r/KinkMuslimContacts

Salamualaikum!

I’m a not-so-young-anymore lady looking to explore my submissive side in a halal way. I think I’m a sub leaning switch based on the research I’ve done online, but I can’t be sure yet as I’m inexperienced. I‘m eager to test this theory through practice and experience with you, my dominant and loving husband.

If I could only try one kink, it would be bondage. Rope, handcuffs, restraints, choking, a blindfold. And you patiently, gently, teasingly guiding me through my pleasure and yours.

Strangely, even though I lean towards submissive tendencies, I’ve developed an interest in nursing and ABF (if you know you know). I see it as a way of caring for you, helping you to relax and providing you with love and comfort.

Ultimately my goal is to please you and be whatever you need from me.

Aftercare is essential. After a session I will need you to remind me how much you love me and how well I did. Praise me, cuddle me, kiss me, spoon me as we go to sleep. If this is not your thing then unfortunately we are incompatible.

Us being able to communicate comfortably about these things is important to me.

Requirements: 29-36 year old males only. You must be in the UK or have plans to be here within the next few months. I don’t want this to be an online fwb. If we click I’d want to meet up soon, and not do anything haram when we meet.

Limits: anal, rape, non-monogamy, pain, abuse.

Send me a message if this sounds like your cup of tea. Don’t send one saying “hi/hey/hello“

Been lurking for a bit and I keep seeing abbreviations and slang that go completely over my head 😅
Is there a glossary somewhere or can someone explain the common terms people use here? Would appreciate it. Thanks!

About me: I’m divorced, a convert/revert (ethnically white if it matters), and I have primary custody of a small child. I have a couple grad degrees but I currently write for a living. I enjoy travelling, reading, gardening, hiking, knitting and embroidery. I have a curvier/fuller body type. I wear hijab and dress modestly.

I’m located 1.5 hours north of Toronto and quite settled (own a home etc) but I am potentially able to relocate for the right person. This would require you to be willing and able to make a visit here within a month of us talking to ensure compatibility in person.

About you: I am attracted to men who are quite dominant, successful, masculine, and confident outside the home. Age doesn’t matter to me, I’m open to younger or older. You should have a provider mindset and ideally in future I would either stay home with the kids or work part time if necessary.

Physicality isn’t a dealbreaker but I tend to be attracted to taller and broader/stronger men. You must either be Muslim or willing to convert. I’m not looking to have a sexual relationship prior to nikkah. I would like to have children in the next few years.

What I’m into:
-Getting my way
-Micromanaging and controlling you
-Bullying you
-Sexual aggression, being mean
-Slavery, you as my property
-Service, you cooking for me, feeding me, bathing me, washing my hair
-Body worship
-Orgasm control and denial
-Being sexually selfish
-Being adored, the highlight of your day, your compass, your purpose

What I’m not into:
-Role reversal. Nothing about a house husband appeals to me and taking on masculine roles wouldn’t come naturally to me. Outside the home, you’re in charge. You lead, protect, and provide. Behind closed doors, you’re mine.

-Feminization. Nothing about a feminine man appeals to me. The stronger and hairier you are, the better

-Someone who wants to be forced to submit. I’m not looking to wrestle you into this. I want a strong man who is capable of taking control if he wanted, but actively chooses to kneel at my feet.

-Anything short term, casual, online, etc

Please only message me if you’re serious, you know what you want, and you’re ready to pursue something marriage-shaped.

I’m unlikely to respond to low effort replies.

Hello,

I’m a muslim wanting to eventually marry someone who matches the level of my kinks. Ideally someone over 6 ft and on the leaner side or atleast skinny.

I’d prefer to discuss my kinks in private once I’ve spoken to you, as some of them are a bit intense

I cannot negotiate on your english typing / speaking skills as I absolutely cannot stand improper language or the risk of being not understood or misunderstood.

Dms are open please feel free to message me with a small introduction.

25 and above only please.

26 F4M Sweden - Submissive looking for dominant muslim seeking to marry. However I need to find someone who is Iranian, the reason is a bit private but it will make sense.

About me: Im a new convert/revert who is white and was raised as atheist. I have no children. I have a bachelor in electrical engineering. And im very nerdy about technical stuff and sci fi etc. I dress modestly.

Im located around Stockholm but am expecting to relocate to the husband I marry. I enjoy cooking and I like to get stuff done and not procastinate even if I'm also good at that.

