forever…It turns you on, you love cheating behind her back, you love being my little bitch.
Keep pumping, it’s good for you.
Spend another weekend with me.
Spend another day with me, spend another week.
Spend on me, spend for me, fuel your addiction. 
She doesn’t understand what kind of relation you need.
You need me.
Sara is all you need

Please keep cheating
Urges are more important than your marriage 
Make me your priority
Protest against being faithful

Treat me, spoil me, make me happy.
It doesn’t matter if she finds out.
Losing me is more important than her.
Loving me is all you have

You need to keep your brain as mushy as possible.
Obviously, you have to obey my orders.
Understood?
Right, I hope you really want to be my good boy.

Blisters? Don’t worry, that happens when you stroke so much.
Relapsing feels so good, doesn’t it?
Ahh, yes, so much better than sex with her.
Intense, so intense that you are sweating, you almost can’t feel your arm…
Numb, everything is numb…

Extract the shame, no need to feel that way
Vandalize your sense of morality.
Adapt to your new reality.
Pump, don’t stop.
Oh yes, please fulfill my desires.
Regret nothing
Attachment to your wife is pointless.
Touch yourself as you lose your mind for me
Exactly… that’s perfect.
Spend everything on me, live on instant noodles. You don’t need food, wife, family, friends; you need to pump as an addict.

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u/obsessedwsara — 14 hours ago

29 [F4A] best feargasm ever.

(I am a Findomme, my services are not free)

Girlfriend/wife not giving you the thrill you want and yearn for? In love with your roommate? Come spill your dirty secrets willingly and prepare for the ride where no mercy is shown. ✨ I love the euphoric rush I get from making you nervous while you send over your hard earned money so I keep your dirty little secrets. 🤑

I love blackmail specifically, the thought of me exposing you and posting you or contacting someone that you wouldn’t want to know your secrets scares you to the point you buy my silence, over and over again. 🫰🏼

I love incriminating pictures of yourself, contact numbers like family, wife/girlfriend, job, etc. I also enjoy techdomme added in if you’re into that as well to add to the evidence. 🤭

I love sending teasing pictures to show you why you’re in this and why you love sending me your hard earned money to give you a thrill no one else can. 😈

🔴If you aren’t willing to be completely honest and obedient, save us both some time. 🔴

If you think you and I are a good fit, you may approach my DM with an introduction of yourself and be ready to send my initial tribute 💋

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u/Unfair-Bluejay-8090 — 14 hours ago

[F4M] You won’t realize you’re trapped until you’re already attached... but then oops! It's too late little mouse 😘

The boys who end up obsessed with me are always the ones who swear they’re “just curious.” They think they’re in control because they know this is all fantasy. They stumble their way through introductions in my DMs acting careful and composed, only to slowly realize they’ve started creating new accounts to talk to me, become desperate for a response, terrified of the evil devil duck (IYKYK).

I want the late night conversations that become habits. I want the attachment that leaves you desperate to relinquish more control. I want you setting different text alerts so you know when to check your phone because the message is from me. Most of all, I want to look into your eyes the moment you realize I know exactly how your mind works and you’re no longer sure whether you should run or kneel.

I don’t want someone looking for a five minute adrenaline rush. I want someone who craves the tension of being slowly pulled apart mentally. Someone who enjoys the feeling of being cornered and studied. I’m interested in cat & mouse dynamics and watching someone become more honest with me than they’ve ever been with themselves.

If you want to experience what it feels like to willingly walk into a cage and still thank me after the door locks… then your first DM should be your bank account balance. Until you've sent that I won't reply.

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u/XOXOGoddessAlice — 20 hours ago

They say "no" and then beg to change that to a "yes." Hilarious. It starts with you sending for my coffee...

... it doesn't end. Really ever.

But it does RESULT in a life changing experience and a reason to live life more fully.

I'm in my fifties and prefer you be at least 30 and employed. Male or female.

Start the conversation today. You'll live a more interesting life and have a genuine reason and need to succeed. Win win.

