r/FindingAffairs

I’m a 33 year old dissatisfied married woman in Washington. I’m 5’3, slim, black, dark skinned, brown eyes, and dark locs. Some of my desires in an AP include being able to communicate, being affectionate, and having a humorous personality. My career keeps me busy but the craving to be intimately touched has been getting harder to resist. This is not my first attempt at finding a AP but I’m hoping I can find a long term connection. Let’s see where this will take us.

37 M4F in Niagara falls ca for now I like to eat pussy and ass my oral game is like no other if interested let’s talk I’m 6ft 205 good build I’m 420 friendly party friendly who’s around

Honestly im tired of working all day and coming home to a dead bedroom. I knew when we started dating she had some bad experiences with some of the more...flavorful kinks I had and that wasn't an issue. However for what seems like the better part of 5 months shes had no interest in sex. Doesn't matter if I flirt or tease her in car rides, have roaming hands when we lay down to cuddle. Flirty/dirty messages while im at work..doesnt matter. However when I talk with her she says everything's fine.. id kill to have a partner that actually wants to explore and indulge in some kinky fun. I still love my fiance but damn I need some actual relief..

Hello everyone! I’m 24m just looking for a female to chat with and talk with I hope this doesn’t get banned or anything just wanting to vent some and share experiences in relationship that kinda just stays on the down low.

I’m trying to be patient… but what if my Daddy doesn’t even know I’m looking for him yet?

What if he’s out there… just not looking in my direction?

I’m in my early 40s, currently in a long-term relationship that leaves certain needs unmet—connection, attention, presence. I’m not looking to blow up my life… I’m looking to add something meaningful where there are gaps.

About me:

Short, curvy, long curly hair, big expressive eyes. Equal parts soft and a little bit bratty. I want to feel wanted, seen, and held—emotionally and otherwise.

About you:

Tall, strong, confident Daddy Dom energy. You enjoy connection beyond surface level—pictures, video chats, real presence. You have the time and intention to build something consistent, not just drop in when it’s convenient.

If you’ve ever thought, “where is my girl?” … maybe I’m right here.

Tell me age/location and what you are looking for!

Good afternoon, Reddit! This post is probably a bit different from most in that I'm not a married guy, nor am I dating. So if this post doesn't belong, drop a comment letting me know and I'll remove it.

Despite being single, I'm very much a people pleaser. I've wanted for a long time to meet a woman who I can spoil with attention, and make her feel beautiful and special with my words, my hands...maybe both, if I'm lucky. If you're reading this and you crave that feeling again, I want to be the guy who does it for you. I want to be the man you go to when your husband doesn't adore you the way you deserve.

Chances are high you're not close because most redditors seem to be in East Orlando and nowhere in the west side, near Disney World. But on the off chance you're that person, send me a DM :)

Also happy to keep it strictly online if you prefer!

Honestly, nothing is better than being beside my fiance(f29) which were laying in bed. Her doom scrolling on her phone while im snapping other girls and messaging some on kik. Them sending me pics and videos for me, doing things to please me that my boring vanilla fiance never could

I'm shy, and self conscious, introverted, and need constant validation because I'll never believe you're into me. I probably have borderline personality disorder or something like that, so if you're a therapist, maybe you could help me figure that out 😅

Aside from that I'm a bit of a nerd, I like gaming and reading, but also like being outdoors and finding new hiking trails to take my dog exploring on. I don't have a job that allows me to be on my phone constantly, but I can check it fairly often, but I get lonely so the more you're available to chat the better.

If you can bring out my chatty side, you'll fall in love with my personality, but don't get your hopes up, because I'm only cute in theory.

I feel hypocritical but I prefer HWP... Age isn't much of an issue... I'm horrible at this stuff, sooooo I guess shoot me a message and see what happens?

Married dad that is looking to spice things up and have something long term with the right person.

About me: work into construction own a family construction business with my dad. Love to workout and do many things outdoors during my free time. Love to watch sports daily and play them when I get a chance with some of my buddies.

What I’m looking for: someone who can respond decently quick. I am free basically everyday from 5am-6pm for quick responses and even when I get home I respond decently quick throughout the night! Not looking to change either of our situations but to just have some more fun outside of it!