r/IndiaFemdomAndFLR

What according to you is submission. Is it about touching feet, taking orders, punishment and all that? i had a moment few years ago that happened during a simple drive back after dinner. I had a horrible week work pressure, family expectations, constant mental exhaustion . But I still spent the evening trying to act normal, making conversation, opening doors for her, doing all the “good sub” things properly.

But while sitting in traffic on the way back, I just went quiet. Not angry quiet....Drained quiet. She noticed immediately and said, Stop performing for 10 minutes. You don’t always have to earn attention as a sub. Hearing that from her broke my usual guard down.The crazy part is she had to leave the country a few months later, and ever since then I keep replaying that small moment more than any intense session or fantasy. I think because for once someone noticed I was emotionally tired without me having to explain it. Indian men especially will understand this ,sometimes life makes you feel valued only when you’re useful... So when someone sees beyond that, it hits differently. Funny how the smallest moments are the ones you end up missing the most. Has anyone else had a non sexual moment in a that stayed with you for a long time?

Ill do anything you say , you can humilate me and control me , give me any kind of tasks , ill happily do it master goddess , use me as your punching bag , humilate me and show me my place . Dm

When i was introduced to femdom..I used to think domination was about commands, punishment, collars, all the obvious stuff. But the older I got I realised the strongest domination I’ve experienced has been completely mental. A woman(also my collegue at that time) texted me “behave yourself today” before I left for work. That was it. Nothing explicit. No scene. No instructions after that. And somehow that sentence sat in my head the entire day.I was checking my phone like an idiot during meetings hoping she’d text again. I caught myself fixing my posture at my desk because I knew she liked discipline. Even getting praised later with a simple “good boy” felt embarrassingly rewarding. Sometimes it’s just a woman understanding your mind well enough that her approval quietly starts controlling your behaviour without her even trying too hard. Honestly, I think mature submission becomes less physical over time and far more psychological. Anticipation, attention, tone, silence… those things hit harder than punishment ever has for me. And the craziest part is nobody around you notices it happening. You just look like a normal composed man while internally one woman has completely occupied space in your head.

A domme once made me read out a menu to her while she leaned back comfortably and listened. Halfway through, the waitress arrived at our table and I instinctively stopped talking.The domme looked up at me calmly and said, “Continue. Don’t get shy now, dumbfuck.The waitress tried not to react but still giggled a little.I don’t think I’ve ever felt humiliation hit me that quickly in public before.

Curious if others here feel the same way what’s the most subtle thing a domme did that completely stayed made you go crazy for her dominance?

Hey everyone,

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I’m a respectful, open-minded guy who’s been exploring the softer and more emotional side of femdom. I genuinely admire confident, caring, dominant women and the comfort, trust, and connection that comes with that dynamic

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I’d love to connect with a kind Mistress/Domme who enjoys guiding, caring, and creating a safe space where both people can be themselves comfortably. Whether it starts as friendship, mentorship, or something deeper, I’m open to seeing where the connection goes naturally

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