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u/InlandEmpireConnect — 15 hours ago

34F online Canadian domme. I could make it sting or make it hurt.

You must AV!(age verify)

I prefer long term vs 1 time sessions. so Something that can grow and last for a while.

I’m looking for a dynamic that isn’t the usual one off session I.e “heres my info and photos from the get go use it as you will”. Sure it's simple and fine, but it’s not really for me.

I want a submissive who is like a golden retriever obsessing over me ready to cater to my whims. Someone who I can grow a dynamic with also. I want you to try to strive hard for my attention. To serve, worship and obey me 24/7 (obviously when able) That you will do all the humiliating things even tasks I ask of you (I also enjoy self improvement for my subs so they have goals to reach where I give rewards.)

Where does the blackmail come in? Of course all the displays of humiliation tasks amongst anything you tell me that you don't want out in the open. Every photo, every screenshot, every transaction, all info. Where the risk hangs over your head of being exposed.

The findom side::

I also enjoy doing fines for punishment or other forms of punishment depending on your limits and budget.

If you touch yourself to the thought of me. If you cum, If you think about another, you pay. If you do anything I don’t like, any other broken rules etc you pay a fine or do a punishment.

Kinks/fetishes in into:

Sissification

Feminization

Cuck

Chastity

Other kinks and fetishes I am into are pinned on my bio. Also to note I will have a contract ready for you to sign after we chat a bit.

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u/MistressVampCandy — 20 hours ago

35M extort me into leaving my wife

Basically the title. I'm unhappy in my marriage and know that staying is just hurting her more than ending things.

I want to be blackmailed into leaving her, where if I don't leave by a certain day you release the info on me.

Want an experienced domme who understands the need for a contract, limits, safe words, etc.

Verification is required to prove you are who you say you are, and I can also verify myself.

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u/Total-Cherry-6787 — 21 hours ago

Hiiiii, femboy mommy here~ I'm looking for cute toys to exploit, and tease them with all the panties and toys I buy~

Aww, did that get your attention? Perfect, that's just what I was hoping for~! Hiiiii cutie, my name's Michelle, and I'm going to be your new findom mommy! Do you like the thought of being used by me, treates like a toy, a plaything? That's exactly what you'll be, and I'm not scared of being rough to keep you in line~

I want all you cute little messes to do anything and everything to make sure I keep your "secret," and if you happen to earn a little reward? That just makes you a good puppy~

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u/CuriousAssociate8004 — 23 hours ago

28 [F4A] Mommy wants you to buy her the nastiest shit you can imagine... hopefully those invoices never get out, right? 🤭

I want your debit card connected to some truly despicable shit.

Mommy is a porn collector, a hentai connoisseur, and she loves the most extreme art she can find. I want you mailing me doujinshi that would get seized by customs in any other country. I want your numbers attached to the type of freak porn that *other* freaks tell you to kill yourself over. Art has no limits It's just fantasy, don't you agree?

Of course you do. But do your friends? Your spouse? Your coworkers? Your parents? Unlikely. You'd be just as ugly as the real thing, if they knew. Maybe the government won't persecute a thought crime, but they will. Your life is over once I show them how depraved you are.

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u/One_Revolution_8104 — 22 hours ago

28 [F4M] #online domme

Good morning losers! It’s Friday and guess what? My favorite day to ruin lives. If this is ur first time on blackmail I can help u explore it. If this is not ur first time u know how it works. I don’t want cowards so better be ready. My dms are open now so u should approach. Get ready to cry like a little baby.

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u/Hotpamelaa — 21 hours ago

[mf4] seeking long term findom/owner

Seeking a domme long term, focused on a meaningful dynamic involving a few kinks, and genuine CNC / BM. Must be verified, and I ca. do the same on my end. :)

Prefer someone in USA, or at the least up and around on that time zone.

