r/FlingsterShuffle

Everyone skips rite away what am I doing wrong

I was frequenting it pretty often last year from October to November. The matches were solid but as always it’s a numbers game. Aside from the basic optimizations, which have been discussed numerous times , it’s luck of the draw. Patience and perseverance is the name of the game.

I started again a couple days ago to see if I could find some fun. The match quality then compared to now is noticeablely better. I consistently get better matches. Premium is a non-negotiable. Was super lucky and had two 10+ minute session recently.

In case you’re curious i’m not super verbal. It’s an adult cam site so I get straight to the point. Very NSFW. Hog is out at all times. Typically getting slaughtered. I’m a little shy(verbally) but tend to moan a lot and say things here and there. If a girl engages with me I engage back but I find dirty talking is something I have to ease into. It’s somewhat of a vibe check and certainly doesn’t come naturally to me.

I haven’t tried much tag vs no tag. The ones listed in past pins have been pretty good though. I only take them off when I run into the same match over and over and want to avoid them. When I tried no tag it took too long to match so I just went back to the basics.

From the girls i’ve spoken to there’s a lot of volume but it’s difficult for them to find quality matches as well. If any girls that frequent have more insight i’d be curious to hear about your experience if you’re willing to share.

How’s it been for everyone else?

Been gloomy and stormy all day. Working from home while the Mrs has a day off has been throbbing for her. Laying in bed jiggling that juicy 🎂 makes it hard af to concentrate (pun intended)

Might need to hop on shortly and blow this load

Just matched with a "woman" that was normally moving and talking but she was actually talking just like a ChatGPT bot. Are there completely working bots now on this app ir was this just an akward girl?

When using Flingster, what is it women look for? The site is usually full of men and on the rare occasion you hit lucky with a women or couple, they usually skip quickly before any real chance to vibe.

Is it camera angles, clothed v naked, hard or soft?

Any tips appreciated to have more success.

Thanks.

I was wondering why a lot of people have been reported being banned lately, especially with the illegal stream notice. So, I thought I would look at the terms and the famous acceptable use policy they refer to.

What do others make of this? It seems they wrote it in such a way that makes it easy for them to ban people. I may be reading this wrong, but it sounds like they are saying no nudity allowed until confirmed consent. I know a lot of this is legal cover rather than moderation policy, but interesting nonetheless.

Here are the terms:

Prohibited Behavior and Content

To maintain user safety and platform integrity, the following actions and content are prohibited:

• Minors and underage depictions: Any real, simulated, or suggested participation of a minor (under 18).
• Non-consensual acts: Forced nudity, sexual acts without mutual consent, or coercive behavior.
• Illegal content: Obscenity, human trafficking, exploitation, or promotion of illegal drugs or weapons.
• Violent or harmful material: Depictions of real injury, physical harm, or bestiality.
• Recording or sharing: Capturing, reproducing, or redistributing live video or chat content without written consent.
• Harassment or hate: Bullying, insults, or discrimination based on race, gender, sexual orientation, disability, or other characteristics.
• Impersonation: Pretending to be another person, including staff, or misrepresenting identity.
• Advertising or solicitation: Promoting commercial content, escorting, or off-platform sexual services.
• Fraud or deception: Scamming users, phishing, or soliciting money under false pretenses.
• Public exposure: Broadcasting sexual activity or nudity in public or semi-public locations.

Any violation of these rules may result in suspension, permanent ban, and, where appropriate, referral to law enforcement.

Sexual Expression and Conduct Standards

This platform is a space for adults to engage in lawful, consensual sexual expression. Every interaction must remain respectful, voluntary, and compliant with applicable law.

• All sexual activity and expression must be between verified adults (18+) who have given clear and continuing consent.
• Content or behavior that is coercive, exploitative, or involves non-consensual acts is forbidden.
• Participants must not depict or reference anyone who is—or appears to be—under 18 years old.
• Violence, bestiality, extreme degradation, or real harm are prohibited.
• Simulated or role-play content must remain clearly consensual.
• No trafficking, escorting, or prostitution-related solicitation is allowed.
• Recording, copying, or distributing another user’s session without their written consent is strictly prohibited.

Lawful sexual expression between consenting adults is allowed across the platform. However, users must always act within the bounds of consent, legality, and mutual respect.

I use to buy Apple giftcards to buy my memebership, but I can't find the option to buy a membership with giftcarda anymore. Can anyone help me find it?

Hi All,

Here is the July update for Flingster tags. I'm confident with most of these, but some I am still testing, so I'll update if anything changes.

1. Couples
2. Daddy
3. Black
4. Boobs
5. Mature
6. Exhibitionist
7. Slut
8. Kink
9. BBC
10. FTM
11. Couple
12. Grandpa
13. Oldman
14. Big Dick
15. Big Cock
16. Cum
17. Dirty-Talk (use this version, dirtytalk no longer gets results)
18. BWC
19. BBW
20. Whore

I have tested a number of the old legacy tags, and most of these aren't getting results. If anyone has suggestions on other tags, let me know, and I will test them.

I find most men are just showing their dicks. What would make a man interesting on the platform for a couple or a woman?