r/FriendzoneLosers

I love my best friend but there’s always something stopping us from being closer since he’s a boy.

I want to be able to change in front on him if I need to, or have him accompany me to the bathroom when I need to pee like I do with the girls, and would love to be able to show some spicy videos I took during sex.

My other friends and I will shower together sometimes too but I can’t with him.

these are friend moments that I don’t want him to get confused during.

I think a snug chastity that has to be worn everytime we hangout and possibly for an amount of time after if any of those situations happen, is a good way to go about this.

What do you think?

I was directed to come here and share my story.

It’s pretty simple, I was dating someone last year and into 2026. She was the best looking woman I’ve ever dated. Thin, sun-kissed skin, gorgeous smile, long hair, etc. She was Asian and exactly my type. Funny and athletic too!

As things went on we went hiking, on trips, and everything was exciting! She started spending a lot of time with me and it was no brainer for her birthday I was going to get her hot yoga lessons (she always wanted them but couldn’t afford them).

And that’s where things changed.

She went every day. We spent less time together. I got suspicious when she had a lot of family things coming up on weekends too that I couldn’t be a part of. Slowly we drifted apart and she ended it with me saying she wasn’t looking for a more long term commitment. I was heartbroken. 💔

Still I had paid for a few months of Yoga and when I confronted her about paying me back she said she couldn’t and to think of it like supporting someone I cared about and to not let it slip. Later I found out that she was dating someone in that class, always meeting up at the same times, hanging out together afterwards, cooking together and I heard through the grape vine that they were very sexual.

Problem is I guess is I started getting really turned on, I even sent her a Lululemon gift card to get her some fantastic yoga clothes and would check her social media posts to see her in the clothes I got her. This is where I started connecting more dots of the same guy in different group photos with her.

Idk there was something very erotic about still trying to impress her knowing sex and dating was now off limits.

Anyway not to make this any longer we’ve had many discussions about these yoga classes and I have re-upped her membership through the summer. She sends me little snippets of her exercise nights and she knows I beat off to them. lol.

Now we text and talk a bit on the phone and I can now fully see how our relationship has changed and where it could be heading. I’m curious about asking her if she’d lock me in chastity but haven’t fully crossed that bridge yet.

Anyway I hope you liked my story I’m happy to share more if you’d like.

Thank you.