r/FLR_SheLeads

This may sound a bit sharp, but I think a lot of people confuse looking submissive with actually being easy to lead.

If someone’s “submission” creates more supervision, more emotional management, more pointless ritual, or more work for the woman, I’m not especially impressed by it.

A lot of what gets framed as devotion is still very centred on the submissive.

They get to feel desired.

They get to feel corrected.

They get to feel the tension of the dynamic.

They get to feel special because someone is managing them.

Meanwhile she gets one more thing on her plate.

To me, submission gets much more interesting when it reduces friction instead of creating it.

Less theatre.

More steadiness.

Less performance.

More usefulness.

I’m curious how many women here have found themselves feeling that way.

You've never met a man who takes as much joy in giving oral as I do.

I love it on several different levels.

First, there's the power of being completely responsible for a woman's blissful satisfaction, especially women who have never had it done well before. There is that wonderful moment when I've made a woman come hard, all the stress has left her back and ass and she's beginning to catch her breath, but instead I very lightly continue to use my tongue on her, hitting spots I deliberately ignored for the first one, and feeling her go from "no, it's ok, I just came" to "oh my, god I'm going to come again!"

Second, I love the feeling of accomplishment at the pleasure I can give a woman using nothing but my tongue, lips, breath, and a finger or two. The soft shudders, the delicious taste and a smiling face is addictive to me.

Third, I take pride in the compliments I've received. Every woman is different and beautiful in her own way. It's not like you can just go down there and lick every woman the same way every time and leave her quivering in ecstasy. Her body guides you. You have to listen closely with all your senses to do it right. Your tongue and lips almost become an extension of the woman you're with and you need to lose yourself in her pleasure and go where she needs you to go.

If she lets herself go, the third one is usually the big one, the one where eyes roll back, legs quiver and she knows she'll never forget this night. I just enjoy all of it, the feel, the taste, everything.

I’ve been told my mouth, tongue, fingers, and hands are “Magic”.

I'm 37, 5'11 with dark skin, and can host. Race or body size doesn’t matter. Every woman is beautiful in her own way. Submissive and locked in a chastity cage.

Discretion? Always. Respect? Guaranteed. No games, and I won’t flake. I am very laid back and non pushy. I proceed with the pace you set. I am respectful at all times and I try my hardest to make your fantasies a reality. I only want to make sure that you have a great time and leave with a smile on your face.

I am not looking for a relationship. This can be a one time thing or something on-going. Whatever you are comfortable with.

Drugs and diseases free. Drama free. Complete discretion.

Please send me your favorite color so I will know you've read the entire post and are a real person

A lot of “submissive” behaviour is just extra admin for the woman

Had the most amazing weekend in the service of this beautiful Domme

37 [m4F] - I am an attractive, attentive and submissive man who wants to pleasure you using my tongue. (No-reciprocation needed)