r/KinkMuslimContacts

24 [F4M] Australia – inexperienced hijabi seeking Muslim husband

Muslimah. 5’3 curvy, naturally submissive with a playful side. I have strong desires that I want to explore. I’m very affectionate, loyal, and craving attention.
Send a proper introduction with your age, location, and what you’re looking for.

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u/Rms_sh — 19 hours ago

23 [F4M] #Online Looking for my dom husband

I’m not interested in casual sex, sexting or friends.

I’m strictly looking for something serious. So there won’t be any NSFW conversations outside of establishing shared interests.

I’m gonna ask for a photo of you, please don’t reach out if that’s gonna be a problem.

some basic info about me:

Sexually, i feel like i’d have a high libido and prefer someone well endowed. i also read enough smut to know that i have a preference for darker kinks. like dom/sub etc. although i am not at all submissive outside my of the bedroom.

I’m a big reader, mostly romance and dark romance. I play video games but not much lately, I prefer playing with a partner. I’ve played COD, GTA, souls games, Sims, story-based games, etc. I play a bit of MTG. I like anime but I’m very selective. My current favorite is JJK. Also a big fan of the MCU.

I adore animals, especially cats, and I have three of my own (They come with me. So if having cats is an issue, you can stop here). Into yoga, skincare, and self-care in general.

I have a bit of a fiery personality so can be sassy and sarcastic at times. I’m very introverted with a small social circle so I’m not always great at socializing.

Physically: 169 cm (5'6), light skin, dark eyes, hijabi, average build. I’m Middle Eastern.

Things I’m looking for in a partner:

These are non-negotiable!! There’s not gonna be a magical reason that someone is an exception to my bare minimum, so PLEASE don’t message me if you don’t fit this.

A practicing Muslim, more on the liberal side. Age 25–35. Someone established. Similar interests would be great. Someone romantic who can make me laugh is a big bonus. I really value effort.

I don’t mind relocating but it would only be to an english speaking country or the GCC. So you would have to currently reside in one of those countries.

Physically: at least 178cm (5’10), fit/healthy, not bald, balding or has a receding hairline.

If all of this didn’t scare you away and think you fit the bill, feel free to message me. Tell me your age, your ethnic background, and where you live. I’m not replying to someone that just says ‘hey’. Please actually try and have a conversation, cuz if I keep getting dry responses from you, I just won’t bother.

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u/lazycummings — 5 days ago

25 [F4M] UK Switch seeking husband

Hi I'm 25yo switch from Scotland (don't mind relocating within the UK). I'm into all sorts tbf.. Kinks include:

Domme ones

-foot worship

-denial

-edging

-cbt

-sph

-piss

-pegging

-ball busting

-charity

-toys

-chocking

-cuckold

Sub ones:

-spanking

-edging

-denial

-chocking

-toys

I'm a hjjabi, respectful, have a job, and business degree if that matters.

Please have a beard, and be on Dean I'm sunni if that helps.

Only UK plz replies with a bit about you!

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u/littleone24x — 6 days ago

24 [F4M] #Online #Anywhere Hijabi woman looking to chat and talk with men

Hi I’m a hijabi based in Asia. Looking to chat or talk (voice calls) with men online. I’m happy to share photos only sparingly and when I feel like but not open to video chatting for obvious reasons. I’m relatively inexperienced sexually but have a lot of fantasies. In real life I’m a goody two shoes but secretly crave attention from men. If you do decide to reach out, share an intro about yourself n not just a hi/hello. Once we get to know each other would be happy to move to telegram.

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u/Rms_sh — 7 days ago

35 [F4M] #Dallas #TX - Muslim Femdom Seeking a Fit, Devoted Submissive Muslim Man for a Serious Relationship

Trying this again after I feel like I have gotten my bearings together and self-reflected on my life, my deen, and where I am at in this journey of life. I'm about to be 35, I'm 5’7 and 120 lbs. I just recently moved to the Dallas area recently and I was hoping to meet an interesting muslim sub who wants an emotional connection and a long-term relationship (eventually of course!!) Looking for a muslim man only who’s submissive, wants a longterm relationship that leads to marriage and kids, whose fit and muscular. Looking for someone who only eats halal, prays 5 times a day, fasts during ramadan, and reads Quran.

Lifting and fitness is a huge passion of mine, I'd say that fitness is something that has become a huge part of my life since I was 18 and I have always wanted someone who I can share that passion with. I have a professional degree with a corporate career. I’d like to be able to retire early and I am striving for a wealthy and rich lifestyle for myself and my loved ones, I am currently trying to build on the side a real estate empire, investing in real estate and building a portfolio while increasing my financial acumen. Financial success is definitely something I am striving towards, and looking to build alongside with someone.

