
Cash, gifts, PPM or allowance? What’s your ideal sugar dynamic?
I was just reading a rant posted on this sub where someone mentioned that accepting cash feels “creepy” to them, and it genuinely got me thinking - how different people approach the financial side of sugaring.
If you had the choice, what would your ideal arrangement look like?
• Monthly allowance?
• Weekly allowance?
• PPM?
• A mix of allowance and thoughtful gifts?
• Mostly gifts with financial support when needed?
More importantly… why?
I’d love to hear perspectives from both SBs and SDs. Is there a structure that makes the relationship feel more natural, more secure, or less transactional for you?