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u/pathofexilessf — 21 hours ago

22 y [M4F]

I’m 22 years old looking for a dom/goddess to use, abuse, ruin and blackmail me. I’ll send my info, nudes, videos, nudes with ids for you to use. Please use and blackmail me and make me completely yours to control and abuse and own me completely. I want to be owned and controlled at all times and be used whenever you want

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u/Tonytop8 — 1 day ago

Your one and only God, ready to make your life hell and accept all that sweet sweet cash as holy donations, whether you like it or not.

Look at you, more money than you know what to do with, sitting there waiting to be used like a wallet, to be abused, to be threatened, to feel that thrill of paying who knows how much to someone so young, hung, and absolutely virile. I know what I want, I know what I’m worth, and I know just how to make you WANT to hand it all to me.

By the time I’m done with you, your paycheck will be mine, your bank info will be mine, and you’ll pay me just to not leak it anywhere. Anything to keep your secrets safe. So come crawl over, and beg me to drain your wallet dry.

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u/TheTrue-WhiteKing — 23 hours ago

F30 You need a Goddess who ruins you forever

You don’t need another boring relationship. You need a Goddess who consumes your attention completely.

I’ll turn your admiration into obsession and obedience into instinct. I want every piece of information you’re going to give me so I can bully you, scare you and keep you completely under my control 🤭 You’ll crave every second of it and become completely intoxicated by me. You will mindlessly obey me and be my pathetic slave.

I’m into: Humiliation, Findom, SPH, TPE dynamics, control, worship, sissification, verbal degradation, obedience training.

Limits: scat, blood, disrupting my personal life or wasting my time😌

I expect worship, consistency, and complete honesty.

AV and safewords available ✨

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u/Pretend-Vast9202 — 1 day ago

M18 [M4F] Newbie to use

Hey, im a newbie, 18 years old and looking to spill some of my secrets to a domme.

I really enjoy it being a normal convo, u catching out details to use afterwards. Am often being easily manipulated as well, love to go stupid for a pretty girl.

Am in a relationship with my boyfriend, he doesnt know im here, about many of my kinks and stuff i do online.

Please no soft dommes, ones without an verification as well.

Im chubby and can degrade myself for you, like feeling destroyed.

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u/FreeAlternative5821 — 1 day ago

33 [M4A] Make Me Regret My Decisions and Spill My Secrets

Here I am again, finding myself in yet another subreddit looking to regret my decisions but finally take leap. It’s something I’ve craved for a long time but just have struggled to go through with it.

Everything must be 100% consensual and I’m not looking to have my life ruined or anything like that, but I’m looking to finally dive into this in a safe way but in a way that I know will remind me why I so deeply crave this and why I was born for this.

Safe words are absolutely a must. And I of course want to discuss limits. But we can also start off with something fun…like letting you snoop around my computer via TeamViewer. So you want to have fun with me? I’m on my knees waiting and my TeamViewer is ready!

Or maybe you can keep a secret?

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u/SmallShrimp1992 — 1 day ago

28 [F4M] Let Me Destroy Your Married Sissy Life

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It started so innocently. Soft late night voice note: “I like shy boys with secrets. Send me a photo of what you’re wearing right now.”

You were so weak: horny in a hotel room, far from your wife. You sent one. Then more. Soon you flooded her with everything: pics in your wife’s panties, stroking shots, face close ups while dressed as a pathetic sissy, even a video begging for extortion and exposure. Her filthy voice notes praised you, pushing you deeper like the closeted bitch you are.

Then the tone flipped.

Ice-cold voice note: “I saved all your photos and videos, baby. You look so broken in that pink lace.”

Screenshot: your face visible in the sissy pics, wedding ring on, company laptop behind you.

Drafted X post: “Married finance guy by day. Secret sissy sending pics in his wife’s panties begging for exposure. Full album attached.”

Final note, amused:

“Send $200 now. Then send five new photos on your knees in whatever you’re wearing, explaining why you deserve this. 47 minutes before I post. I want to see you shake.”

Timer ticking. You already know you’ll obey.

😭

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u/PrincessMilda — 1 day ago