r/FindingAffairs

40wm Alpha Dom ready to claim another womb in SC.
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40wm Alpha Dom ready to claim another womb in SC.

40M. DDF. Ready to breed.

There are billions of people on this planet because, for most of human history, men and women understood exactly what they were here to do.

Now everyone pretends they're confused.

I'm not.

Looking for women who want children, not excuses.

If the idea of becoming a mother still speaks to you despite everything modern culture says, send a message.

Be direct. I will be.

u/shad0w198 — 21 hours ago

35 [F4M] looking for older men over 50

Being a 35 year old female I have had a thing for older men...I love the idea of giving them what they are needing and not getting...such a turn on for me. I have been with a couple of older men and it was the best sex I ever had... it is something I always get off on....I have always wanted to try 2 older men also just a fantasy...that is an unfulfilled fantasy of mine that i would like to try out on day....have a buddy willing to try? I also love married older men...I love the idea of giving him/you what you need and aren't getting....Please be over 50!!!

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u/funjen_1989 — 3 days ago

23 [F4M] looking to flirt and have fun with older men

As the title says, looking for older men feeling horny in mood to flirty and show off with me, mostly send some sexy pics if that’s your thing let’s chat

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u/Defiant-Train-826 — 3 days ago
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41 [M4F] #Louisville, KY – Your Annual Checkup

The exam room is quiet as you settle onto the table, your eyes wandering over the neatly arranged tray of medical instruments beside me. Curiosity gets the better of you, and I can't help but smile.

"First time for one of my exams?" I ask with a warm grin.

You nod, glancing back at the polished instruments.

"I'll walk you through everything," I assure you as I set the clipboard aside and move a little closer. "Nothing is rushed, and we'll go at whatever pace feels right for you."

Your shoulders relax as I begin explaining each instrument, what it's for, and how it's used. What seemed intimidating moments ago now feels fascinating, and I can see your curiosity replacing any lingering uncertainty.

"So..." I ask with a knowing smile. "Ready to begin?"

A playful smile spreads across your face.

"I'm ready."

If you've ever been curious about an immersive medical roleplay with plenty of playful teasing, attentive bedside manner, and a doctor who takes his time, I'm currently accepting one new patient for a very thorough... and very pleasurable... in-person examination.

Send me a message if you'd like to schedule your appointment. 😉

u/kfrothing2 — 4 days ago

20 [F4M] country girl

looking for older man to have fun with and connect with, i like the thought of being with a married man, being a secret, being the one you get hard from. I’m from a small town in Texas, I get pretty lonely, and my toys only do so much lol. I’m looking for something specific. Anyways text me if you’re interested <3

u/Conscious_Reality_69 — 6 days ago

28[F4M] anyone else miss having that one person you can talk to about literally anything?

It’s me again.
Exhausted but still awake because my brain refuses to shut off 😵‍💫
Anyone into playful conversations, teasing, late night talks, and people who can make me laugh when i’m stressed.

i’m usually either drinking iced coffee, reading, hiking, or trying to survive mom life lol. come say hi and tell me something interesting about yourself… don’t be shy I won’t bite :P

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u/skysundae — 7 days ago
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Safe, Sane, Consensual: CNC Enthusiast Seeking Same

About Me:

I'm (36 M4F) a Dominant with 10+ years of experience specializing in CNC dynamics, particularly resistance play, abduction scenarios, and psychological domination. I thrive on creating intense, immersive scenes that push boundaries while keeping safety and consent absolute. Due to the nature of this, I will only be accepting applications from those in the immediate vicinity of NJ.

Specific CNC Interests:

Resistance Play: Overcoming physical and verbal resistance, pinning, restraining struggling partners

Abduction Scenes: Capture scenarios, transport play, "kidnapping" roleplays

Forced Positions: Manipulating body positions against resistance, predicament bondage

Sensory Overload: Combining physical restraint with sensory deprivation/overload

Psychological Intimidation: Using tone, proximity, and psychological pressure to create authentic fear responses

"Reluctant" Oral Service: Scenes where submission is coerced through physical positioning

Clothing Destruction: Cutting/ripping clothing as part of the "violation" fantasy

What I'm Seeking:

A partner who:

Craves the intensity of realistic resistance play

Can maintain the "no" while actually meaning "yes"

Understands that safe words are sacred and will be respected immediately

Wants to explore the edge of consensual violation

Is emotionally resilient enough to process intense scenes afterward

My CNC Philosophy:

The beauty of CNC lies in the paradox: we create the illusion of non-consent through meticulous planning and enthusiastic agreement. The intensity comes not from actual violation, but from suspending disbelief within a container of absolute trust.

I enjoy scenarios where I 'break in' to a partner's space, physically overwhelm their resistance, restrain them, and then use their body according to my desires while they struggle against me - all within pre-negotiated boundaries.

My Approach:

I require detailed pre-negotiation including:

Specific scenarios and triggers

Physical limitations and health considerations

Safe words (yellow/red) and non-verbal signals

Aftercare needs and recovery time

Hard limits that will never be crossed

Hard Limits:

No actual non-consent, no permanent marks, no blood play, no scat, no pee, and absolutely no crossing of safe words.

If you're drawn to the intensity of realistic CNC scenes and understand that the most intense consent happens before the scene begins, message me with your specific interests and experience level. I will entertain those who are new or relatively new to more experienced. Accommodations and generous compensation will be provided if the job is satisfactory.

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u/Spiritual_Yam_5273 — 6 days ago
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34F4M Charleston, WV

Looking to see someone right now for a quick visit/HH. Car or your place, not mobile. New out here, message me so we can talk all the details daddy 💋

u/Defiant_Argument9835 — 7 days ago

[22m]. I think I have a cheating kink

I am not sure. It started out doing research online etc etc. and I KNOW it’s so so so wrong but i don’t know why it seems so extremely hot and enticing about it. I need advice I guess I’m not sure🫠

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u/Remarkable_Bag9850 — 7 days ago

38 [F4M] Can we get to know each other? #Eastcoast

Can we just chat? Keep it light and easy? Actually get to know each other? I’m married and a mom and I want the same thing as you do but most of my interactions here have just felt too intentional. We need to hit it off first and foremost. I’m cute, funny, and easy to get along with. I’m a gym goer and am in shape and I hope you are too. I like muscles, I can’t deny it. I also like to run and read. I’m looking for someone who is around my age or slightly younger and is fit, funny, and intelligent.

Message me with your age, location, and a little description of yourself. Please no copy and paste or low effort, I’ll just ignore these. And no AI written responses please, it’s so obvious. It’s hard enough as is filtering through my inbox so please say something you think will catch my attention. Let’s chat :)

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u/Amazing_Distance8974 — 8 days ago
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F19, looking for older married men

Need older, hairy dad bods who fuck roughly for my OnlyFans. You’ll be recording some parts of the sex, and we will set up a cam for the rest. No need to show your face in the video, however we won’t use a condom so you must be clean. Dm me age and location for details!!

u/InLegend1901 — 8 days ago
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28/31 [MM4F] # East Bay - Best Friends looking for a shared girlfriend / FWB

We’re 2 straight M buddies 28/30- very clean, hygenic business professionals. We’re interested in a Fwb/shared gf dynamic. If you’re a F age (21-35), open minded and knows how to have fun, feel free to DM and let’s talk more. Serious enquires only.

u/Red_Bulls — 9 days ago