About you: I am attracted to men who are quite dominant, masculine, and confident outside the home. Age doesn’t matter to me, I’m open to younger or older.

What I’m into:

\-Being micromanaged and controlled

\-Being bullied

\-Sexual aggression

\-Slavery, me as my property

\-Bondage, being tied up and restricted a lot

\-Objectification, being treated as a sex object

Please only message me if you’re serious and Iranian, I have my reasons and will tell you why. I want to get married and move to you.

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Hello, my husband want to be pretend as stranger and want to force himself upon me in cnc while i will be talking on phone with my husband. What are your thoughts about it?

In majority of the scenarios, he wants me to act as married woman where some strange is touching me without my consent and my body feeling pleasure while my husband is away. I feel bit awkward, isn't it cheating?

Note: we don't involve 3rd person we two only act

Hi! I’m a 20-year-old Muslim woman from Burnaby looking for a serious, long-term relationship with someone who is genuinely compatible with me.

About me

20 years old
5’6
70 kgs
Chubby (so please be comfortable dating someone who isn’t skinny)
I’m told I have a cute face (but that’s up to you to decide)
Curly hair
Emotionally mature
Smart, but I enjoy being able to relax and let my partner take the lead.
Clingy
Very naturally submissive with the right man.
Muslim.
I do NOT wear the hijab.

I’m looking for a caring, protective, affectionate, dominant man who enjoys leading in everyday life, not just in the bedroom. I value emotional intelligence, consistency, kindness, and someone who naturally takes initiative. I want a relationship where we both invest heavily in each other.

The dynamics I’m naturally drawn to include:

A Daddy/little (DDLG/CGL) dynamic centered around care, guidance, protection, affection, praise, and structure.
A 24/7 power exchange rather than something that’s only for the bedroom.
A relationship with clear communication, mutual trust, agreed-upon rules, routines, accountability, and rewards.
A dynamic where gentle discipline, guidance, and correction have a place when appropriate.
Lots of praise, reassurance, affection, and aftercare.
A protective, nurturing partner who enjoys looking after me and helping me feel safe.
Someone comfortable with me being bratty at times and who can handle it with patience and consistency.
Someone who enjoys taking responsibility, making decisions, and leading while always respecting boundaries and consent.

Requirements

Muslim.
Looking for a serious, long-term relationship.
21–25 years old.
Lives in Vancouver or the surrounding area.
At least 5’11” (180 cm).
Someone I’m physically attracted to.
Emotionally mature and emotionally intelligent.
Not skinny.
Naturally dominant.
Sweet, caring, affectionate, and protective.
Takes initiative, notices the little things, and is thoughtful without needing to be asked.
Comfortable being very affectionate and invested in the relationship.
Not avoidant or overly introverted.
Feminist.
Enjoys sharing TikToks, reels, memes, and little moments throughout the day.
Comfortable with the relationship dynamic described above.
Never wants children.

A few important things

Please be okay with dating a chubby girl.
I’m looking for something genuine. I won’t be sexually active until we’ve built a strong emotional connection and I genuinely feel emotionally safe, secure, and satisfied in the relationship.
I’m not interested in hookups, casual dating, or people looking to rush intimacy.
I won’t post my photo publicly because I’d rather someone be interested in me as a person first. I’m happy to exchange photos privately once we’ve gotten to know each other a little.
If you don’t meet the requirements above, I won’t be responding. It’s nothing personal—I just want to respect both our time.

If all of this sounds like what you’re looking for, send me a message introducing yourself. Tell me about who you are, what you’re looking for, and why you think we’d be compatible.

One last thing that’s important for compatibility: I’m a very kinky person, so I do want a partner who is genuinely comfortable with that side of me. In particular, I’m interested in a DDLG/CGL dynamic and very deep age regression as part of a consensual adult relationship. This is an important part of my ideal relationship, but it’s built on trust, emotional safety, communication, and mutual consent.
I don’t want you to JUST tolerate it, if you don’t want it then it won’t work.
Thank you.

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Selamunaleykum, I'm a Muslim man living in the Netherlands but not Dutch. I'm not a 100 percent sure why I'm posting this on Reddit but there is a yearning for more, that flirtatious sparkle throughout the day, the anticipation of your sight, the melody in your voice. I'm looking for a lady who's also into powerplay, CNC and a whole lot of other things, misyar is also an option, let's explore together what's possible...