I love spending time with my friends and families, love meeting new people and getting to know the really extensive Muslim community in DFW. I'm having a ton of fun with them, going to restaurants and trying new foods. I would love to travel more!! I love to travel, it’s a huge passion that makes me absolutely enjoy my life. I really love staying active and I love going on long walks or hiking! I used to surf and I skii too! Cooking is a hobby of mine as well, my friends tell me I’m a good chef and I enjoy counting my calories and tracking my macros (is it weird I weigh my food!?) It’s just one thing that makes me committed to my fit lifestyle. I do love to cook everything, especially for a cheat day, but overall my diet is focused on a healthy halal lifestyle!

Intellectual pursuits fascinate me and I am quite heavily invested in pursuing them recently: Philosophy fascinates me and I am slowly getting into Stoicism. Currently reading Stoic texts but I find that reading is such a mental based exercise it's something I wish to continue developing in the future.

My style of Fem Dom:

I want our relationship to stay between us, many members of our community are not really familiar with this and have preconceived notions on gender roles and sexuality. I am more of a gentle dom, I have a bit more of an emphasis on making you do tasks and having you complete them. (take out the trash, do the dishes, nothing weird etc., nothing super demanding). I have a HUGE thing for muscles, and I definitely love ordering you around and making sure that you lift and goto the gym, also I love a sub who keeps himself in shape because in some way I know he’s doing it for me, and if you look good shirtless it’s a bonus. My fem dom is quite gentle compared to the extremes I see on here, I am focused on a sub who is all about praise, a gentle fem dom dynamic that is about being attentive to my needs while also maintaining a romantic/emotional/intellectual connection. I am into ensuring he does all of my tasks, he is attentive to my needs, and he is good at keeping me happy. I enjoy being a corporate woman with strong credentials who also has a partner who is strong and masculine to the world, but submissive to me in private. I want someone who will worship my fit brown goddess body. I do not wish to discuss sexual, physical or kinks in the initial conversations, let’s please get to know one another and build a repertoire and comfort before we share such things.

What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for a submissive guy who is looking for something serious eventually. I want something that has an emotional connection. I find with a lot of subs there is a huge emphasis on the lifestyle, but not enough on connecting emotionally. I want to reassure you that I am fully committed to the fem dom lifestyle, just need to be in a monogamous relationship so that I can really enjoy it with someone who I can trust and feel secure with. I love my life, I just want to round out this part of me. I’m very well-rounded and an absolute boss babe, just need someone to add to that. I also want to be able to get along with him outside the bedroom, feel like I’m in a ‘normal’ relationship while also getting to know each other! I want to be in a spiritually aligned relationship with Deen while also privately exploring our physical, mental, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual relationship.

At the core, what I’m looking for is a partner who is attentive, emotionally available, spiritually aligned, and who wants to make me happy not out of obligation, but because he feels connected to me. The submissive energy shows up in our daily life such as being supportive, consistent, disciplined, taking pride in pleasing me, and also taking care of himself physically and mentally.

These are my must haves:

  • I prefer a younger guy who is 25-30 but I don't mind someone who is less than 35 years old
  • A Muslim and actively practicing his deen
  • Height is always nice but will not hold it against anyone as most of brown guys are short kings (and we love them either way)
  • South Asian (I love my other ethnic brothers and sisters, but something I've come to realize is for me it's important to be culturally aligned)
  • Professional and educated
  • Serious about a long term relationship leading to marriage and children
  • Serious about fitness (this is a huge ask for me please)

I’d love to hear more about you though: your lifestyle, your deen, fitness, career, and what you’re ultimately looking for long term. That matters to me just as much as the dynamic. Longer responses get my attention.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

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u/Cougar_Hunting_492 — 7 days ago

32 [M4F] #London, UK - Black Muslim Brother. Seeking regular, discreet fwb, who can take a lil ‘disrespect’ in the sheets; become my personal hijabi slut 😈

I prefer meeting fairly early, quick video call or something fun like 8 ball pool. For the hijabi sisters, I respect your privacy/modesty, so I’m flexible about options for the vibe check. Twice divorced, so well acquainted with the whole marriage search processes.

Looking for something casual, discreet & regular enough to get comfortable with some taboo kinks, including:
- Roleplay
- Risky “just out of sight”
- Breeding / Creampie
- Transparent &/or Easy Access Clothing (e.g. Abaya, Jilbaab)
- Freeuse & ‘Bored & Ignored’
- CNC (particularly Somnophilia & Play Fighting)
- Race play
- Religion Play (I.e. mild Blasphemy)
- Light BDSM (wild switch, tame or be tamed)

I don’t expect you to be into all of my kinks, but let me know which of my kinks you share or wanna explore. If you’re lucky I’ll let you in on the more taboo ones later on 😏

What the ladies say: "big hands”, “stronger than I thought”, "nice lips", "skilled tongue" 😈, so if you like what you hear and you’re in/near London, looking for something low-pressure, consistent, and a bit exciting on the side, feel free to message. Open to all ladies, but Desi & Maghreb sisters to the front of the queue.

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u/49demha — 10 days ago

29 F4M I’m kinda hoping for someone interesting ideally south asian (although open to all)

Hiya guys, just looking to see what’s out there and see if I can find someone my type, which would be someone who knows when to joke around and when exactly to get me all hot and bothered (which is more often than not)

I tend to like reading, shopping , and cooking different cuisines(sometimes). I don’t have a favourite book per se but I like fiction and fantasy genre

Looking for someone betweek 21-39 (hard limit) I’ll respond to your messages if I feel we may vibe

Also please bear with me if I fall asleep while talking cause I tend to do that sometimes cause of how tired I get through the day

Also no nicknames they gimme the ick

I would prefer south asian men just as its easier for me to chat with them

I’m based in the UK so someone who’s in the UK or can align to the timezone would be preferred and I’d expect you to have good english cause its a struggle otherwise

I’m expecting the guy to be taller than 5’10

I’d atleast like to chat and see how things go

I’m a muslim. I’ve got quite a few kinks but I can’t openly describe them on here and would prefer to discuss these with the person I talk to

Mods: I hope this post fits in properly, please let me know if there are any issues

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u/Delicious-Claim9237 — 10 days ago

32F4M ISO a real connection UK

You may have seen my last post. I deleted it because I got a lot of messages offering casual sex. If that is what you’re here for, don’t dm me!!

I guess if you clicked on my post you‘re a dominant man who has a sweet side. Keep reading if you are a practicing Muslim looking for a practicing hijabi woman. Please leave if you’re married.

I have to admit I’m feeling a little lonely recently at the end of these longer days. I want a deep, calm, soothing voice to hear before I go to sleep at night. Someone who will ask me about my day and tell me about theirs. We’ll talk late into the night and find a connection while the world is silent around us. I need someone who is strong, confident and manly, without being overbearing or pushy.

I don’t want a friend with benefits. If the sexual tension is strong we can think about exploring it in a halal manner, when we know that our connection is real and we’re willing to commit to each other.

When we’re married I want you to take the lead in the bedroom. I’m submissive by nature and I want to please you. But all of that is to be discovered and experienced within the boundaries of what’s permitted in Islam. Once again, please don’t message me if you’re looking for pre-marital sex.

If this sounds like it could be you, message me to introduce yourself. I need you to be in the UK; time differences won’t work for my very specific request, sorry. Muslim men, age 30+ only.

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u/My1279 — 12 days ago

M4F #NYC Practicing Muslim looking for something very specific (pleasing kink) with a like minded Muslimah

Salaam,

I'm the last person that people would expect to find on here, but that makes the appeal of it all the more greater. I am 34 M, conventionally attractive (tall, muscular, etc) and have a very successful career and hold multiple leadership positions in my local community. Due to multiple issues (career, aging parents I'm responsible for solely, and more we can discuss privately) | am not in a position to "settle down" just yet in the traditional sense, but am open

I want someone to share my secret with, I have a very specific kink - I am a pleaser. What does it for me is pleasing, whatever that looks like to you. It can be something as little as cuddling, to oral, to whatever YOU want. Perhaps it's because of the demands of my normal life, but I simply want to fulfill your needs and nothing more.

Who I'm Looking for: We've all been here, especially if you have a demanding career or are having trouble finding "the one" to settle down. I want to be someone's outlet. Whether its from a stressful job, or fulfilling your needs until you find your forever, I want you to use me to fill in the gap (only literally if you want it to be). Long day at work, only to look forward to an evening of unproductive swiping to find Mr. Right for the thousandth time?
Let me be your de-stressor. You set the rules, you set the limits, I simply comply. And then we both return to our stressful "real worlds" and high paced jobs and lives, only with the added excitement of our new secret until next time.

On demand, tor you, always.

If this got you curious even a little bit, let's have a chat and see where things go :)

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u/Mujahid5515 — 12 days ago